4 Simple Dirty Talk Phrases to Use on Him
Even if you’re painfully shy
Dirty talk is so fucking amazing.
You’d think that getting naked, having your pussy rubbed, and taking some good dick would be as hot as it gets.
But no, it’s not. Because when you add some dirty talk, that’s when things really get fired up.
You can have decent sex without it, for sure. But talking dirty is always going to make it better - like, shockingly better.
So, there. Case closed. Dirty talk is awesome and you should do it a bunch. Go run your mouth and enjoy some of the most intense sex you’ve ever had.
Okay, fine. I know it’s not that simple.
Not for girls like me, anyway.
See, I’m painfully shy. I embarrass so easily it’s kind of nuts. I can’t even have a conversation without blushing and getting nervous.
So, I wasn’t exactly talking my husband’s ear off while he was fucking me.
I mean, I thought about it. I thought about it plenty. My inner monologue was firing off filthy phrases left and right.
My mouth wasn’t, though.
And I told myself it was fine. Because it’s not like I was being quiet at all. I moan a lot. I come pretty damn loudly. I’m a very noisy girl if you happen to be fucking me right.
But still, I wanted to actually say something - something other than “oh my god” and shouting “yes” every time his tongue circled around my clit.
I knew it would be so much hotter if I could just get the words out - for my husband, and for me too.
It was just so damn intimidating.
But it got a lot easier when I stopped overthinking it. I realized that it didn’t have to be complicated. All I had to do was say a few short, properly dirty phrases here and there. And the more I did it, the more natural it felt.
So, look. If you’re hella confident, you can just go ahead and say all the filthy words that cross your mind. I’m not worried about you - in fact, I’m a little jealous. You’ve got this, and your dirty mouth is going to make someone very, very happy.
But if you’re a shy girl like me, I’ve got you covered.
I’ve got four dirty little phrases that will make you feel hot, drive him wild, and help you have the kind of sex you want to brag to your friends about.
Fuck Me
Fuck me now.
Fuck me harder.
Fuck me faster.
I want you to fuck me.
Easy. Simple. Just two or three words you can whisper to show plenty of enthusiasm.
It makes you seem extra horny. Like you don’t just want him to fuck you - you want it so bad you’re asking for it. Maybe you’re even begging a little.
It’s going to make him feel wanted, too. You’re showing that you’re into him, that you desire him, that you need him inside you.
Having the privilege of fucking you is already going to turn him on like crazy. But this takes it up a notch.
It’s great sexual communication, too. You’re not just talking dirty - you’re telling him when to fuck you and exactly how you want it.
I Want Your Cock
Give me your cock.
Your cock feels amazing.
I love your cock.
This is another way to show a lot of enthusiasm.
But it’s so much more than that, because it’s also going to give him a major ego stroke.
Praising a guy’s cock in any way, shape, or form is going to really excite him. It works every single time, without fail. It fills some deep emotional need they all seem to have.
So if you really want to light him up, make him feel special, and instantly become one of the best fucks he’s ever had, all you have to do is talk about his dick and how much you love it.
Eat My Pussy
Lick my pussy.
Go down on me.
I’ll be honest with you, this one took me a while.
I really wanted to say it, but I couldn’t get the words out. They were right there on the top of my tongue - because I really wanted to be on the tip of his. But it took months of him fucking my brains out before I could work up the nerve to actually say it.
It felt really fucking good once I did, though.
There’s just something so confident about it. Like you’re taking charge - but on easy mode.
Which is perfect because I don’t really want to domme my husband or anything like that. I still want him to take the lead and bang me every which way. But it’s nice to break through the shyness and not be so bashful about what I want.
It shows some appreciation for him, too. Like you love the way he uses his tongue so much that you can’t fight the urge - you need him to go to town on your lips and clit.
Oh, and you’ll get your pussy eaten more often. So, that’s a nice little perk.
Come on Me
Come on my tits.
Come on my ass.
Come inside me.
Come on my pussy.
Come in my mouth.
Again, super enthusiastic. Doesn’t get more enthusiastic than that, really.
But it’s also a perfect dirty girl move.
It doesn’t even matter where you want him to finish. It’s the fact that you have a preference - that’s what makes it hot.
You’re not asking him to get it over and done with. You’re not letting him blow his load because you’re a good sport. You’re showing him that you’re eager for it - that watching him come and feeling him finish on you genuinely turns you on.
And he’ll enjoy coming on you even more if he knows he’s giving you the kind of cumshot you want.
It doesn’t have to be on you, though. It doesn’t have to be inside you, either.
Sure, he’s probably secretly hoping that you’ll beg him to come all over your pretty face. Or that you’ll be a little sweetheart and ask him to fill your mouth.
And if that happens to be what you want, go right ahead and ask him to do it. He’ll love it just as much as you do.
But if you’d rather not have splatter all over you, it’s all good. You can still tell him what you want instead.
Say something like “let me watch you come” while he’s jerking off to a climax.
Whisper “I want to see you come all over yourself” while you stroke him and make him blow his load all over his stomach.
It’s all good, it’s all hot, and it’s always going to turn him on.
Shy Girls Can Bring It
Dirty talk is tough for shy girls.
Trust me, I know.
You might never get comfortable enough to do those long, extended roleplay sessions. I don’t think I ever will, anyway.
And maybe you can’t start talking dirty as soon as his hand goes up your shirt - and only stop when he makes you come so hard it leaves you speechless.
But you really don’t have to.
Because saying a few little dirty things is enough to drive him wild, make him feel wanted, and make sex so much more playful.
So, do what I did. Start simple. When you’ve been fooling around for a bit and the foreplay’s got you all hot and bothered, just whisper a simple little “fuck me.”
Then when you’re comfortable enough, maybe ask him to come on your ass.
And all you have to do in between is moan and enjoy all the wonderful things his fingers and dick can do to you.
If you liked this article, you should totally check out the What Actually Makes a Man Attractive (Rolled Sleeves, Wheel Moves, and Good Hands) episode of my dirty and intimate podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!
