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A Fantastic Way to Stimulate Your Nipples

A Fantastic Way to Stimulate Your Nipples

My review of the Gemini vibrating nipple clamps by Lovense

I had never seriously considered trying nipple clamps.

I sort of got the appeal of them.

I like having my nipples played with, and not always super gently.

I love feeling a thumb gliding softly across my nipple. And wet, warm lips and tongue can always have their way with my tits.

But when I’m really turned on or enjoying some good pussy stimulation, that’s when I want more. I want a subtle pinch. I want a loving tug. I want to feel my nipple rolling between two fingers.

Still, nipple clamps seemed really intimidating. I mean, I figured there’s a reason they’re called clamps and not nipple huggers.

My sensitive nips might be able to take a bit of tugging, but anything harder than that and I’m putting my tits back in my shirt until further notice.

And as much as I enjoy a good dose of BDSM, I’m really into the softer side of kink.

I want the blindfolds and the cuffs. The spankings and the paddlings. The daddies and the pleasure doms

But not so much the clothespins, the canings, or the ballgags. And I suppose I put nipple clamps in that category.

And yet there I was with a set of clamps I had just unboxed, ready to clip them onto my tits.

Because these weren’t just your regular set of vice grips for the nips. These also vibrate. And I had a hunch that’s something I would really enjoy.

Your Girl’s First Set of Nipple Clamps

The Gemini doesn’t look as intimidating as the nipple clamps I’m used to seeing.

That might have a lot to do with the color scheme. It’s a barely-there shade of pink that brightens near the tip of the clamps - almost like it’s blushing.

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Each clip has a small screw you can twist to adjust how firmly it clamps on. Which helped put me at ease because I was only in the market for an easygoing squish, not a hard pinch.

The clamps are surprisingly big and look kind of clunky. They would be a lot cuter if they were slimmer, but I figure that’s as small as they can be while still holding a vibrating motor.

And both clips link up to a small control station where you can press the buttons to cycle through the vibration settings. Or you can use the app to control them from your phone - or let someone else stimulate your tits from theirs.

But since I was still a teensy bit nervous about playing with these, I decided to use them on my own so I could take my time and really get a feel for them.

I tugged my tanktop down to expose my tits, pinched and played with my nipples until they got stiff, and then grabbed one end of the little pink pincers. It took a little bit of fiddling around with it to get it right. But after adjusting the screws a few times, I found the right amount of pressure - soft enough to feel comfortable, firm enough to stay in place.

I teased myself with the vibrations and really enjoyed the way it felt. 

It was gently stimulating. More pleasurable than most of the vibrators I’ve tried using on my nipples. And definitely more arousing than I thought it would be.

As good as it felt, nipple vibration isn’t really the kind of thing I use on its own. To me, it’s more of a way to bump my horniness levels and enhance my pleasure when I’m getting off.

So after treating myself to a bit of buzzing, I wanted a little more action.

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I decided on a grinding vibrator, because I had a hunch the clamps would go really well with some decent humping.

And what do you know, I was absolutely right.

The vibrations I was feeling through my underwear were stronger than the ones teasing my nipples, but the clamps were really keeping me in the zone. Even better, they did what a lot of my favorite sex toys do - they freed up my hands.

All that hands-free stimulation meant I could brace and steady myself instead of pinching and tugging my nipples. I could enjoy some really nice tit sensations while moving my hips and grinding exactly the way I wanted to.

When I really started feeling myself, I grabbed my phone and turned up the vibrations on the Gemini. With a quick swipe across the screen, they went from teasing my nipples to giving them the kind of stimulation I couldn’t ignore - even when I felt myself getting closer and closer to a climax.

And that’s where it gets a little tricky to talk about this toy and the effect it had on me.

Because I had an extremely fun time with it. I had a good, strong, satisfying finish - a fantastic blended orgasm, followed by a couple more. But it’s tough to say how much of that was the grinding and how much of that was the nipple stuff.

But what I can say for sure is that the nipple clamps made everything noticeably better.

The pleasure was intensified. The orgasms were stronger. And it was great to have a little upper body action while I was getting myself off.

Basically, it was very fine nipple play with zero effort involved. And I am absolutely here for that.

Your Tits Need Love Too

I’m glad I didn’t let the Gemini intimidate me.

I still don’t really see myself as a nipple clamp gal, at least the standard types. But I can definitely appreciate a good nipple vibrator.

And the Gemini beats all my other attempts at vibrating my nips. I don’t have to hold it awkwardly like I would with a standard vibrator. I don’t have to worry about it being too strong or too intense. None of that.

Because it’s specifically designed for tit stuff, it does that really well. It clips right onto them and stays in place. It has a range of vibrations with some that are soft enough for sensitive nipples to handle.

You can just clamp them on, set the vibrations of your choice, and then have full control to pleasure yourself in any way you want.

Wearing them felt a bit kinky, too. So, it’s definitely a good option for anyone who wants to try a little solo BDSM.

And I’m sure the excitement goes way up if you give someone else control over it. Getting buzzed and teased at someone else’s whims is the kind of thing that makes you wet just thinking about it.

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I still think they look a bit busy with how big the clamps are and the controls dangling in between them. Lovense made some cute aesthetic choices with the color and the design, but it still looks like a toy that had to sacrifice looks for function.

I don’t think I’d be all that interested in playing with nipple clamps unless they can vibrate, so it’ll be the chunky clips for me.

After playing around with it for a while, I really think how much someone would enjoy the Gemini really depends on how much they like nipple stimulation.

If you’re the kind of person who doesn’t mind leaving their shirt on while fucking, you might not get a huge thrill from the the vibrations. But if you love shoving your tits in your partner’s face or get the urge to tug on your nipples when you’re horny, vibrating nipple clamps might be exactly what you need to push your orgasms up a notch.

This post contains affiliate links to the Lovense Gemini. If you click on one and treat yourself to anything from the site, I earn a small commission and you’ll be enjoying some fantastic nipple stimulation!

If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Ew (The Ick, Instant Turn-Offs, and Milk Drinkers) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!

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