How to Stay Cool When You're Getting Hot
Tips for getting down in the heat
Sex is really fucking hot. Sometimes a little too hot.
Every spring, I start making my summer sex plans.
They usually involve some outdoor sex. This year, I want to fuck on the deck a few times. I might even do it every week.
I’m thinking of going to bed fully naked (socks on, though). I’ve always felt way too self-conscious to do that, but this year I feel like I could actually be down for it.
I don’t think I can get away with trampoline sex - the neighbors would probably catch me. But I might treat myself to a backyard camp out complete with snacks and plenty of tent sex.
It’s really exciting, but then July rolls around and I remember that the heat can be a real bitch sometimes.
I always have to put some of my summer sex plans on hold because some days are way too hot. I take mini vacations from fucking, because I can’t get horny when I’m dying of heat. I don’t want to get touched. I don’t want to raise my heart rate any higher than it has to be. I definitely don’t want to get on top and work up a sweat.
But I don’t want to put those sex plans on hold, either.
I want my hot, sexy, naked nights where I don’t even think of watching TV.
I want to get bent over the sunroom couch and slammed from behind while I watch the sunset.
I want to make it to the fall without feeling like I had too many missed opportunities.
I want to enjoy summer-long sex even if it’s hot as balls. And you probably do too. So here are a few tips to get as much action as you can, even when the weather heats up.
Turn Your Bedroom into a Chill Zone
If you want more summer sex, you’ll have to keep your bedroom as cool as it can be.
If you don’t have curtains that block the sunlight, get some. They’ll keep the sun from heating your room all day and making it feel like a sauna at night.
If you have a ceiling fan, keep it running. A pedestal fan can make a big difference, too.
And if you can afford it, an air conditioner can keep your room at the perfect temperature. The year I got a portable air conditioner is the one where I started having sex whenever I felt like it, no matter what the outdoor temperature was.
You can even use it strategically. Run it for about an hour before you get down to business and your room will probably stay cool long enough for all your foreplay, fucking, and aftercare.
And keep the door shut so all the cool air stays in and none of the warmer air from the rest of your place seeps through. Protect your chilly space and you’ll always have a comfortable spot to fuck in.
Have Some Shower Sex
Taking a cool shower before getting it on is another good way to get comfortable before fucking in the heat.
It’s even better if you just go ahead and have sex in the shower.
Shower sex is a little overrated. You have less space to work with. There’s a limited set of positions you can pull off. And it’s really fucking slippery so you’ve got to be extra careful.
It can be a lot of work. But when the alternative is trying to enjoy a fuck when it feels like your room is trying to bake you alive, shower sex can be extremely refreshing.
And you can make it fun. Soap each other. Rub each other down. And maybe bring a bottle of silicone lube in case you need a little extra help.
Schedule Sex (But Not in the Bad Way)
I’m not normally a big fan of scheduling sex.
A lot of people recommend that for people who have slow sex drives or low sexual desire. It almost never goes well.
But when I want to fuck on a really hot day, I put sex on the schedule. Not to force myself to have it, but to make sure I have it when the temperatures are cooler.
I’m not much of a morning person, so it never occurs to me to have morning sex. On hot days, though, that’s often the best time.
If you only have a short window before it gets too hot, take advantage of it. Have a mid-morning romp so you don’t regret missing your shot when the weather heats up.
Think Outside the Bedroom
Your bedroom might not be the best place to fuck when things heat up.
Heat rises. So, if your bedroom is on the second floor of a house, try fucking on the main floor instead.
The living room usually works very well. Mine is a sunroom, though, which means it turns into a glass box of heat when it’s warm out. So, I’ll probably be fucking in the kitchen. I’m sure the cool countertop will feel really fucking good on my tits, too.
If you’ve got a basement, turn it into your temporary sex den. Bring down pillows and blankets if you have to. Throw your sex toys and lubes in a bag so you can dig them out when you need them.
If you’ve got the privacy, most definitely fuck outside. Outdoor sex is such a fucking thrill, even if you keep it simple. I like leaning over the railing on my deck, lifting my dress, and letting Mr. Austin rail me from behind. It’s pretty much perfect.
And if the only place you can have enough privacy in your room, you can at least avoid the bed. Fucking on the floor can be cooler, especially if you sleep on a memory foam mattress.
Avoid Smushy Sex Positions
Fucking is going to make you hot, but some positions will make it worse.
Anything with too much close contact is going to turn up the body heat and make you more uncomfortable than you have to be.
Avoid anything too smushy, like missionary where you’re pressed close together.
Hitting it from the back is perfect for warm weather. Doggystyle, face-down ass-up, and spooning are all great positions for maximum stimulation with minimal physical contact.
If it’s really fucking hot, you can also keep your hands to yourself more. I love the way my husband touches me, grabs me, and squeezes me when we’re having sex but when it gets too hot I’m okay with keeping it to mostly dick-to-pussy contact.
Make It a Mutual Masturbation Night
Mutual masturbation basically means masturbating with your partner. Jerking and jilling next to each other can be incredibly entertaining, very arousing, and deeply intimate.
In the summer, it might save your sex life.
When it’s too fucking hot to fuck, masturbating together is one of the hottest ways to still get off.
All you have to do is get naked and get yourselves off. Watching porn while you do it is optional. So is using sex toys. But hey, there’s no reason you shouldn’t be making it more fun.
Stay Cool
Don’t waste your horny days just because you’re dealing with hot nights.
Plan ahead so you have a cool spot to fuck. Modify the way you have sex so you can still make it happen even if you’re sweating before it starts. And if that’s still too much, you can still masturbate together.
Don’t let the heat fuck with your summer sex. Do whatever it takes to get yours.
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