5 Ways to Make Pussy Eating Feel Even More Amazing
You can make it better, even from the receiving end
I’m a greedy girl.
There are so many ways of having sex that are pretty damn good. They’re reliable and pleasurable. They get the job done and make you come.
They’ll make you feel warm all over. They’ll help you bond with your sweet and loving partner. They’ll even ease your nerves and help you sleep.
There are way worse things in life than decent sex. So I should probably be okay settling for it.
But I can’t. I know I could have more and I want it.
I want an orgasm so strong that I couldn’t even handle another one.
I want the dick to go as deep as it can. I want the pace to stay perfect. I want a position that will hit all the right spots.
I want the kind of flirting that makes me so horny I practically shiver all over.
I want rubdowns that are just as soothing as physical therapy - but end in ways that would make a massage therapist lose their license.
I don’t really see the point in settling for less when I know I could be enjoying myself so much more.
And that’s how I feel about having my pussy eaten.
It’s always good. A tongue working my clit is bound to make me come sooner or later, even if the technique’s off. Having my husband’s face between my legs is definitely arousing - and having someone else’s would be even hotter.
A nice, basic lapjob is perfectly fine.
But it can be so much more than that. It can make your eyes roll into the back of your head. It can make you feel deliriously turned on. It can rock your world so hard you feel like you can’t live without it.
If you’re like me and you don’t feel like settling for fine, there are a few things you can do to make getting your pussy eaten even better than it already is.
Shift Your Hips
It’s weirdly easy to feel stuck when someone’s going down on you.
Not bad stuck, of course. And not kinky stuck, like when you pretend you’re pinned under the bed and act all annoyed that your husband is pulling down your panties and fingering you.
More like the kind of stuck where you feel like it’s not your job to figure out how all this pussy eating business is going to happen.
He’s the one who told you to lie down. He’s the one who spread your legs apart. He’s the one who dove in so he could mouth all over your muff.
Wherever he put you, that’s where you’re going to stay until he’s done.
Besides, you want him to be comfortable - all that sniper pose pussy licking can’t be easy on his neck.
So yeah, I get it. I’ve had that stuck feeling plenty of times - way more often than the kinky version, sadly.
But it’s so much better when you let yourself more around and have more control.
Shift your hips. Scoot yourself up or down. Tilt your sexy little pelvis. Whatever it takes to get the position just right, do it.
Because getting the angle right changes everything. It helps that tongue hit all the right spots. It lets you feel every single lick and motion. It enhances the stimulation and intensifies the orgasms.
Whoever’s going down on you won’t mind one bit, either. It’ll probably be easier on their neck. They can make adjustments of their own if it’s not.
And they’ll be able to make you come more easily, which is why they’re down there in the first place.
Grind Against Their Face
There’s a reason facesitting feels so fucking good.
If you can get over the worry that they might suffocate down there, you can give yourself a hell of a ride. I’m talking deep, intense stimulation. More pressure than you can normally get from a good licking. And you can use your hips to find the perfect rhythm.
Amazing stuff through and through.
And the best part is you don’t actually have to be on top to experience all that.
All you need to do is grind your pussy against your partner’s mouth.
The sensations are pretty damn similar. You get the satisfaction of letting your hips move the way they naturally want to move when you’re turned on. And you’re taking charge without feeling like you’re doing all the work.
It’s not quite the exact same as facesitting - you’ll still want to ride your partner’s mouth now and then. But it’s close enough that it’s totally worth doing.
Show All Your Enthusiasm
You’re getting your pussy eaten, so it’s a good day for you. Like, you probably feel pretty damn pumped about it. Excited, even.
But that doesn’t mean you’re necessarily showing that excitement.
Which isn’t really a bad thing. Sometimes you just want to focus on how good it all feels and you practically forget to even make a sound.
It does make a difference, though. I didn’t want to believe it either, but doing all the enthusiastic stuff does genuinely improve the experience.
First, it’s legitimately enjoyable to let yourself get really into it. Grabbing their hair, moaning, talking dirty, begging them not to stop - it’s a whole lot of fun and helps you stay right in the moment. Even if you’re being a bit performative, it’s still a blast.
But it also encourages them to be more enthusiastic. The more you get into it, the more they will too. And enthusiasm is at least half of what makes pussy eating good. It’s even more important than technique.
Seriously. I’d take someone who’s really into tracing the alphabet on my clit over someone who’s doing the Kivin method but phoning it in.
And yeah, sometimes you’re not going to be in that kind of mood. That’s totally fine, too. Nothing wrong with just lying back, enjoying it, and letting out a few soft moans.
But if you can get a little frisky with it, it will totally pay off.
Get Your Ass on a Wedge
I keep a wedge permanently on the bed.
Partly because it’s cute. I just got one that’s shaped like a heart and it’s absolutely adorable.
But mostly because I don’t want to fuck without one. And I really don’t want to get my pussy eaten without at least having the wedge as an option.
Tucking that thing under your hips just puts you at a perfect angle. Your pelvis, your legs, everything is right where you want them to be. It’s a position that only gymnasts can hold the whole way through, but the wedge makes it easy and natural.
The result is better tongue access, longer pussy eating sessions, and less soreness in your legs from trying to hold them the way all the really dedicated pornstars do.
After trying it, you might not end up keeping it on your bed. But you’ll definitely make sure it’s nearby.
Put Your Comfort First
This is a big one for basically anything sexual.
There’s nothing wrong with trying to ease yourself out of your comfort zone a bit.
Like trying to strip seductively even though it makes you feel a bit silly. Wearing a bit of lingerie when a part of you isn’t totally convinced you can pull it off. Riding hard on that dick and trying not to think about how your tits are bouncing every which way.
It can be really nice to tell the little voice in your head to just zip it so you can do the fun sexy thing and love every moment of it.
But there’s no reason to be a hero about it. For the most part, if something isn’t comfortable for you then you shouldn’t do it.
Especially because having someone go down on you can make you feel really vulnerable - and not just when they’re eating it from the back.
If you’re going to feel on display, you should at least have it be in a way you enjoy.
Keep your shirt on if you get too self-conscious when you’re butt-ass naked - or tit-ass naked, I should say.
If you’re in a position that’s making you sore and achey, switch to an easier one.
If 69ing doesn’t really do anything for you, then skip it. But if sucking on a stiff dick helps you feel less exposed, get in a position where you can stuff that thing in your mouth.
Whatever it takes to make you comfortable, just go for it. Because you won’t be able to focus on all the pleasure and stimulation you’re getting unless your body feels good and you feel good about yourself.
If that means keeping your top on, then the top stays on.
Turn Up the Pleasure
Obviously, there’s only so much you can do from the receiving end.
If you’re getting eaten out by someone with zero game, it’s tough to get maximally horny during it.
If they’re all technique and no gusto, you might come but it probably won’t rock your socks off.
If they suck at listening, they’ll probably suck at going down on you too.
But if they’re decent at it, then you’re probably going to have a good time.
And if you shift your hips, say a few dirty words, and grind their face like you mean it, you can turn that good oral into something that will really blow your mind.
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