Why Sex With a Shy Girl Is So Hot
4 reasons you’re lucky to hit it
Confidence is sexy.
You’ve heard that plenty of times. And you’ve thought it even more often.
I know you have, because it’s pretty much the only part of sexiness that doesn’t feel subjective. You can nitpick what makes someone hot or alluring, but everyone agrees that confidence helps.
It’s not like I can deny it, either. Confident men have always turned me on.
And confident women intimidate the fuck out of me - which is basically the same thing.
But whenever I heard that confidence is sexy, it made me feel bad about myself.
Because I’m sure I had a lot of great qualities, but confidence definitely wasn’t one of them.
I’ve always been painfully shy. Just as bashful as can be.
Once I get to know someone really well, I’m comfortable. I can be myself. I’m easy breezy.
Until then, I’m awkward and blushy. I’m self-conscious and a little closed off. I feel like there’s a spotlight shining right on me - and I act like it too.
And all of that made me feel completely unattractive. If confidence is sexy, then I figured that made me the total opposite of sexy.
Which doesn’t really make a whole lot of sense, honestly. Because I was really into shy girls. Still am.
I couldn’t see it in myself, but I could definitely see it in other girls. I was turned on by girls who looked bashful. My porn history was full of shy cuties.
I wished I could be more confident, but I never once thought that about other girls. I loved their shyness. It didn’t make them any less sexy. If anything, it made them extra attractive and fuckable.
After spending all that time thirsting over them, I’ve nailed down a few reasons why nailing a shy girl is so hot.
She Turns the Cuteness Up to Ten
I use words like hot and sexy pretty loosely. But I think there’s a pretty clear division between hot girls and cute girls.
The confident girls, they’re the hot ones. There’s something powerful and self-possessed about them. It’s attractive as hell.
Shy girls tend to be cute instead. And that can make them just as irresistible.
Cute girls really do it for me.
The sweetness and the doe eyes. The way they look adorable in a very hot way. Throw in a soft and colorful aesthetic to match and my heart melts.
And if she’s shy, it’s the cherry on top of that sweet sundae.
Every blush. Every moment she looks down bashfully. Every time she looks like she’s trying to work up the courage to say something. The subtle fidgeting she does when she nervously opens up to you.
All of it makes her extra cute, which is going to make every dirty thing she does even more satisfying.
She Brings Out Your Dominant Side
For the most part, I’m sexually submissive.
Really good sex makes me feel like I’m giving up control. I want to feel like things are being done to me. I find it incredibly arousing to be tied up and just a little helpless.
Most of my fantasies involve someone taking charge and dominating me.
Except when they involve shy girls.
When my mind goes there, it creates a completely different dynamic. Instead of being submissive, it brings out my dominant side.
It makes me want to take care of her and treat her like a princess. I want to take the lead and give her all the pleasure she wants. If there’s any bondage gear involved, I want the restraints to be on her - preferably pink ones.
And that’s part of what makes fucking a shy girl so hot. It’s not just her - it’s what she brings out in you.
The fact that she brings out your protective and nurturing side. It pushes you to be more seductive, to work harder on getting her to open up.
Her shyness gives her a more innocent vibe, which can make you feel like a hot daddy or a sexy mommy domme.
The way she carries herself encourages you to take the lead, take control, and guide her while you fuck her.
Her being shy is going to make you feel extra dominant - and that can be an incredible turn-on.
She’s Secretly Freaky
Okay, so this one isn’t a guarantee. It’s more anecdotal than anything.
But if you fuck a shy girl, there’s a decent chance you’re getting in bed with a very dirty girl.
She might not talk a big game when it comes to sex. She might not be quick to make dirty jokes or brag about how nasty she can be.
But if she’s quiet, she has a lot more time to spend indulging her filthy daydreams.
Her mind wanders and it goes into some very dirty places. She fantasizes a lot, which gives her plenty of time to explore the nastiest ideas she can come up with.
Her spank bank is probably full of super hardcore clips she added to her Pornhub watchlist - and even weirder shit she keeps in her hidden hentai folder.
She might be quick to show you that side of her. But if you can build enough trust and make her feel safe enough to let her kinky imagination loose, it can result in some extremely interesting sex.
You Get to See Her Turn Dirty
Shy girls are kind of like sex caterpillars. Because when you fuck them, you get to witness a beautiful transformation.
She goes from being super guarded to being fully naked and vulnerable for you.
The girl who isn’t always comfortable speaking her mind turns into the girl who gives you enthusiastic oral.
You’ve seen her act like an innocent sweetheart. Which makes it even hotter when she says filthy things to you and lets you have your way with her ass.
Dirty girls are hot. No doubt about that.
But there’s something extra hot about seeing a girl turn dirty.
And that’s exactly what you get when you fuck a girl who normally keeps her sexy side hidden.
Shy Girls Are Hella Hot
I still think confidence is sexy. But it’s not the only game in town.
There are so many things that make shy girls endearing and cute.
And I hate knowing that so many of them still feel the way I used to. They’re convinced that being shy makes them less fuckable.
It doesn’t. It makes them incredibly attractive.
And sure, not everyone can appreciate a shy girl. But that doesn’t mean shy girls have nothing to offer - it just means they’re missing out.
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