Why Guys Want to See Your Asshole
And why you might want to show it off a little mor
Have you seen that doggystyle TikTok?
It went around for a while. It was shared, stitched, and commented on quite a bit.
It’s a woman who shares something shocking that she learned.
When you’re getting fucked doggystyle, the guy pounding into you isn’t just slamming into your pussy. He’s also getting a nice, long look at your asshole.
And I was surprised too when I saw people sharing that TikTok.
Not because there are so many guys who love to peek at that tight little hole. But because there are actually adults who are alive on this green Earth in the year 2021 and have only just found out that this is a thing.
I’m guessing the women who are shocked by this don’t watch porn. Or maybe they do, but they’re kind of selective with what they watch.
Because I watch my fair share of dirty videos and I like to spend some time scrolling through naughty photos. And when you do that, it doesn’t take long before you get a peep at all kinds of hole.
It’s on the filthy side of Twitter. It’s all over Pornhub. Pay for access to a girl’s OnlyFans account and there’s a good chance you’ll become so familiar with her asshole you could draw every ridge from memory.
It’s not just the amateurs, either. It’s a pretty standard part of those mainstream porn scenes that start a girl showing off for the camera.
Before the guy with the already hard dick shows up, she’ll strip her clothes off, squeeze her tits, and pinch her nipples. She’ll spread her legs and show you her pussy. She’ll arch her back, bend over, and slowly lower her underwear to reveal her ass.
And more than likely, she’ll spread those cheeks like she wants to be damn sure you see every single centimeter of her body.
It’s something I’ve seen on my JustForFans page, too. I expected comments about my body, but I wasn’t expecting to get so many specifically about my asshole and requests to see more of it.
I didn’t find it weird, though. Partly, that’s because I enjoy getting a glimpse of a girl’s asshole myself.
I’m not going to specifically look for butthole shots, though. I’m a little more neutral about them.
Like, I’ll go out of my way to drool over a hottie’s thighs. I’ll stare at some tits. I’ll brake for butts.
But a girl’s cute little asshole is something I appreciate more as part of the whole package. It’s one more naked body part that I have the privilege to appreciate.
A lot of guys aren’t so neutral, though. I might be pro asshole, but they’re hungry for it. Half the reason they pay for a girl’s nudes is to a long hard look at it - with good lighting and everything.
And I know it’s something that a lot of women find confusing. They just don’t get why any guy would get turned on by looking where the sun really don’t shine.
So, I thought I’d try to explain the allure of the female asshole.
I’ve got my own reasons for appreciating it. My husband’s a complete ass hound, so I consulted him too. And I checked out what the radically honest perverts on Reddit had to say about it.
And it basically comes down to four reasons.
Tits Aren’t Taboo Anymore
I’m really turned on by things that are taboo. There’s just something really thrilling to me about doing something that’s considered a little out of bounds.
That’s part of the reason I’m really into family roleplay porn. Same with light consensual non-consent roleplay. And it’s probably why so many of my fantasies have a strong power dynamic - figures of authority, experience gaps, and oh so many daddies.
Those things gently push the limits, and that really gets me going.
Public sex does too. That’s why I love the idea of using remote controlled sex toys around unsuspecting strangers. It’s not because I’m too impatient to wait until I get home - it’s because it’s such a naughty thing to do.
And when a girl shows off her asshole, it gives me a tiny little bit of that same thrill.
Tits aren’t really taboo anymore.
You’ll probably see more than half a girl’s ass just by going to the beach with her.
But her asshole - that hits different. It still feels like a part of her that you’re not supposed to see.
And admiring it really feels like you’re doing something illicit.
You have this feeling like the polite thing to do would be to avert your eyes, to politely pretend her cheeks aren’t spread right there in your line of vision.
But you go ahead and look anyway, you little devil. And you enjoy it too. Because part of you kind of feels like you’re not supposed to - and that’s exactly what makes it so appealing.
Everyone Wants a Naughty Girl
You can definitely take some classy lewds. You can take fully nude shots that feel glamorous.
But showing your asshole has a completely different vibe.
It’s not something you can do tastefully. Not really.
And that’s part of the reason some guys are so drawn to it.
A girl who shows off her asshole doesn’t come across as classy - she seems uninhibited. Like she has a filthy mind, some seriously horny energy, and might be down to do things that would make a guy’s nastiest fantasies come true.
You’re not going to get that vibe from a girl who posts titty teases and cheeky lewds.
She might be hot. She might turn a lot of guys on. But it’s the girl who lets them have a look at her asshole who really seems like a dirty girl.
And who doesn’t love a dirty girl?
It’s Step One in Every Anal Fantasy
Okay, so you know how I said that I glance at lots of assholes on any given week?
Well, my asshole exposure might be a little higher than average.
It’s not because of the amount of porn I watch. It’s because of the kind of porn I’m into.
I love anal porn in a very big way. In my humble and horny opinion, a good ass fucking makes just about any scene better.
And I never, ever skip the initial penetration. Seeing the moment the dick goes in her ass is one of the best parts of an anal scene.
Before seeing the dick go in, you usually get treated to a very good shot of the girl’s asshole.
If you’re lucky, you’ll see it getting rubbed and fingered too.
It’s all very, very fucking hot.
And it’s another reason looking at a girl’s asshole can be such a turn-on.
Lots of guys fantasize about doing things to a girl’s asshole. The majority seem interested in fucking it. Lots of them wouldn’t mind fingering it either. The slightly more adventurous guys are downright eager to lick it.
No matter what they want to do to that ass, looking at it will make those fantasies way more vivid.
That’s really the first step to any anal fantasy. Before you can have your way with a girl’s asshole, she has to present it to you.
That’s why it can be so exciting when she does.
It’s Just Plain Hot
I have no idea why I find guys with beards so attractive. Or dignified looking men with salt and pepper hair.
I don’t have a really good explanation for why I find thighs more attractive than tits. I just do.
I’m also not particularly into feet, but I know that some people go absolutely nuts for them.
Once in a rare while, I’ll encounter a guy who’s really into women’s armpits. And I gotta tell ya, that’s not a body part I consider especially sexy myself.
Who knows why that is.
Attraction and arousal are kind of mysterious.
Sometimes, there’s a reason for the things that turn you on. I can tell a story for why I find sexual submission so satisfying. I’ve got an explanation for why I can’t stop watching fauxcest porn.
But a lot of it isn’t so clear.
Our horniness is just wired a certain way - and some guys happen to be wired for the asshole.
They find it hot to see a cute girl spread her cheeks. They feel their heartbeat kick up when they see full hole.
They have no idea why they find it hot. They just do. And that’s really all there is to it.
Embrace Your Cute Little Hole
I think a lot of women aren’t really weirded out by the fact that guys might get turned on by assholes.
I mean, yeah, they feel weird about it. But I think it has more to do with self-consciousness.
If you’re self-conscious about your body at all, there’s a really good chance you’re self-conscious about your asshole. In fact, even if you’re not usually self-conscious, showing your asshole to someone might still feel a little too vulnerable.
And just knowing that a guy you’re with might want to take a look at your asshole is enough to make you feel uncomfortable.
I totally understand that. I’ve been self-conscious about my entire body for a really long time - asshole included.
But I think it’s so much more fun if you can embrace it.
It’s one more sexy part of you. It’s one more way you can turn someone on. It’s one more inch of your body someone finds attractive. It’s one more way you can show off and be playful during sex.
It’s not always easy to get comfortable with that. But it’s worth it if you can. Because knowing that someone is enjoying the show makes getting plowed from behind even more enjoyable than it already is.
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