The 5 Best Places to Spank Her
Spank the right spots to get her incredibly aroused
Lots of women love a good spanking - as long as it doesn’t actually hurt.
Girls who are especially submissive or have a masochistic side tend to like the sharp pain that comes from a strong slap. They might even hope it leaves their ass covered in red hand prints and bruises.
The rest of us just want something that feels intense. We want that jolt of pleasure that we get from a good firm smack in the perfect spot.
But more than the pleasure, it’s the arousal that makes us bend over and take it.
There’s something about a good smack on the ass that just turns up the horniness. It raises our heart rate, makes us feel warm all over, and gives us all sorts of dirty thoughts.
It releases endorphins and pumps the adrenaline through our system.
It makes us want to arch our back and present our ass so we can feel your palm landing against it again.
Getting spanked always makes me want more. A few proper smacks gets me so turned on that you can hear it in my breath.
But it just takes one bad spank to ruin it.
Pain is going to bring me right back to reality. I start losing my arousal as soon as it hurts. I become guarded instead of getting uninhibited.
And that’s just no fun. When you’re spanking your lady, you want her getting hot and bothered, not turned off.
That means you have to be careful not to slap harder than she likes it. And more importantly, you have to know exactly what parts of her gloriously gorgeous body you should spank.
Spank the Midsection of Her Ass
You should concentrate your spanking on the fleshiest parts of her butt. Usually, that’s squarely in the middle of each cheek.
That’s the area that can take the most impact without any discomfort.
Most women can take a pretty firm smack in that spot. As long as you’re not aggressive, you can give it to her pretty good without causing any pain.
Spank the Lower Half of Her Ass
The lower part of her ass is a very safe spot, too. Again, it’s fleshy and pretty damn tough. It can handle a pretty good smacking.
It also results in a different feeling. When I get underhanded slaps clapping against my butt, it gives me a sharp and intense sensation - the kind that can catch your breath in your throat.
It also happens to be a very natural and convenient spot to aim for when she’s bent over or laid across your lap.
Spank the Back of Her Thighs
You can also wander away from her ass and give her thighs a few smacks.
But you do have to be a bit careful with this one. The thighs tend not to be as tough as the rump, so you might have to adjust your spanking and use a more gentle impact.
You also have to be careful where your palm lands. The back of her thighs are probably tough enough to take it. The front of her thighs might be too. But her inner thighs are going to be a heck of a lot more sensitive, so it’s best to avoid spanking them.
Give Her Asshole a Gentle Smack
I’m personally a big fan of getting spanked between the cheeks.
If your lady is like me, gently smacking her asshole is going to give her some extremely good stimulation.
She’ll feel it mostly in her ass. But if you get the spank just right, it will reverberate all the way to her pussy as well.
Not every lady is going to be into this one, though. Even if she loves getting spanked, she might feel weird about you touching her asshole, even for a quick slap.
And just because she’s into anal action, loves getting her ass eaten out, and begs for more when you finger her asshole that doesn’t mean she’s giving you a green light to spank her there. It’s a very different sensation, so make sure she’s into it before you smack her where the sun don’t shine.
Gently Tap Her Pussy
Pussy slapping is a really controversial move.
Lots of women absolutely hate it, and I can’t say I blame them. You’re dealing with some extremely sensitive real estate and a lot of women prefer a way more gentle touch when you’re anywhere near their vulvas.
But for some of us, it feels so fucking good.
That sensitivity is part of the fun. It’s why a good pussy slap feels can feel incredible. It gets the blood rushing to all the right places and ramps up the arousal.
One thing’s for sure, though. Even those of us who love getting a pussy slap don’t usually want one that hits hard.
I hesitate to even call it a slap. Or a spank, for that matter. It’s best when it’s more like a gentle tap. Any more than that and it usually crosses into discomfort.
Don’t Spank the Top of Her Ass
The middle of her ass is a great spanking spot. So is the bottom of her hass. If she’s a little more adventurous, she might be happy to have you spread her cheeks and smack her tight little asshole.
But that doesn’t mean you should treat her ass to a spanking free-for-all. Because there are a few spots you should still avoid.
The top of her ass is one of them. It’s just not designed to take a blow the way the rest of it is.
More importantly, you risk missing the mark and hitting her lower back. And that’s a complete no spanking zone. It’s very sensitive to pain and hitting her there can do some real damage.
Even if your aim is good, you should avoid spanking the top of her ass. That way, you won’t risk being an inch off and hurting her instead of turning her on.
Leave the Sides of Her Ass Alone
The sides of her ass are safer than the top of it. But it’s still not a great spanking spot.
There’s less muscle and fat there to cushion the blow. So, it’s just not as pleasurable, even if you get the force of the impact just right.
Warm Her Up First
No matter where you’re going to spank, take the time to warm her up first.
A slap on her ass when you’re in the middle of some dirty, filthy foreplay is going to feel amazing. One that comes out of the blue and catches her off guard probably won’t feel as good.
It’s a lot less likely to feel pleasurable if she doesn’t see it coming. Plus, anticipating a spank is part of the fun.
So, start by stroking her skin and rubbing her ass before giving her that first smack.
Keep the initial spanks on the softer side. Let it build up to the full impact so her ass is nice and ready by the time you’re giving her those firm slaps.
And if you really want to drive her wild, talk dirty to her before your hand makes contact with her ass.
Tell her what you’re about to do to her. If she’s the sweet, shy type, tell her she’s a good girl and you’re going to reward her with a proper spanking. If she’s more of a dirty girl, tell her she’s been bad and you’re going to bend her over and punish her.
Then, give her exactly what she wants.
Spank the middle of her ass. Clap her against the bottom of her cheeks. Smack her asshole if she’s into that kind of thing.
If you hit all the right spots, you’ll have one happy, horny lady who can’t wait to jump your bones.
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