5 Signs She Might Have a Praise Kink
This could be the secret to making her horny and blowing her mind
I’ve probably had a praise kink from the moment I felt my first flush of horniness.
But I didn’t fully understand that until I actually heard the term.
As soon as I heard those two words back to back, all the puzzle pieces fell right into place.
It made me understand why certain words can turn me on like a lightswitch.
It’s how I figured out why I find people pleasing during sex so fucking hot, even though I hate it in every other part of my life.
And it taught me why it felt like something was missing from my sex life, even though it was full of pleasure and intense orgasms.
Because everyone loves a good compliment. But for people like me, it goes much deeper than that. It hits the slutty pleasure center of the brain like nothing else can.
It’s hotter than a good spanking. It’s more arousing than nipple play. And being able to earn praise makes having sex ten times more appealing.
It’s a pretty common kink, too. Lots of women are going through their day to day lives with an intense secret desire to be called a good girl while getting plowed.
Not all of them know it, though. I sure as heck didn’t.
And the ones who are fully aware they get off on dirty compliments don’t always know how to put that into words.
So, there’s a chance your partner has a full blown praise kink and doesn’t even realize it - or hasn’t found a way to tell you.
Which is a real shame, because knowing her kinks is the ticket to banging her brains out in a way that really excites her. A way that won’t just make her come, but will also make her deliriously horny and fill all sorts of emotional needs.
There are plenty of secret good girls out there. Here are a few hints that your lady might be one of them.
Her Love Language Is Words of Affirmation
If you’ve been with her for a while, you’re probably done one of those love language questionnaires together.
And if you haven’t, you really should.
It can seem a bit silly at first. The five basic languages are kind of incomplete and not nuanced enough. And it’s a tool that can be used for evil - like when dudes claim they need a weekly dick polishing because their love language is physical touch.
But it’s a really good conversation starter. It can also give you a couple of clues about what you could do to make your relationship stronger.
And if it shows you that nothing makes her feel loved like words of affirmation, that’s a hint that a really good compliment might make her extra horny too.
This isn’t airtight evidence, though.
My biggest love language is gift giving, but I still want to be told I’m good with my mouth when I’ve got a dick stuffed in it.
And I’m sure there are lots of women out there who crave words of affirmation in the streets but prefer physical touch in the sheets.
But there’s a decent chance that her love language and her kinks line up, so it’s worth exploring.
She Wants You to Talk Dirty
Dirty talk is just plain hot. And most guys could really turn up the heat just by turning up the volume.
So if she asked you to talk dirty to her, there’s not really anything unusual about that request.
But still, it’s one of the tactics girls will use to sneak more praise into their sex lives.
That’s especially true when it hasn’t fully clicked that they get off on it. They just know that there’s something missing and if you talked dirty enough you’d probably say at least a few things that hit the mark.
And if you’re already very verbal during sex and she still complains it’s not enough, then it’s probably one of two things.
Either she’s insatiable and wants you to say every filthy thing imaginable and not shut up until you’ve both finished coming.
Or there’s something missing from your dirty talk that she can’t quite put her finger on. And there’s a pretty decent chance it’s calling her a good girl when you go balls deep inside her.
She Fucks Like a Champ After You Compliment Her
She hasn’t told you she’s got a praise kink, but she might have shown you she has one.
Because you let one little compliment slip and all of a sudden it’s like you’re fucking a completely different girl.
Like that time you told her she looks insanely fuckable when you bent her over - and then she rode you so hard she could barely walk after.
Or when you told her she gives incredible head and she blew you so enthusiastically you thought you died and went to porno heaven.
Or if you ever felt bold and let out a “good girl” while she was pulling your cock out of boxer briefs - and then were shocked that she turned into a little sex puppet and let you do all the nasty things you normally have to beg for.
That’s her praise kink in action. It’s her getting hot and horny for those filthy verbal affirmations.
It’s also her showing you how you can really turn her on and bring out her inner dirty girl.
She Fishes for Compliments When You’re Fucking Her
This is another ambiguous one, because it’s a really common style of dirty talk.
Like her asking “Does that feel good?” when she’s stroking your cock.
Or saying “You like fucking my mouth?” after you just thrust into it very eagerly.
Or “Want me to keep going?” after she pulled her shirt up just enough to tease you with some underboob.
It’s super playful and incredibly sexy, so it’s the kind of thing you might hear from any girl with a dirty mouth.
But it also happens to be a great way to set you up to compliment her. And that might be exactly what she’s doing.
Fishing for compliments can be part of the fun. It can be her way of keeping the dirty talk going. It could be her style of teasing. It might make her feel like a little show off, which she might really be into.
But if your lady has a praise kink and you want to drive her wild, you shouldn’t wait until she sets you up to compliment her. Instead, give her plenty of dirty praise she earned but didn’t ask for and you’ll make her want to jump your bone like never before.
She Needs to Get Dolled Up for Sex
This one’s going to be kind of controversial.
Because lots of ladies with praise kinks will be happy to get pounded after washing off their makeup or ride their partner’s face while wearing their old college sweater.
It’s also very typical for women to get aroused way more easily when they feel cute - no matter what kind of kink or sexual preference they have.
But if her need for praise is strong enough, she might only be interested in having sex if there’s a chance you’ll say nice things about her while she’s taking your dick. And that could be the reason she doesn’t want to get frisky unless she’s glammed out like she was preparing for a photoshoot.
Because she doesn’t just want compliments - she wants sincere compliments. And she might not buy any of your sweet talk unless she’s all done up and feeling as cute as you say she is.
Treat Her Like a Good Girl
There are lots of little telltale signs that your lady has a praise kink.
But really, the biggest one of them is that she’s alive and has a pulse.
Alright, I’m kidding. But only kind of. Because it really is a fairly common kink. And unless she specifically gets off on being degraded, dishing out a bit of praise can only make sex better for her.
Plus, most guys would be way hotter in bed if they went into it assuming they were fucking someone with a praise kink.
So give it a shot. Tell her she’s amazing with her mouth, tell her that the way she bounces on your cock drives you crazy, and tell her how hot she looks when she’s getting fucked. Even if she doesn’t get wet from being called a good girl, she’s still going to appreciate you being verbal, present, and enthusiastic.
If you liked this article, you should totally check out the How to Seduce a Married Woman (Even Though You Really Shouldn’t) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!
