6 Tips for Making a Woman Squirt
Turn your lady into a human geyser
About once a week, I get an email or a DM from someone asking me about squirting. And it’s almost always the same question.
I don’t hear from women who feel self-conscious about the fact that they squirt and want reassurance that it’s normal. (It is. There’s nothing weird about it.)
And I haven’t heard from any guys who are worried that their girlfriend’s squirt is really pee.
Instead, the people who reach out to me are looking for tips.
They’re guys who want to give their girlfriends an extremely wet orgasm but have no idea how to actually accomplish that.
Some of them tell me they’ve tried everything to make it happen and they want help troubleshooting their technique.
Once in a while, I’ll also hear from women who wonder if there’s a way to make themselves gush when they come.
Those messages surprised me at first because I thought squirting was kind of a niche thing. I knew it happened to some women pretty regularly but I figured most people didn’t go out of their way to make it rain.
But I was completely wrong. It turns out there are lots of women who want to know how to do it and even more men who are eager to turn their partners into orgasmic fountains.
So, here’s my cheat sheet. If you want to make your lady squirt, this is the best way to make it happen.
Lay Out a Waterproof Blanket
If the goal is squirting, a waterproof blanket just makes sense. It’ll save you the trouble of changing the sheets after you’re done and you won’t have to worry about anything seeping through to the mattress.
But it does more than that. Laying one on the bed will actively help your lady squirt.
This was the thing that held me back the most. If I ever felt a strong orgasm coming and thought it might make me squirt, I would get so nervous about getting everything wet that I’d hold back.
Instead of just riding out the good feelings and letting my body do whatever the hell it felt like, I’d get my husband to pull back on the stimulation or I’d find another way to basically ruin my orgasm.
Even when I wanted to squirt, worrying about the sheets was enough to take me out of my orgasmic headspace and I would end up with a weaker and not nearly as wet climax.
Laying out a waterproof blanket means your partner can stop worrying about the sheets or feeling self-conscious about the kind of mess she might make. Instead, she can focus entirely on getting that gushy orgasm.
I use the Liberator Fascinator Throw. It’s a soft, all-purpose sex blanket that’s completely impermeable. It’s basically a sex essential - especially for a squirter.
Get Her Extremely Aroused
Squirting orgasms tend to be pretty big orgasms. And she won’t be able to achieve those if she isn’t fully turned on.
You’ll have a much better chance of making her squirt if she’s hella horny first, so make sure you’re building up to your squirting technique. Start with flirting, teasing, some lighter foreplay.
Kiss her neck, lick her nipples, and squeeze her hips. Talk dirty to her while you softly rub her pussy. Give her clit some slow licks to really warm her up.
If she’s into it, you can also edge her. That’s basically an arousal secret weapon. Every time you do it, she’ll get more and more turned on and desperate for an orgasm.
Get her breathing heavily. Make her pant and moan and squirm. Then she’ll be ready for what’s coming next.
Focus on Her G-Spot
It’s entirely possible to give a woman a squirting orgasm by stimulating her clit.
My first squirting orgasms were all thanks to my massaging showerhead. Something about the way the jets sprayed against my clit created a perfect storm for some very warm and wet orgasms.
The first time I squirted with a partner, it was during a pussyjob. His cock slid across my pussy, rubbing against my lips and clit until it made me come hard.
But even though it’s possible to achieve clitoral squirting orgasms, by far the easiest and most reliable way is with G-spot stimulation.
You shouldn’t neglect her clit. Rubbing and licking it is a great way to get her turned on and warmed up. And pleasuring your clit while you’re giving her internal stimulation is always a great move.
But if you’re going to make her squirt, you should be focusing most of your efforts on her G-spot.
Use Your Wrist
When you’re using your fingers to pleasure a woman’s G-spot, chances are you’re doing one of two things.
You’re either pushing your fingers in and out of her pussy or you’re keeping your hand in place and moving your index and middle fingers in that “come hither” motion.
Both of those are fantastic. They feel really fucking good and do a good job of stimulating the G-spot.
What they both do, though, is rub the G-spot.
If you want to make your partner squirt, you should tap it instead.
I don’t understand the physiology behind this. I have no idea why it works. I just know that it does. There’s something about fingers tapping on the G-spot repeatedly that encourages some very wet orgasms.
And tapping the G-spot is all about using your wrist.
Slide your index and middle fingers inside her. Crook them like you would when you’re rubbing her G-spot. But instead of rubbing, hold them in place and just move your wrist. Your hand will move in a rocking motion and your fingers will tap her in the perfect spot to make her gush.
Go Fast
Some women, like myself, tend to prefer slow or soft stimulation. My best orgasms tend to come from slow and steady action.
But squirting’s different. It usually takes a lot of speed and vigor.
You don’t have to go too hard when you’re tapping her G-spot (in fact, it might be uncomfortable if you use too much force) but you definitely have to go fast.
It might be possible to get her to squirt by going slowly, but I haven’t found it to be very effective. And judging from every squirting video I’ve seen, speed seems pretty much essential.
So, really put your arm into it. Use up as much energy as you can. Do it so fast you tire yourself out.
You might end up feeling a bit sore. Your arm will probably need a break after you’re done. But it’s worth it to give her such an explosive orgasm.
Get Her to Bear Down
A lot of people don’t realize that making your partner squirt is actually a two person job.
You have to put in some of the work. You have to get her turned on. You have to move your wrist and tap her just right.
But to increase the chances of squirting, she’ll have to contract her muscles. Specifically, she’ll have to bear down while she’s having an orgasm.
When she feels herself about to come, she needs to concentrate on basically flexing the muscles she has below the waist.
It’s subtle - she might not even look like she’s doing anything. But it takes some effort and you will most certainly feel it around your fingers.
When she’s getting close, encourage her to bear down. It might make it harder for you to move your fingers and tap her G-spot, but it’s going to make it so much easier to get the results you’re both aiming for.
Get Wet and Messy
Squirting orgasms are very cool, visually appealing, and a good, splashy fun time in general.
But the best thing about them is that they don’t have to be one and done. I’ve managed to have several squirting orgasms in a row.
So, if you enjoyed making your partner come and gush, you don’t have to stop. You can keep making her squirt over and over until she’s spent, starting to get sore, or wants to move on to some other kind of action.
Just keep tapping her G-spot as long as your wrist can take it and see how much your sex blanket can handle.
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If you liked this article, definitely check out the My Squirting Journey (And How to Squirt) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!
