16 Perfect Gifts to Make Your Holidays Extra Sexy

Leave something naughty under the tree

If you ask me, Christmas is sexy as hell.

Part of it is the aesthetics. Because it gets dark so early, you get to enjoy lots of great mood lighting. The decorations are sweet and playful too. And the colorful twinkle lights are fun and soothing.

Not to mention all the hotties in sweaters and leggings.

But the sexiest thing isn’t how the holidays look - it’s the way it feels.

The days get slower and more intimate. Everyone’s being extra sweet and generous. There’s snow piled high but you get to stay in and be warm.

The only way to make it any sexier is to actually have sex.

And when you do, you should definitely make the most of it.

Plan a few dirty date nights. Wear some seasonally appropriate lingerie. Maybe do some special occasion butt stuff.

If you’ve got a fireplace, you have to fuck in front of it at least once in December. That’s like a rule, I’m pretty sure.

And of course, you can really spice things up with a few sexy gifts.

There are so many fun and exciting ways to treat yourself and your partner. These are some of my personal recommendations.

Womanizer Premium 2

There are toys that are for fooling around. There are toys that are really good for teasing. There are toys that will build up your arousal.

Clit suckers aren’t really like that.

They’re for coming - and pretty much nothing else.

Which isn’t a bad thing at all. They’re a great way to hit a quick, intense, and really satisfying climax - one that’s so fast it feels like it sneaks up on you.

The pleasure is pretty unique, too. It doesn’t feel quite like a vibrator - it gives its own amazing kind of stimulation.

Giving someone a clit sucker is basically gifting them as many big, easy orgasms as they want.

Any good clit sucker will get you there, but the Womanizer Premium 2 would make a great suction toy for just about anyone with a clit. It’s comfortable to hold, easy to use, and has settings that work really well for more sensitive gals.

I’ve only started using it recently, but I already love it. I’ve got other great clit suckers, but this is the one I keep reaching for.

King Cock Elite

Dildos are way more versatile than clit suckers.

They’re not necessarily great for quick, easy orgasms. But there are so many playful ways to use them.

They’re great for solo play when you want to fantasize about getting fucked. Or when you crave the feeling of having something thrusting inside you.

I like using them to slowly build my pleasure and work myself up to some clit stimulation. They’re great for blended orgasms too - like riding an artificial cock while you’re letting a wand go to town on your clit.

And they’re so much fun when you’re doing partnered play too.

It’s a perfect toy for roleplaying a threesome - or if your partner fantasizes about watching you get fucked.

You can experience new things, too. Like double penetration or how amazing it feels to have a cock thrusting inside you while you’re getting your pussy eaten.

And I find it even more exciting with a realistic dildo like the King Cock Elite.

It’s a gorgeous cock, with all the details you want to see and feel in a dick. But it has a softness and flexibility that makes it really comfortable and easy to use.

It’s a really great choice for anyone who wants more penetration in their life.

The Tryst Couples Vibrator

The Tryst is a strange looking toy. Kind of like a bendy silicone wishbone.

But that odd shape is what makes it such a great couples vibrator.

The flexible arms hug the shaft of the cock, and that keeps the toy in the right position to give really good clit stimulation while you’re pounding away.

It’s sort of like a vibrating cockring, except I’ve found those a little disappointing. The Tryst always feels incredible.

You can wear it a few different ways, so you can find the one that really hits the spot. You can treat the balls to some buzzy sensations too if you want.

Basically, it lets you enjoy all the same penetrative fucking you normally would - only with way more intense orgasms.

A Classic Fleshlight

I know I don’t have to tell you about Fleshlights. Everyone knows about them.

But a lot of people don’t know how awesome they are.

It’s made of really great soft, squishy material that feels especially cool when it’s wet and lubricated.

Most of them have highly textured interiors with lots of really stimulating ridges that are great for pleasuring a cock.

The plastic casing gives you something nice and solid to hold onto while you stroke with it.

And the realistic pussy lip design gives you a really arousing visual. Watching a hard cock part those wet lips and pump into that pussy is seriously fucking hot.

There are tons of really cool Fleshlights, but I recommend the Stamina Training Unit.

It’s made to be incredibly stimulating, so it’s great for guys who want to practice lasting longer, need a lot of action to get off, or who just want to treat their cock to something super pleasurable.

The Lush Wearable Vibrator

As much as I love vibrators like the Tryst, my favorite kind of couples toys are the ones you can use at long distances.

I really get off on being teased. I’m turned on by the idea of being under my partner’s control. And I get extra horny from pleasure that catches me by surprise.

A good remote controlled toy will give me all of that.

And my absolute favorite is the Lush.

It’s a wearable and insertable vibrator that’s really discreet and gives great internal stimulation.

The vibrations are really pleasurable, but the best part is how arousing they are. Every little buzz makes me want more. I don’t have to wear it long before it makes me ridiculously horny.

The app is really easy to use, too. And it’s way smoother than clicking through vibration patterns on a remote.

It makes foreplay extra playful, it’s a little bit kinky, and it’s a very reliable way of getting in the mood for some really dirty sex.

Her Ultimate Pleasure Pro

I wasn’t sure how I was going to feel about the Her Ultimate Pleasure Pro. It has a few different features and I worried it would be too much.

But nope, it’s not.

It’s just plain incredible.

The original Her Ultimate Pleasure is a pussy eating machine - and a really good one too.

I wasn’t sure they could top it, but they did. Because the Her Ultimate Pleasure Pro isn’t just a pussy eating toy - it’s also a blended orgasm machine.

It gives three different kinds of stimulation - licking with the mechanical tongue, pussy pumping, and internal vibrations. And because it gives all three at the same time, it results in some seriously mindblowing orgasms.

An Adult Time Membership

A porn membership is a really good naughty gift because there are so many ways to enjoy it.

It can be a way to help your partner get turned on and excited. It gives them plenty of great, high-quality material to can get off to.

It also gives you lots to watch with them on dirty date nights or when you want to enjoy some good old fashioned mutual masturbation.

The only tricky thing is finding the right porn, because it’s got to hit some specific kinks and preferences.

That’s why I consider Adult Time a really safe choice. It’s an all-purpose porn gift.

Image from Family Vacation by Pure Taboo

It gives you access to a massive amount of porn that’s really well organized. There are narrative scenes, full-length porn films, scenes that are just straight up banging.

I personally can’t get enough of the dubious consent scenes on Pure Taboo. The all-girl action on Girlsway is really hot and playful. The massage porn on Fantasy Massage is a really good blend of sensual action and explicit, hardcore sex.

There’s way more than I can name, so whatever your partner’s into there’s probably lots of it on the site. But more importantly, there’s so much variety that it’s easy to find something you can both enjoy together.

Glow in the Dark Cuffs

Adding a little bit of bondage to your life is a very good way to spice things up.

You can keep it simple too, especially if you’re still experimenting.

A blindfold is a good place to start. A couple of toys like a feather tickler or a gentle paddle can really add to the experience.

A good set of cuffs will make a big difference, too.

Using restraints is a really good way to play around with a little sexual submission. Just wearing them is enough to make sex feel kinkier.

The Kink the Dark Hog Tie cuffs glow in the dark, which is really fun. And I love the way the white and black coloring looks when the lights are on too.

And because it’s a set with four cuffs, you can keep it light and bind the wrists together - or you can go a little more hardcore with the full hogtie.

A Tenga Spinner

Okay, so I don’t have a dick. But that doesn’t mean I don’t have a favorite stroker.

I can’t recommend the Tenga Spinner enough because it’s just so impressive.

It’s made of soft and squishy stuff like pretty much any stroker. It’s also got some great, slightly firmer textures on the inside to level up the pleasure.

But it doesn’t just stroke - it also rotates around the cock every time you tug down on it.

It basically mimics that handjob move where you do a twisting motion while jacking someone off. I don’t have the coordination it takes to actually do that, so I’m super impressed that there’s a toy that can do it for me.

It’s a great way to give extra stimulation without actually having to put any more work into your stroke. As someone whose arms and wrists get sore too easily, that’s exactly what I want out of a cock toy.

The All That Glimmers Wand

I went years without owning a wand vibrator, and I was totally missing out.

I had vibrators, sure. But wands are different.

They’re nice and powerful. Most of them are a little more rumbly than buzzy. Because they vibrate over a large surface, you can feel the stimulation spread out more.

The handles on them are great, too. They’re comfortable to hold. They’re really easy for someone else to use on you. And you can find lots of ways to hold them in place for hands-free orgasms.

Full sized wands look really powerful and mechanical, which has its own appeal for sure.

Mini wands can be amazing and they’re super convenient, but they don’t really have the same feel as a standard wand.

That’s why I’m really into the ones that are somewhere in the middle. A little smaller and easier to use, but still big and strong.

That’s what you get with the All That Glimmers wand. It’s right in that mid-sized sweet spot.

And it just so happens to be cute as can be.

It’s gorgeous, colorful, sparkly - and will make you come really fucking hard too.

The Fascinator Throw

The Fascinator Throw is a practical gift - but like, a sexy one.

It’s a sex blanket. I know that might not sound like much, but it’s hands down one of the best sex accessories I own.

It’s got a soft outer layer that feels nice against your skin, even when you’re lying full naked on top of it.

It’s fairly light, but heavy enough to stay in place when you’re fooling around on top of it.

And it has a completely waterproof inner lining, so it keeps your bed or your couch fully protected.

That means you can get as messy as you want and you won’t have to change your sheets - and no one has to sleep on the wet spot.

It can handle squirting, lube, come - whatever.

I use it all the time and it really helps me let go and just enjoy myself. I can have whatever kind of dirty, filthy sex I want because I’m not worried about the mess it might make.

Once you fuck on top of it, you’ll probably never want to do it without laying out the sex blanket first.

Sexy Stocking Stuffers

Sex toys can make you come, they can make sex really intense, and they can help you discover new kinds of pleasure.

But there are a lot of little extras that can be incredibly fun to use too.

Massage oils are one of them. If you can give your partner a slippery rubdown, it’s a guaranteed way to have great foreplay.

A dry massage really isn’t the same. I’ve used lube and it’s not bad - it’ll do in a pinch. But it’s way better if you have something that stays slick and lasts.

The Slow Sex Full Body Massage gel is a really good option for that. It’s basically made for foreplay, but it’s really good for any kind of intimate massage.

Mouthwatering Spray is a lot of fun, too.

One quick spray in your mouth and you’ll start drooling. Which might be a little inconvenient in most cases, but is perfect if you’re giving head.

I use it when I have dry mouth and I don’t want it to spoil the experience. If you don’t have that problem, it’s still a great way to give a really sloppy, super stimulating blowjob.

Lip Tease Kissable Stimulant is another great little gift.

It’s a really effective arousal oil. One dab to the clit and you can definitely feel it working.

It stimulates your clit just enough so that you can’t ignore it, which is going to make you physically aroused, wet, and thinking your dirtiest thoughts.

It’s also flavored and edible, which comes in handy when you act on those thoughts.

I’m also a really big fan of straight up flavored lube.

I don’t often give head without any because as much as I like plain dick, I prefer one that tastes like dessert.

The extra wetness makes it easier on my lips too - and it’s extra stimulating on the receiving end.

There are dozens of flavored lubes I love, but I’ve been really enjoying the Wet Desserts Frosted Cupcake lube lately. It’s not the slickest flavored lube out there, but it makes up for it by being super tasty.

And then there are Kix’ies.

They’re gorgeous thigh-highs that you can wear even if you don’t think of yourself as a lingerie person.

Putting them on is going to make you feel more attractive and look sexy as hell. It’s an easy way to show off your thighs and get your partner excited.

And you can keep them on when the hanky panky gets started if you want to give them some really good visuals.

Spice Up Your Holidays

As much as I love Christmas, there’s one thing I don’t like about it.

It can be really fucking stressful.

There are big meals to cook. There are presents to shop for. There’s plenty of organizing to do.

Most of the holiday is nice and chill, but there are some busy pockets that can set your nerves on edge.

That’s one of the reasons I like to make room for some naughty fun over the holidays.

It’s a way to feel physically connected with my husband. It’s an opportunity to indulge my naughty side.

And it’s a really good way to relax and unwind - because it’s hard to feel stressed when you’re getting fucked hard and coming even harder.

So, make sure you’ve got a few sexy gifts and some dirty evenings planned. After all that busy stuff is over, it’s exactly what you’re going to need.

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