5 Sexy Little Ways to Spice Up Your Valentine's Day

It’s time to get sweet and dirty

It doesn’t take much to make Valentine’s Day sexy.

The whole day is basically built around foreplay.

Sweet gifts, heart-shaped candy, and gorgeous boxes of chocolates.

Thoughtful gestures, flowers, and special dinners.

A date night worth dressing up for - and lingerie for when it’s time to strip it all off.

Everything about it is sweet, intimate, and flirty - and the perfect buildup to some really good sex.

But Valentine’s Day sex is way better when you plan something special special for it.

You’re already going to bring your A Game for that night. You’re going to turn sex into a sweet, sensual, multiorgasmic experience. Or have some hard, passionate, physically intense fucking. Maybe you’ll let yourself be really fucking dirty.

That’s all great. But it will be even better if you try something new.

That’s going to make everything you’re doing extra playful - and it’s going to make the night even more memorable.

If you want to make your Valentine’s night really special, these are five little things you can do to spice it up.

A Sweet Little Spanking

If you’re into some light spanking, you’ll probably love playing with impact toys.

Some people find that surprising because taking a few smacks on the ass while getting it from behind seems completely different than paddles and crops.

But it’s basically in the same zone.

There are some really intense ways to use these toys - ways that involve pain, bruising, and red marks that still show the next morning.

I’m way too squeamish for anything like that. So, I tend to think of it more like a kind of sensory play.

Impact toys are a way to get different sensations from getting spanked. It’s a way to draw out the foreplay and get incredibly aroused.

And it can be really pleasurable even when there’s no smacking involved. Feeling the toy trace across my skin or softly tapping against my nipples is more than enough to turn me on.

For that kind of play, you’ll want something built for gentle smacking. A paddle with a large, smooth, flat surface is a really good place to start.

Crops will give you a more concentrated sensation. It feels really intense in a very good way - as long as you don’t use too much force with them.

Plus, some of them are shaped like hearts and that’s really fucking cute.

A Delicious Candy Blowjob

Sucking dick is a Valentine’s Day classic.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t improve on it.

I don’t mean your technique - though it’s not a bad time to try out a few moves. I mean by making it tastier.

I never give head without flavored lube because it’s just plain better with it.

There are lots of fruity ones you can try out, and those are pretty good. But my favorites are the ones that taste like dessert. Those will make a cock taste like ice cream or like it’s been slathered with sweet frosting.

But the most appropriate flavored lubes for Valentine’s Day are the ones that make a dick taste like candy.

It makes giving head even more fun and it even improves your blowjob game. Because you’re most definitely going to suck longer and blow more enthusiastically when he tastes like bubblegum.

A Perfect Rubdown

A sensual massage is a really good way to start the night. And a happy ending is a pretty good way to finish it too.

Those aren’t my favorite kinds of massages, though.

Personally, I prefer pussy massages.

It’s exactly what it sounds like. It’s long, slow pussy rubbing. It’s not a rush to get you wet or make you come - it’s just about giving you so much pleasure that you just sink into it and lose track of time.

And it’s not exactly about the orgasm - it’s more about enjoying the pure pleasure of having your pussy pampered.

But yeah, it’s kind of about the orgasm too. Because if you come after having your pussy slowly rubbed for twenty or thirty minutes, there’s a really good chance it’s going to be a hard, long, and incredibly satisfying climax.

It’s amazing, super intimate, and can be even more relaxing than a full body massage.

And it’s really simple to do. All you need is a comfortable spot, a little mood lighting, and a silicone lube that can handle all that rubbing.

A sex blanket is pretty handy too - especially if you use enough lube to make everything nice and drippy.

That silicone lube also comes in handy if you want to return the favor by giving him a cock massage.

It’s the same idea. You spend a long time slowly playing with his cock - teasing it, stroking it, trying different ways to pleasure it.

And if you want to go all the way, you get the satisfaction of watching him come really fucking hard.

Something Cute for Your Butt

I’ve got a few really cool butt toys. But my favorite is a really simple one.

It doesn’t vibrate. It doesn’t go deep. It doesn’t have a tail. But it’s soft, easy to insert, and not too thick - and most of the time that’s exactly what my ass needs.

It also happens to be the perfect toy to put in your butt for Valentine’s Day because it’s shaped like a candy heart.

It’s a really cute and playful way to prep yourself for some really good anal sex. Or you can wear it while he pleasures and fucks you so you can feel like you’re his naughty little treat.

Or you can just enjoy the sheer pleasure of having him slowly and gently push the toy in your ass.

Best of all, he can tap on that little candy heart surface to give you a really good jolt of pleasure.

A Mindblowingly Good Fuck

There are so many ways to get off and I’m a very firm believer in the idea that sex doesn’t always have to involve penetration.

But I still really like getting fucked.

I almost always want some kind of penetration. Really good pussy eating, super satisfying pussy massages, intense blended orgasms - they give me the urge to take Mr. Austin’s cock inside me.

As much as I love a good straightforward fuck, though, there’s one big downside. There’s not enough clit stimulation.

You can get some by reaching down and rubbing your pussy while getting fucked. If you’re getting pounded by a multitasker, he can do it for you - which is even better.

The Coital Alignment Technique works pretty well too. Pussyjobs aren’t quite the same but they’re a great way to combine cock and clit stimulation.

And one of the best and easiest ways to get all that pleasure at once is by using a couples sex toy.

There are different versions, but they basically combine a cockring with a vibrator.

My personal favorite is the Tryst. It’s super versatile and works much better than most of the ones I’ve tried.

It’s an amazing way to get fucked. He can pound into you and the vibrations make it feel like he’s practically fucking your clit too.

And that kind of enhanced sex is an incredible way to cap off a highly pleasurable Valentine’s Day.

Make It Special

Valentine’s Day sex is really fucking hot - except when it’s a little too basic.

There’s nothing wrong with fucking just because it’s a special day. But it’s way more exciting when you put a little thought into it.

It’s a great opportunity to go all out, try something different, and play with some new toys

If you want a night worth remembering, don’t treat the sex like an afterthought. Plan something a little extra and make it really special.

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If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Getting Sweet After Getting Dirty (Sexual Aftercare, Sub Drop, and Weird Post-Sex Anxiety) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!