5 Ways to Make Giving a Blowjob Easier
Sucking cock should never feel like a chore
I love giving head, but I feel like my mouth wasn’t built for it.
In the right circumstances, giving a blowjob makes me feel subby, sweet, and naughty.
It makes me horny and enthusiastic.
I want to suck as well as I can so when he calls me a good girl, it feels extra sincere.
But then that dick is in my mouth and reality sets in.
I have a small mouth and I really feel it when I’m putting it to use.
My gag reflex keeps me from taking it deep too. And my jaw gets sore quickly.
It’s a real shame, because I don’t want it to be a challenge. I just want to enjoy sucking a dick and getting a good reaction from it.
I hate having to cut it short. I want to hear him groan when I move my tongue around his head. I want to feel his hands running through my hair while I’m covering his cock in spit. I want to earn more praise.
But the only way I could suck longer is by making blowjobs easier on my mouth.
I’ve found a few things that work. If giving head makes you feel like your mouth is too small, your jaw is too weak, or your sucking stamina is too low, you should definitely try these.
Don’t Forget to Stroke
Maybe I took the assignment too literally, but I used to make blowjobs all about the blowing.
And yeah, I get that your mouth is supposed to be doing a lot of the work. But it doesn’t have to do it all by itself.
Sucking dick became so much easier when I started mixing it up with some stroking. It gave my jaw a break when it needed one. It kept my lips from getting sore from all the friction.
Plus, switching back and forth from hand to mouth is fun. It means you can give him different kinds of stimulation.
And because it’s easier on you, you’ll almost always end up sucking more and blowing him longer. That’s a win for both of you.
There’s no shame in giving him a full-blown handjob, either. If you don’t want to stop giving head but you need a longer break, just take one. Put the sucking on pause and jerk him off for a while.
That will give your mouth a rest before you put it back on it.
I know some girls feel weird about doing that because it feels like you’re hitting the brakes on blowing him. But it’s not like that at all.
It’s more like a long blowjob with an extended intermission. Or a handjob with a fantastic ending. Or two blowjobs in a row. And all of those are as hot and pleasurable as they sound.
Try a New Position
My husband’s cock has a few features that make it tricky to suck.
It’s on the longer side. Which isn’t too bad, but means I have to be careful with depth.
It’s a bit girthy too, and that’s a bigger challenge. It means that even a perfect blowjob can’t last too long.
And his cock has a noticeable curve to one side. That has to be accommodated too.
For a long time, I thought I was accommodating it. I found a blowjob position that felt natural and I stuck to it. I’d always suck him off while lying on my side next to him.
That meant his cock was right there in front of my lips, ready for whatever my mouth was in the mood for. It was a good spot for stroking it too.
I still had trouble giving him head, but I figured that was just his girth and curve. Nothing I could do about those.
But then I tried something new.
I was wearing an Alice in Wonderland costume with a short skirt. And I loved the way it felt to be on my knees. Even though I couldn’t see it, knowing my ass and pussy were peeking out from under the skirt turned me on.
It was a good mix of sweet, innocent, and dirty. I knew a cock in my mouth would make it even better - the perfect submissive good girl combo.
So I gave up on my tried and true blowjob position. I got on my knees between his legs instead.
And I could feel the difference right away.
Not just blowing in that sexy costume - though yeah, that felt as hot as I thought it would.
I mean physically.
Blowing Mr. Austin was easier than it had been in a long time.
Facing his cock head-on actually made it easier to manage the curve.
I could take him at the right angle so his head didn’t poke my cheek and make me feel like a cocksucking squirrel.
There was so much less effort that it became my new default blowjob position - no matter what I’m wearing.
So, try out a few different positions until you find one that works better.
Kneel between his legs. Lie on your side. Get on your knees and have him stand. Get on his face and see if 69ing helps.
Every cock is unique, so the right way to blow him depends on what he’s packing. Try every position you can think of and you’ll find one that makes it easier on you.
Make It Sloppy Wet
I never give head without flavored lube.
It can make a dick taste like candy or dessert, so there’s no reason to ever skip it.
And the extra lubrication is by far the best way to make sucking cock easier.
You can handle more girth when it’s slippery. Less friction means less discomfort - your lips can go longer without starting to get sore. It helps you go faster and harder too.
The extra wetness also makes it more stimulating for him, which is a nice little perk.
And the wetter you can make it, the better.
Use another drop of flavored lube when you feel like you could use a little more. Let yourself get drooly and cover his dick in as much spit as you can.
If you want even more help, you can use Mouthwatering Spray. It gets your saliva flowing and makes the blowjob better for the both of you.
And if you combine it with flavored lube, you’re guaranteed to be a sloppy knob slob - who can last even longer.
Tag Team With a Stroker
Using a stroker on his cock is another great way to give your mouth a break.
It’s highly stimulating and some of them are soft, squishy, and fun to stroke with.
You can go back and forth between the stroker and your mouth. Or you can use an open-ended one like the Quickshot or the Blowyo to make it more seamless.
It’s basically like your mouth and the stroker are working together. That way, you can take your mouth off his cock without stopping the stimulation.
It also means you can give a softer, slower, shallower suck and still give him lots of intense sensations with the stroker.
Work Up to Your Pornstar Moves
Don’t try to impress him by giving him your hardcore moves as soon as his dick pops out of his boxer briefs.
Make him wait for them.
If you like giving head, you probably have your own personal pornstar moves. It could be going fast and hard, doing something fancy with your tongue, or adding suction like nobody’s business. Maybe you can even deepthroat like a champ.
Whatever it is, save it for the end.
Tease him first. Kiss his cock. Give it soft little licks. Run your lips across his shaft and his head.
Even when you start fully blowing him, keep building that anticipation. Go soft and slow at first. Let him enjoy the feeling of having his cock in your mouth and the saliva dripping down his shaft.
If you go too hard at the beginning, you’re going to wear yourself out.
If you build up to your more intense moves, you can last longer and enjoy it a lot more.
You’ll still get to do all those really hot things you can do. But because you stretched it out, built anticipation, and got his cock good and ready for them, it will be even more satisfying.
Suck Without the Struggle
Giving head is really arousing but it can also be genuinely challenging. I’m all for doing anything you can to make it easier.
Sucking a dick should be fun. If it’s too uncomfortable, it’s going to start to feel like a chore instead.
So, forget whatever you think giving a blowjob should look like. Forget the deepthroat videos you found on Pornhub that made you feel like you weren’t doing enough. Stop worrying about whether you’re sucking him right.
If you love taking his cock in your mouth, he’s going to feel that enthusiasm. And that’s really all it takes.
It’s why easier blowjobs are usually better blowjobs.
So put your hair up, find the right position, lube his cock with something tasty, and give him head you’ll both love.
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