This Toy Enhances Your Organic Masturbation (Jopen Pavé Liz Finger Vibe review)

Jopen Pavé Liz Finger Vibe review

I was in my twenties when I masturbated with my fingers for the first time.

When I made the amazing discovery that my body could get itself off, I did it completely hands-free. I had accidentally discovered that rubbing myself against things felt really fucking good, so I started to seek out that sensation.

First, it was humping pillows. Then I figured out that some of my stuffed animals could do an even better job. The ones with firm snouts were especially good at making my bedtime habit even more satisfying.

By the time I felt too old to be humping teddy bears, I had already started using vibrators.

I started off with large, vibrating dildos that taught me that I didn’t really need my sex toys to do any of the things a cock did. My favorite thing to do with them was turn them on and hold them to my clit.

So, I got something designed specifically to do that. I started buying bullet vibrator after bullet vibrator.

It never really occurred to me to touch myself. I knew it was something people did. I knew it felt really fucking good when my husband used his capable fingers on me.

But I also knew there was no way it would feel better than using a vibrator or a powerful massaging showerhead. So, I never bothered.

I only tried it when I was 23 years old and wanted to satisfy my curiosity.

I ended up satisfying a lot more than just that.

I reached down and really felt myself for the first time in my life. I moved my fingers across my pussy, feeling the way my body responded to my touch - and the sensuality of being able to feel everything I was doing directly on my fingertips.

There was a sensuality to it that I never got from using vibrators. Moving my fingers around made me feel like I was exploring myself. The stroking motion felt like I was really romancing myself.

There was an intimacy to that kind of close contact, something I had never quite felt when holding a vibrator against me.

Masturbating organically wasn’t as pleasurable as using a vibrator. I was missing the intensity, the overpowering stimulation, and the sheer effectiveness of using a small machine built specifically to bring me to orgasm.

But I enjoyed the way it changed the experience. As corny as it is to say this, I really felt like I was making love to myself instead of just fucking myself to a climax.

I felt closer to my own sexuality. I was discovering things about my body and the very precise and subtle ways it responds to touch.

It encouraged me to take my time, to explore different sensations, and to really be in the moment.

Still, it’s hard not to miss your vibrator when you’re touching yourself. That’s why I mostly use my fingers as foreplay, to warm myself up before I grab my vibrator and any other sex toy I feel like using.

It’s also why I started to really see the appeal of finger vibrators.

They always seemed convenient, like a bullet vibrator that was even easier to hold. But I started wondering whether they could actually give me the best of both worlds. Maybe they could combine the sensuality of using my fingers to get myself off with the enhanced pleasure that comes with using a vibrator.

Enhancing My Finger Play

I decided to try the Pavé Liz finger vibrator by Jopen. It seemed easy to use, comfortable, and fun. But I was also drawn to it for aesthetic reasons - I’m a sucker for teal and things that look rounded and smooth.

It’s also waterproof, which is an important feature for me because I might have outgrown my stuffed animals but I haven’t stopped bringing toys with me to the bath.

I got comfortable and watched a few things to turn myself on. Then I slipped the toy over my finger and felt the vibrations with my thumb. They were gentle but I’ve been pleasantly surprised by soft vibrations before.

I spread my legs and slipped my hand under the water. I placed the toy against my pussy and closed my eyes to enjoy the sensations.

The feeling was good, but a little too subtle.

It was very enjoyable and made me feel like my arousal was building. But I couldn’t get close to an orgasm.

I loved the way it teased me. It wasn’t an intense, powerful sensation, but it felt really good and got me in the mood to really get off.

I just wasn’t sure it could actually help me achieve that.

I finished my bath without a climax. I wasn’t ready to give up yet, though. I realized that I was probably using this toy all wrong. I was using it like a vibrator, holding it to my clit and waiting for it to bring me to an orgasm.

What I needed to do instead was try to use it like a literal masturbatory aid - as a toy that could enhance the way I masturbate with my fingers.

So, I dried myself off and brought the finger vibe to my bedroom for a second round.

I laid in bed with nothing but the finger vibe, a bottle of lube, and my most reliable vibrator in case I’d need some backup.

I spread my legs, rubbed lube all over my pussy, and stroked my clit to warm myself back up.

When I was ready for it, I slipped the vibrator back onto my finger and played with the settings until I found a steady vibration. I like patterns to tease myself, get myself worked up, and build up some pleasure, but I felt ready to go after the bit of fun I had in the bath.

This time, I was moving my fingers the way I would when I’m masturbating without a toy. Rubbing them on my pussy, gliding them across my labia, and circling them around my clit.

Now it felt the way it was supposed to. My fingers were doing the work, but the vibrations were intensifying the stimulation. Moving the vibrator around my pussy felt fantastic.

I increased the speed and kept playing around. This time, the vibrator was doing more than just teasing me. I could feel my pleasure building, the way it does when I play with other vibrators.

Except it was different, it felt more sensual. Like I was really touching myself and not just using a toy.

And it looked really cool, too. I loved watching the wet toy sliding across the folds of my lips. That visual element added to the pleasure I was already experiencing.

I felt myself coming closer to the edge. I kept the toy moving in a steady circular motion around my clit, going faster than before.

I barely had time to worry about whether it would work this time. The combination of the stroking motion and the vibrations felt so good that I fell into an orgasm more quickly than I expected.

I felt my muscles tighten, my body constrict, and my breath catch inside my throat. The pleasure overpowered my body - I was lost inside it.

After failing to come the first time, I wasn’t sure I’d be able to get anywhere with this finger vibe. But that orgasm left me highly satisfied and very pleasantly surprised.

It was like my fingers had learned to do something new, something they never could’ve done before. And that opened up a brand new way for me to masturbate, which is a very exciting discovery to make.

Solo Intimacy and Extra Pleasure

The Pavé Liz does something none of my other sex toys do. It doesn’t replace organic masturbation - it actually enhances it.

It wasn’t powerful enough to work the way a typical vibrator does, but that’s because this isn’t a regular vibrator. It’s not meant to be held up to your clit until it buzzes you to a climax.

Instead, it adds an extra layer of pleasure to your fingerplay.

It allows the kind of sensual exploration that you can enjoy when masturbating with your fingers. It gives you that feeling of control, where your movements play a big role in what kind of sensations you’re giving yourself - the speed, the pressure, the motions.

It does that while also giving you the kind of intensity you can only get from using toys. It’s cute and modest but really does the job. I didn’t expect to have a big orgasm from such a small toy, but it left me out of breath and deeply pleased.

I like to masturbate with my fingers once in a while, but whenever I do I find myself missing my vibrator. It’s got its perks, but going without a toy pretty much guarantees I won’t get to come as hard.

With this finger vibrator, I don’t have to choose one over the other. It gives me sensuality and pleasure without making it feel like a compromise. And that’s exactly how masturbation should feel.

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