This Porn Scene Proves Consent Is Sexy (Review of The Yes List)

Review of Adult Time’s The Yes List

Note: this post contains nudity (you’re welcome!)

“Can I kiss you?”

That’s the line that divides people.

Everyone agrees that consent is important and necessary. But the agreement stops at whether it’s actually sexy.

Some people insist that it is. That explicit consent isn’t just a formality you need to go through before feeling someone up or boning down. It can actually get you hot and bothered.

That’s usually when people will bring out the kissing line.

They’re in favor of implicit consent or whatever, but they’re quick to tell you that someone asking for permission to kiss them would be a total turn off.

They want sex to be passionate. They want to feel the intensity. They want to fuck like horny animals.

And doing something totally wimpy like asking if you’re allowed to pucker just spoils the mood.

I don’t buy it, though.

I kind of get where they’re coming from. In the right circumstances, I love to feel like I’m being taken. And there’s something arousing about someone being completely unrestrained during sex.

But I also know your heart can skip a beat when someone you want to kiss asks you if they can. Or if they can grope your tits. Or finger you. Or call you a sweet little slut.

That doesn’t ruin your fun. It just makes you really excited for it.

It creates a little moment of anticipation between their words and what they're going to do to you.

It makes you feel safer, which helps you let go and have the wild, uninhibited sex you fantasize about.

It’s basically a gentle form of dirty talk - and there’s not nearly enough of that if you ask me.

So yeah, I’m firmly in the consent is sexy camp.

And now, I don’t just have to insist that explicit consent can be arousing. I’ve got actual proof.

Communication Is Hot as Hell

Consent is a huge part of filming porn, but it normally takes place behind the scenes. Or the discussions take place on camera and get cut out of the final edit.

That makes a lot of sense. Porn doesn’t need to start with on-screen consent conversations.

I’m here to watch people fuck. I want the roleplay and the storyline. I don’t need all the behind the scenes setup - I just want performers to convince me that some impressionable dude is going to give in to his horny stepsister’s advances.

The Yes List doesn’t leave out the consent conversation, though. It also doesn’t tack an interview before the action. It makes it part of the scene in a believable way - like it would be in a good hookup.

And the results are incredible.

Siri Dahl is one lucky gal. She has a date with two hot guys (Wolf Hudson and Johnny Hill). And fuck whatever plans they had, because Siri wants to get down to business.

She’s forward and attractively confident, so she lays her cards right on the table.

She doesn’t want dinner - she wants a threesome. And to kick it off, she lets them know what she’s into.

She likes her body touched. She likes to be teased and warmed up - she loves the anticipation.

“I like fingers - in everything,” she adds, getting visibly turned on. “I really want to suck both of your cocks.”

This isn’t a formality - it’s foreplay. It’s full blown dirty talk.

“God, this is turning me on so much,” she says after telling them she wants her ass eaten but might not want anal penetration. And yeah, it’s mutual - I’m already flustered and jealous of everyone in the scene even though their clothes haven’t even come off.

Johnny Hill goes next, talking about what he’s into in a charmingly chill way. He gives details, but it’s all really summed up in one line - “buttholes do a lot for me.”

Wolf Hudson slowly strips Siri’s clothes off while she listens. Then he lays out his own preferences.

“What really gets me off is watching a woman watching me with a man. I can’t wait to see the glimmer in your eyes.”

Fuck. Yes.

Every word out of their mouths builds tension. They look at each other with desire. You can feel their excitement growing. And hearing what they want to do to each other made me incredibly eager to see it.

I probably could’ve gotten myself off to that conversation alone. But as soon as the guys start kissing each other and fingering Siri, I’m incredibly grateful we get to see how it’s all going to play out.

What comes after is everything the dirty talk promised.

They’re touching her, eating her pussy, making out with each other. Their mouths are too busy to do much talking, but they still add more hot dialogue while getting each other off.

“Oh my god, your dick is so fucking gorgeous,” Siri says playfully when Johnny’s pants come off. She isn’t wrong, and she starts sucking his cock, licking his balls, and eating his ass with all the enthusiasm you’d expect from a girl who is getting worked over by two guys.

It’s an oral free for all. They make good use of their mouths every single way three people playing together could. It’s busy as fuck and there’s a lot of moving and shifting, but the camera does an amazing job of capturing all the stimulation and the their reactions to it.

And you know the pleasure is authentic. Not just because you can see it but because Siri isn’t shy about giving feedback - and these guys are more than happy to follow her instructions and stimulate her exactly how she likes it.

Because it’s The Yes List, none of that gets cut out of the scene. And it adds extra hotness to an already amazing threesome.

Then the penetration starts and it gets even better.

Johnny fucks Siri from behind, grabbing her thick ass and making it jiggle - which I highly appreciate. All the while, she’s got her mouth on Wolf’s cock and he is visibly having a really good time.

They switch so Wolf can bend Siri’s legs back and give her a good fuck while Johnny pleasures her clit with a wand and his fingers. It’s a perfect combination - and it results in a few squirting orgasms.

Then we’re treated to an extended fuck train.

It starts with Johnny fucking Siri while Wolf is slowly pushing his cock into his ass. Then they switch and Wolf takes his place in the middle of this fuck sandwich.

It looks as intense and pleasurable as it probably feels - he’s thrusting eagerly, reaching back to pull Johnny deeper into him, and groaning loudly.

And appropriately enough, the scene doesn’t end when Siri takes a load on her throat and tits. It ends with even more communication - just a few last words before they fade on a three-way makeout.

Yes, Yes, Yes!

I can’t really express how much I love this scene.

It’s not just sexy and absolutely worth watching - it’s the kind of thing I want to bookmark and keep forever.

The consent angle is a big part of that. It makes it educational porn in a way that doesn’t feel boring. I find dirty talk practically essential and this is a very natural and realistic way to include lots of it.

But it also happens to be the best threesome porn I’ve seen this year.

Actually, it’s the best one in recent memory. It might even be my favorite threesome - ever.

It’s not just really entertaining to watch, either. From start to finish, it’s the kind of threesome I wish I could be part of.

The only disappointing thing about The Yes List is that it’s only a pilot, so there’s a chance this is all we ever get from the series.

But I really hope they’ll film more of these. Because consent is hot as hell. And The Yes List is even hotter - especially if buttholes do a lot for you.

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