How to Pleasure an Uncircumcised Guy
The only things you need to know to get him off
Opening my marriage was serious business.
I needed to have a lot of long, deep conversations with my husband to figure out the right way to approach this major life change.
I had to rethink what my future might look like, let go of the easy path I was on, and seriously consider all the downsides to it.
At the same time, I can’t deny that it was thrilling.
Dating again opened up an entire world of romantic possibilities. Being able to imagine my life with a second partner (or maybe even two) was enough to make me feel like my heart was full.
And of course, all the sex.
I know that being polyamorous isn’t all about banging and it’s not just constant carefree orgies.
But it did mean that I might fuck someone new for the first time in fifteen years. And that made me feel a level of excitement I hadn’t felt in years.
With all that came a lot of uncertainties I had to work through.
Like, do I still have game? What if I never even had game?
How do I weed out the fuckbois and players from the decent guys? I’ve been out of the dating scene for over a decade, what if I missed all the red flags?
And what the hell am I supposed to do if I encounter a circumcised cock?
Okay, as a bisexual woman who spent too much of her life confused about her sexuality, I’ve got some cock experience. I have a rough idea of what I’d do if I got my hands (and any other part of my body) on a cock that isn’t sheathed in foreskin.
But it felt so different than anything I was used to. Circumcision isn’t all that common in Canada and it’s especially uncommon in my province. Foreskins have always been the norm around here, and that’s all I’ve had the pleasure to interact with.
And to top it all off, the cock I’ve been acquainted with for the last sixteen years is one that has phimosis. It not only has its foreskin, but that foreskin is so tight that it can’t retract fully while hard.
I’ve got no problem with circumcised dicks. I find cut cocks attractive. I wasn’t weirded out by them - I was just a little intimidated.
I didn’t want to find myself facing down a hard, erect, foreskin-free cock and not know how to give it all the pleasure it should get.
So, I poked around online, looking for advice on this. The more research I did, the more I discovered that a lot of people have the opposite worry.
So many of the questions I encountered were about how to play with a cock that’s still got its foreskin.
Since that’s something I have quite a bit of experience with, I thought I’d give a brief rundown of how to approach an uncut cock to give it maximal pleasure.
Stroking It
For me, anyway, handjobs are the most intimidating part of handling a new type of cock.
My mouth is soft and wet and so is my pussy. But hands can get dry, they can squeeze tightly, and they can pull and yank in ways that could potentially be really uncomfortable.
The big thing to keep in mind when playing with an uncircumcised cock is that they’re usually more sensitive. That means you can give it a lot of stimulation without applying too much pressure with your hand. Focus on the way you stroke it instead of your grip.
Because there’s a sheath over the cock, you don’t need to use as much lube. In fact, you don’t really need to use any at all, especially since cocks with foreskin produce a bit more natural lubrication.
But you should use some lube anyway. It will increase the sensitivity and make the handjob feel more pleasurable, it will be more fun for both of you, and your technique will be a little bit better if your hand can glide a little more.
When you’re applying it, unsheathe the cock so you can put a little lube directly on the exposed head. Even if you keep it covered through the entire handjob, that lube is going to make every stroke feel better.
Make use of the foreskin, too. You can pull it back and touch the head of the cock, but you can give lots of pleasure by using the foreskin like it was a sleeve.
Be a little cautious when you’re playing with it, though. Pulling the foreskin back or pushing it forward too hard is going to be uncomfortable and maybe even painful. Unless you’re a domme administering some cock and ball torture, make sure you treat the foreskin with a bit of care.
Blowing It
When you’re giving a blowjob, do more licking than sucking.
Let your tongue and your lips do the majority of the work, bob up and down on that cock eagerly, and stroke it gently while licking its most sensitive parts.
But only apply light suction. Again, because of the extra sensitivity, you don’t need to use as much pressure and the guy you’re blowing might find heavy sucking too intense to be pleasurable.
Lubrication helps here, too. Keep your mouth wet and salivate all over that cock. If your mouth is dry, you can use a mouthwatering spray to help you drool more but I much prefer applying some tasty flavored lube instead.
You can also keep making use of the foreskin while giving head. Instead of pulling it back so it’s out of the way the entire time, play around with it. Suck it while it’s sheathed. Expose the head and lick it directly. Pull the foreskin on and off so you can give him a full range of sensations.
Fucking It
Fucking an uncut cock is even simpler thank stroking and sucking it. There’s really nothing you need to do differently here.
The exception is when you’re putting on the condom.
Most uncircumcised guys prefer to have their foreskins pulled back before you roll the condom over their cocks. Though, in the end, this is all up to their individual preferences.
It’s also good practice in general to add a drop of lube to the inside of the condom - or to just rub it all over the cock before putting it on.
Once the condom’s on, you can go right ahead and get fucked by that cock like you would with any other.
Ask and Adapt
Pleasure is such a personal thing, whether the guy you’re with is circumcised or not.
Every cock is different and any time you’re faced with a new one, you’ll have to do the work of figuring out exactly what this guy likes, what gets him off, and what kind of moves are too intense to be pleasurable.
Some uncut guys are so sensitive that all it takes is a gentle stroke to make them come. Others can take it rougher and might even prefer it. And in some cases, you might encounter a guy with death grip and he might need you to squeeze firmly and stroke fast even though he’s got a foreskin.
That’s where good communication skills come in. If you go over his preferences before anything sexual goes down, you’ll be able to give him the kind of pleasure he really wants. If you know how to give and take feedback during sex, even better.
I kind of hate to end on this note, because saying that everybody is different often comes across a little bland. But it’s true and keeping it in mind is genuinely helpful.
You can assume that an uncut cock is more sensitive and that an uncircumcised guy likes it if you make use of his foreskin when getting him off. Just be ready to change things up if you find out that he likes it a little differently.
As for me, I guess I took the easy way out in the end. I never did get to fuck any other dudes - well, not in person anyway. And after a few starry-eyed months, I’ve realized that what I really want in my life is another lady.
But it’s comforting to know that if I ever do find myself handling a cock I’m not sure how to pleasure, I can just ask, adapt, and give it the best stimulation I can. I still might not have any game, but at least I have that.
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