4 Simple Gifts to Spice Up Your Valentine’s Day

Because it’s always better with some hanky panky

I hate to admit this, but I haven’t really planned anything for Valentine’s Day yet.

I know, I know. It’s getting late. I should at least have a vague idea of how I’m going to celebrate by now.

Plus, I felt pretty good all December because I practically managed to finish preparing for Christmas by the end of November. It’d be cool to feel that way in February, too.

But I don’t know if I’ll get to. I might just end up winging the whole thing this year.

Which honestly wouldn’t be that bad. It should be fine as long as I get the Valentine’s vibe right - sweet and cozy, and at least a bit naughty.

Besides, I’ve got a dresser drawer packed full with massage oils, flavored lubes, and all sorts of other things that can make any night feel special. I’ll be able to figure something out, even at the very last minute.

And if you still haven’t figured out how you’re going to spice up your Valentine’s Day either, don’t worry. I’ve got you covered. Here are some of my personal recommendations for simple little gifts that will make the day pleasurable and memorable.

Bubblegum Play Kit

Lately, I always recommend the same two massage products.

There’s the Slow Sex Full Body Massage Gel, which I absolutely love. It feels great on the skin, it glides well, and it cleans off easily.

And there’s the Slow Sex Warming Massage Gel, which is basically the same but it has a warming sensation that can be really nice.

The only thing I’m not totally over the moon about is the scent.

Both of them have a subtle coconut aroma. And there’s nothing wrong with that at all. It actually smells quite nice. I just happen to prefer something a little more playful - peach, vanilla, that sort of thing.

Which is why I think the Bubblegum Play Kit is an even better choice for Valentine’s Day.

It has the same two amazing massage oils, except they’re bubblegum scented. It’s the perfect touch to add to an already satisfying and arousing rubdown.

It also comes with a bubblegum lip gloss, which is a lot of fun.

The packaging says it’s for kissing, and I’m sure it works really well for an extended makeout session. But I bet you can think of something even better you could do with those smooth and slippery bubblegum lips.

Flavored Arousal Oil

I know arousal oils sound like a gimmick. And it’s true that they won’t turn you into a submissive little sex puppet.

Which is really unfortunate, but that doesn’t mean they’re pointless. They’re still a whole lot of fun.

A good arousal oil will basically do three things.

They make your clit feel really nice. Warm, tingly, throbby - depends on the type you use.

That sensation helps you get even more aroused. It makes you wet, keeps your mind in the gutter, and generally horns you up.

It also makes your clit more sensitive. So when you act on all those feelings, you get even more pleasure than you normally would.

One dab and you end up having dirtier sex, more enthusiastic action, and bigger sensations. Which is why it’s perfect for making a sexy special occasion even more exciting than it already is.

There are lots of great options - I keep a bunch of different ones in that drawer for a reason. But for Valentine’s Day, I think I’d specifically recommend the Exsens Cooling Raspberry Mint.

I wouldn’t say it’s my overall favorite, but it’s got a big advantage over a lot of other arousal oils - it’s flavored.

And with all that extra horniness, you’ll be glad you used one that’s nice to lick off.

Naughty Candy Heart Buttplug

Valentine’s Day sex should be special.

And there’s nothing more special than buttstuff.

Except maybe cute buttstuff.

When I tried to think of which toys I’d want to play with on Valentine’s Day, I thought of the Naughty Candy Heart Buttplug right away.

It’s one of my favorite butt toys and it just so happens to be extremely on theme.

It’s adorable. It’s manageable. It’s comfortable.

And it can help you get powerful blended orgasms, which is a great way to cap off a romantic evening.

Blindfold and Feather Tickler

I almost didn’t want to include the blindfold and tickler combo, because it’s so obvious that it almost feels cheesy.

I might as well tell you to cover the bed in rose petals and feed each other chocolate covered strawberries.

But I’ve got to mention it, because it’s a classic for a reason.

Like, it just plain works.

If you’ve ever been blindfolded and touched all over, you know that it enhances the whole experience. Your skin feels more sensitive. Fingers on your body get you turned on really fast. Every gentle spank is like an exciting surprise.

And it’s even better when you get the feathers involved.

The soft strokes can be really intense. The sensation is amazing. Without the blindfold, those feathers will feel nice - with it, they might make you breathlessly horny.

So yeah, it’s kind of cheesy. Especially on Valentine’s Day.

But it’s also a really great way to tease, slow things down, and get so worked up you’re practically begging for your heart-shaped buttplug.

Get Cozy and Be Naughty

I’m sure some big, grand gesture would be really nice. But honestly, I think of Valentine’s Day as pretty low-key.

I like it to be romantic and sweet.

It’s nice when it’s intimate and cozy.

It’s even better when you can get felt up, rubbed down, and banged hard too.

And it doesn’t take a whole lot to make that happen. A bit of flirting, a couple of good moves, some slippery massage oil - it’s so much better than roses and a box of chocolates.

Don’t skip the chocolates, though. You’ll definitely want them after the blindfold comes off.

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