3 Sex Moves You Need to Use on Her Tonight
Blowing her mind is easier than you think
Becoming a better fuck is a whole-ass project.
You have to get comfortable with open, positive conversations about sex.
You need to practice your dirty talk until it comes to you naturally.
You have to undo the shame and embarrassment that keep you inhibited.
You’ve got to work on managing all your insecurities so you can be more confident being vulnerable.
None of that is going to happen overnight.
But there are a few moves you can use right away that will instantly make you a better fuck.
They’re simple and easy, but they’re going to make an incredible difference.
Pulling out these moves is going to give your partner lots of pleasure. But it’s about way more than that.
They’re incredibly arousing. They’re the kinds of moves that change the way she feels about you fucking her. They’ll make her look at you differently - in a very, very good way.
Use all three of these the next time you fuck her and enjoy the big reaction they get.
Edging
Edging is a perfect way to make fingering extra exciting.
Rub her pussy the way she loves it. Stroke her clit until you see her pleasure building.
When she’s just on the verge of an orgasm, pull your fingers away.
She’ll squirm. She’ll moan. She might seem frustrated at first - but then she’ll get desperate for more.
That’s what makes edging a powerful move. Bringing her so close to a climax but denying her the satisfaction is going to increase her arousal.
She’ll be even hornier than she was when your fingers were working her clit.
That’s an intense feeling, and you can make it even stronger by edging her two or three more times.
Then you can finish her off with your fingers - if she hasn’t already begged for your cock.
That’s when all the work you put into teasing her really pays off. Her intense arousal and the long buildup will result in a really strong orgasm.
Edging her is also going to make her feel extremely attracted to you. Not just because you’re capable of making her come so hard, but because of how attentive it makes you.
Successful edging means being tuned in to all the subtle cues that she’s about to come. The changes in her breathing. The subtle tensing in her thighs and ab muscles. All the soft, involuntary sounds she makes when she’s getting close.
Being responsive to those is going to make her feel taken care of and closely connected with you. It’s going to show her that you know your way around her body. And that’s hot as fuck.
A Good, Long Pussyjob
If you watch porn on the regular, you’ve seen plenty of pussyjobs.
It’s that move where a guy will slide his hard cock along a girl’s pussy - or she’ll rub her pussy along his cock if she’s really eager.
That’s definitely a move you need to use. And you can do it the same way they do it in porn - as long as you do it a lot longer.
Porn pussyjobs are teases. In most scenes, it’ll be a few token strokes before he plunges it inside her.
Make yours last instead. Don’t rush to fucking her.
Rubbing your dick against her pussy is incredibly hot and highly stimulating.
It’s the cock she loves giving her the clit stimulation she really craves, so take your time. Let her really enjoy it.
Give her a chance to get really worked up and horny. Do it until she’s practically begging you to fuckher. Or keep pressing your cock against her pussy until it makes her come.
It’s incredibly stimulating and pleasurable.
But it’s also a major turn-on because it shows her that you take her pleasure seriously. That even when your cock is involved, it’s not just about you - you still want to make sure her clit gets plenty of attention.
The Fold and Fuck
Lots of women want to feel small and submissive when they’re having sex.
Making her feel that way might take some roleplaying. The right kind of dirty talk might do it too.
Or you can do it by folding her and fucking her.
It’s a variant on missionary sex that makes it a bit more complicated but a lot more intense.
Instead of having her spread her legs, you bend them back for her. That gives you a better angle for deeper penetration. It also makes it easier for you to give her hard, powerful thrusts.
And even if she’s not super flexible, the fact that you’re folding her body even slightly is going to make her feel small and overpowered.
To give her the advanced version of this, use your arms or shoulders to push her legs back. That way, you can use your hands to pin her wrists down to the bed.
Everything about this move is going to make you seem really dominant. How strong your body feels on top of hers. How much control you’ve got over her. And how mindfuckingly overwhelming the pounding you’re giving her is.
Be the Stud She Wants
Orgasms are amazing. They’re essential for almost any great sex.
But they’re not enough.
Really good sex is about arousal and excitement, not just pleasure.
Your lady doesn’t just want to come. She wants to get there a certain way - and with a certain kind of guy.
A guy who’s attentive and present. A guy who takes her pleasure seriously. A guy who can let his dominant side out.
And if you edge her, pussyjob her, fold her, and fuck her real good, that’s exactly who you’ll be.
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