3 Types of Pussy Massage You Need to Try
There are so many great ways to get rubbed
Pussy massages have been a complete game changer for me.
The first time I asked my husband for one, it was because I really liked the sound of it. All I really knew is that it would be great fingerplay, only a whole lot more of it.
I couldn’t just read about that and move on with my life. I had to experience it for myself.
And holy moly am I ever glad I did.
It was the kind of slow, steady stimulation I could just sink into.
It let me shut off all my thoughts and focus entirely on the pleasure I was getting.
And it made me come really fucking hard, too. Some of the best climaxes you can get - long and intense. I’d even have a laughing orgasm once in a while - it was that good.
It’s an incredibly fun way to fool around and a perfect way to get pampered. A good rubdown can make a gal feel really special, and this was about as good as a rubdown can get.
It even helped me get through some rough patches. Because it turns out a pussy massage can be a kind of pussy therapy, too.
Getting my pussy massaged has helped me break through some of my sad girl dry spells. It can get me in touch with my body when I feel disconnected from myself. Sometimes I’ll straight up do it for the hormone boost when I really need one.
But even though I was getting pussy massages on the regular, I didn’t experiment much at first. I kept doing it the same way every time.
On my back with my waterproof sex blanket spread out underneath me. Legs open, thighs propped up on pillows because I knew I’d be there a while. Eyes closed so I could take it all in. And enough lube for it to last as long as we wanted it to last.
There’s nothing wrong with doing it like that at all. It’s intuitive. It’s comfortable. I consider it the classic pussy massage position.
But after a while, I started playing around with it more. And now that I’ve had my pussy rubbed a few different ways, I’ve found some variations that are fucking fantastic.
If you’re looking for ways to mix up your pussy massages, these are three versions you should totally experiment with.
Subby Princess Pampering
So you’re getting your pussy massaged on the regular. And sooner or later, it occurs to you.
Maybe it would be even better with some light bondage.
You’re just lying there anyway. You’re not really supposed to move much. But there’s something really arousing about not being able to do it even if you wanted to.
I started trying it with just a blindfold, and already that made it better. The sensory deprivation enhances every sensation - and a pussy massage is all about enjoying every little bit of stimulation you’re getting.
If you’re even a tiny bit submissive, wearing a set of cuffs can make it really fun too. And tugging against your restraints when the pleasure gets really intense feels really satisfying.
That’s all fucking great, of course. But the best part is that it takes away the random guilty thoughts I sometimes get during a pussy massage.
That feeling I get that maybe I’m being a bit selfish. The part of me that still feels kind of iffy about being a pillow princess. My brain very rudely reminding me that I haven’t been going tit for tat by giving a cock massage for every rubdown I get.
Those all pretty much go away when I’m all bondaged up. Because then I can’t really do much other than take it and enjoy every moment of it - so that’s exactly what I do.
The Good Girl Cuddle Sesh
I love every single pussy massage I’ve had the good fortune to receive. But once in a while, I’d get this odd little feeling.
I felt like I was missing my husband.
Which didn’t really make sense because he was right there between my legs, touching my most sensitive bits in every conceivable way.
But still, I felt sort of distant from him.
I’m used to having him closer when he’s getting me off. I can usually feel him pressing into me, hear his breathing, and take in all the dirty things he’s whispering to me.
Well, except when he’s going down on me. But that was okay, because it always feels super intimate when someone’s face is right up in your business.
I felt like I was choosing between the pussy massage and feeling really close to him.
So, I decided not to choose anymore. I told him I wanted a pussy massage but I also wanted to get cuddles - and I wanted them at the same time.
It worked perfectly. I laid on my side, he big spooned me, and he gave me plenty of soft, slow finger action.
The stimulation is a bit different. He can’t do all the moves he’d normally use during a regular pussy massage. But it was still intensely pleasurable and deeply satisfying.
And if getting my pussy rubbed gives me the urge to fuck, we’re already in the spooning position so we’re basically good to go.
The Prone Pussy Rub
I’m all about getting off when I’m lying on my stomach.
It’s my masturbation style - I’m a grinder and a humper through and through.
Because of that, I’ve really embraced the prone bone sex position. Lying on my stomach with a wand vibrator under me and my husband on top of me is one of my favorite ways to finish.
And wouldn’t you know it, there’s a prone bone version of the pussy massage too.
It’s a lot like getting a sensual massage with a happy ending. You’re lying face down, thighs spread apart, and you’ve got well lubricated hands stroking your lips and clit for as long as you want them to.
Like the cuddly version, you can’t experience some of the pussy massage moves you could enjoy if you were lying on your back. But you still have all the ones that really count, and it’s really easy to add a finger or two inside you if you want the full pussy pleasure package.
Going prone is especially appealing if you don’t like feeling on display. For some reason, being naked on your stomach feels more modest than being fully exposed on your back - double that when you need to keep your legs spread open.
And it’s an even better option if you want your asshole lubed up and rubbed while your pussy’s getting pampered. But if you just stick to the basics, it’s still a fantastic position.
There’s No Wrong Way to Massage a Pussy
Pussy massages are just plain beautiful.
They’re sweet and intimate. They make you feel cared for and attended to. They’re one of the best ways to experience lots of extended, drawn out pleasure.
And they’re even better if you add a bit of variety once in a while.
I’m sure I’ll keep experimenting. As soon as I think of a new way to get a pussy massage, I’m going to assume the position and put it to the test.
But even if I stick to the versions I’ve already tried, it’s all good. As long as I can get my pussy rubbed right, I’ll be one happy lady.
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