8 Sexual Techniques Every Stud Knows How to Use
These sex moves will enhance her pleasure
There are three things you absolutely need to be great at sex.
First and foremost, you have to be communicative. You need the confidence to tell your partner what you want and ask them what they need.
You also have to be attentive. You have to pick up on all the subtle ways she responds to the things you do to her. The way her breathing changes, the volume and tone of her moaning, the way her body language sometimes speaks louder than her words.
And you’ve got to be responsive. Not just being able to read how she feels in the moment but actually changing what you’re doing to give her the exact kind of pleasure and stimulation she wants.
Those three things are essential. If you master them, you’re going to give her a great time.
But if you want to blow her socks clean off, you’ll need more than that. You’re going to have to master a few moves.
I don’t mean complicated sex positions. A lot of those are overrated. They sound impressive but they don’t always feel better than the classics.
And I don’t mean exploring all sorts of kinks, either. That can be a ton of fun if you’re both into it, but most women don’t need it to get off.
I’m talking about ways you can finger her, eat her out, and thrust into her that will leave her feeling fully fucked and blissful.
If you want to make her feel like she’s fucking a genuine stud, these are the moves you need to know.
The Coital Alignment Technique
Most women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Unless they get lots of clitoral stimulation, they can’t reach their peak.
That leaves them in a really frustrating position. They need their clits pleasured, but they still want to get fucked.
Ideally, they’d get both at the same time.
It’s actually not that hard to give her - there are a few different ways to give her clit some love while you’re thrusting into her.
But one of the most interesting ones is the Coital Alignment Technique. It’s a sex position that will let you stimulate her clit with your cock while you’re fucking her.
The Coital Alignment Technique is a variant of the missionary position. The only difference is that you have to position yourself a little further up than you normally would, so that you’re thrusting downward. That way, your cock will be sliding in and out of her while your shaft is rubbing along her pussy.
It’s kind of like a pussyjob with penetration. It’s the best of both worlds, and if you can pull it off you’re going to give her something she didn’t know she could get - an orgasm from your cock.
The G-Spot Tap
Most guys know how to stimulate the G-spot. Slide two fingers into her pussy, bend the fingers, and do the “come hither” motion to rub that magic spot.
That should be in any pussy lover’s repertoire. It’s a good, solid move.
But there’s another way to stimulate her G-spot with your fingers, and it’s way more intense.
It’s a technique you have to use with caution. For one thing, there’s a much higher chance it’ll make her squirt, so you might not want to use it unless you’ve laid down a waterproof sex blanket first.
It’s also a really powerful move. Even if you protect the sheets and she doesn’t mind squirting, she’ll still need a lot of prep and foreplay before you give it to her. Otherwise, she might get overstimulated, overwhelmed, and ask you to stop.
But if she’s ready for it, she’ll lose her mind with pleasure.
To pull it off, you have to slide two fingers inside her and hook them like you would normally do to stimulate her G-spot. Don’t rub it, though. Keep your fingers still and rock your wrist up and down.
Instead of stroking her G-spot, your fingers are going to tap it, and that’s going to be a very different sensation - one that can lead to some shockingly powerful orgasms.
The Kivin Method
If you’re going to show your lady an amazing time, you’re going to have to eat her pussy. That’s just the way it is - I don’t make the rules.
There are a few ways you can eat her out that will make it so much better for her, too.
You can tease her and let her pleasure build up. You can lick her pussy with complete enthusiasm. You can squeeze her hips or grab her thighs to make her feel even more desired.
And you can bust out the Kivin Method.
It’s basically a way to go down on her from a different angle. Instead of lying between her legs to eat her pussy, you’ll be coming at it from the side.
That doesn’t sound like a big deal but she will feel the difference. Instead of lapping your tongue up and down her pussy, you’ll be sliding it across. It also changes exactly where your tongue applies pressure to her clit.
Giving her the Kivin Method might make her come more quickly and more intensely. But even if it doesn’t, it’s going to change the stimulation she gets from oral and keep it more interesting.
Finger and Tongue Combo
I consider eating a lady out while fingering her to be a basic sex move. Every single person who fucks women should be doing this one and doing it often.
But I know that not every guy does it, and the ones who do don’t always take it seriously enough.
In most sexual encounters, this should be the centerpiece of your foreplay. It’s what all the licking and fingering should be building up to.
It’s a great way to make sure she has multiple blended orgasms before you even slide your dick inside her.
Eating her out while fingering her is a pretty simple thing to pull off, but perfecting it takes practice and feedback.
You have to get really good at managing your rhythm. You need to keep the tongue and fingers going at the right pace and speed, without letting one activity distract you from the other.
And your lady probably has preferences. She might want you to finger her hard while licking her soft and slow. More likely, she’ll be into you licking her fast while fingering her more gently. Or her favorite might be when your mouth and hand keep the same pace.
Whichever way she wants it, it will take a while to master it, especially if coordination isn’t your strong suit. So, start working on it as soon as you can.
Bringing Her to the Edge
I used to mostly hear about edging from people who were into BDSM, but it seems to be going mainstream. That’s a very, very good thing, because edging can be used for control play and all sorts of other kinky shit, but it can also just make a woman extremely horny and make her come really fucking hard.
Edging is partly about technique, but mostly about timing.
You can edge her with vibrators, with your mouth, or even with your dick. But the best way to start is by using your hands.
Use your best fingering moves to get her closer and closer to an orgasm. Then, pull back and stop stimulating her when she’s almost there - when she hasn’t started to come yet but she was just on the verge of getting there.
It sounds simple, but it’s easy to fuck it up.
If you pull away once her orgasm has started, you run the risk of giving her a ruined orgasm. She’s going to come, but it’s going to be weak and kind of disappointing.
If you get nervous and stop too early, she’s never going to hit those peaks of pleasure. Instead, it’ll feel like riding a kid’s roller coaster - lots of ups and downs but no real thrills.
When you get it right, though, she’ll feel this intense, mind-fucking frustration. She’ll have tasted that orgasm just enough to give her a deep and passionate craving for it.
That’s going to make her off-the-charts horny. And after you edge her a few times and finally let her come, the orgasm is going to be incredibly powerful.
It’s some seriously good shit and every guy who wants to feel like a sex god should know how to pull it off.
Check in with your gal before trying it, though. Being edged is kind of a weird feeling. For a lot of us, it’s incredible, exciting, and the results are more than worth the frustration. But some women just find it annoying. So, make sure she’s into it before you tease her with a bunch of near-climaxes.
Cervical Stimulation
Cervical stimulation is another move you have to be careful with.
Some women say they don’t enjoy it at all. And even those of us who really fucking love it can only enjoy it in the right conditions.
Those conditions are high levels of arousal.
Lots of stuff happens to her pussy when she’s aroused. It gets wet and swollen. Her clit and G-spot get some extra blood flow so that touching them isn’t overstimulating. And once she’s fully aroused, her vagina elongates and her cervix shifts positions.
That final stage of arousal is when her cervix is ready for some stimulation. Before that, it’s just uncomfortable.
So, make her comfortable and connected. Turn her on and give her lots and lots of foreplay.
And when she’s ready, finger her as deep as you can.
That’s the big secret to cervical orgasms - depth. Finger her or fuck her deep enough and you’ll be able to hit her cervix and give her a deep, full-body, mindblowing orgasm.
Depending on how long your fingers are and how deep you have to go, it might be easier to reach her cervix with three fingers instead of two. Make sure you take your time and maybe apply more lube if you’re going to ease a third finger inside her. Pay close attention to her reactions and make sure she’s comfortable the entire time.
Once you do reach her cervix, you’ll need to be a bit more cautious if she’s especially sensitive. Some women will prefer indirect stimulation, like rubbing around the cervix instead of tapping directly against it.
Cervical stimulation is really intense, so going too hard can quickly become too much. But if you manage to hit the sweet spot, you’ll treat her to a kind of orgasm she can’t experience from her clit or her G-spot.
Thrusting From the Bottom
If your girl likes being on top, it’s probably because she likes the control it gives her. She can take your cock exactly as deep as she wants it. She can go slow when she wants to enjoy the length of your cock, bounce faster when she wants to feel it pumping into her, and hold it steady when everything’s just right and she wants to ride you to a climax.
But being on top can get exhausting. Nearing her peak can overwhelm her and fuck up her rhythm. Her quads might get sore and start to burn up.
That’s when you should take over.
Being on the bottom doesn’t mean you have to let her do all the work. You can thrust into her and give her a really intense fuck.
Getting it right includes a bit of maneuvering and position. You need to have room to move your hips, and you’ll get more force into it if you can bring your knees up a bit.
It helps to grab her by the hips or her ass and hold her up, too. That way she can completely let go and just enjoy the way you’re fucking her.
And it takes some stamina. Fucking her from the bottom can be exhausting, especially if hip thrusts aren’t part of your workout routine.
It’s kind of a pornstar move, but it’s one that’s actually worth trying. She can hop on top of any guy, but if you meet her rhythm with your thrusts you can give her a ride she’ll remember.
The Shocker
The Shocker is a really good way to combine anal stimulation with pussy pleasure. You can do it with one hand or two, but either way, you’ll be thrusting into her pussy with two fingers and using another one to finger her ass.
It’s the perfect way to pleasure her ass if she finds it too challenging to take your cock. The pussy stimulation is going to make it easier to take any kind of anal penetration, too.
Even if she really wants you to fuck her ass, using your fingers is a really good way to warm her up before giving her your cock.
If you get her off with this move, she’ll have really strong blended orgasms. But if you want to give her something even better, use your tongue at the same time.
Eating her out while you’re rubbing her G-spot and fingering her ass is going to give her three intense kinds of stimulation at once. Take it from me, the pay-off is going to be an incredible experience that will make her lightheaded and in love with your fingers.
Go the Extra Mile
As long as you’ve got good sexual communication, you’re decently confident, and you’re happy to eat her pussy, you’ll be good in bed.
The sex will be satisfying. She won’t have any complaints.
But the things you do to her might not end up in any of the Top 5 spots in her spank bank.
To earn your place there, you’ve got to be extra. You have to bust out the moves that make her come so hard it surprises her. You have to do the things that make her feel convinced she’s having better sex than all of her friends.
You have to give her blended orgasms, cervical orgasms, and really powerful post-edging orgasms.
And you can, because all it takes is the right moves.
Lick her sideways, get the rhythm right with your fingers and mouth, and pound her from below. If you do all that, she won’t just be satisfied - she’ll be impressed.
If you want even more orgasmic tips, check out the Treat Yourself to a Deep Dickin’ (Depth, Donuts, and Digressions) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!
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