5 Tips for Eating Pussy and Fingering Her at the Same Time
It’s the ultimate foreplay move
The first time I got my pussy eaten, it completely changed the way I thought about sexual pleasure.
I thought being fucked would be the thing. That nothing could compare to a good pounding.
I knew pussy eating was supposed to feel good, but I thought it would just be a lead up to the real action.
Then I got to actually feel it. That’s when I knew it would have a special place in my heart - and elsewhere on my body.
It’s basically the perfect blend of sensations.
It's pleasantly warm. The lips and tongue are really soft but still have enough strength and firmness to be very stimulating. The licking, lapping, and tracing the tongue does all give incredible amounts of pleasure.
Even before I got to come from it, I knew it would be one of my favorite things to experience.
What I didn’t realize, though, is that it could be better.
Not just because of the way it feels when a tongue moves in circles around my clit. Not just because of the Kivin method.
It’s because I discovered just how fucking good blended stimulation can be.
If pussy eating was amazing, then pussy eating with something inside me was mindblowing.
I have a long-standing fantasy of getting fucked while being eaten out. But I’m missing a participant to make that one come true.
Dildos and thrusters are a really fucking good way to get an approximation of that experience - and to come really fucking hard from it.
But the simplest way to do it is with fingers and tongue.
If you want to pleasure a pussy, that’s a move you need to know. It’s an essential foreplay move and it’s one of the tricks to giving a lady some very satisfying orgasms.
And if you really want to make her moan, here are a few tips to make your fingering and licking even more pleasurable.
Keep Your Fingers on Her Pussy at First
Fingering should have a natural progression.
If she’s hella horny, super wet, and fully aroused, then she might be able to enjoy some quickie fingering. But most of the time, rushing to stuff your hand down her panties and slip your fingers inside her won’t have the effect you want it to.
It’s less likely to give her a shock of intense pleasure. More often than not, it’ll make her wish you had waited a bit longer before going for it.
Giving her internal stimulation before her body is ready for it can be uncomfortable or overstimulating. And when it’s not, it’s still not as pleasurable as it should be.
So, get the foreplay going first. Flirt with her. Tease her. Undress her. Grab her. Squeeze her. Play with her tits and lick her nipples.
And give her pussy external stimulation before going inside her.
Rub her pussy lips. Part them and gently stroke her. Run your fingers around her clit.
Or just go ahead and start eating her out.
Don’t slide your fingers in her until she’s prepped and properly wet.
Go With Two Fingers
I’m not going to say that you should never fingerfuck a girl with just one finger. It’s a really good way to start things off.
Same with three or more. There are times when she might want to feel more girth, explore something more intense, or just see how much you can stuff in there.
Unless she’s a big fisting fan, though, that’s going to be a pretty rare occurrence.
Most of the time, you’re going to get the most fingerbang for your buck by using two fingers at once. Specifically, the middle and index finger.
They’re basically designed for perfect fingering.
Using both is going to help you finger more comfortably, it’s going to improve your dexterity and help you hit all the right spots, and it’s even going to help you go deeper - if that’s something that gets her off.
Go with two fingers so you can focus on giving her as much pleasure as you can.
Go for Rhythm Over Speed
Lots of guys want to give a girl some intense sensations. So they give intense stimulation.
And that’s not always the best way to do it.
A fast and hard finger pounding can be really good if her body responds well to it. But sometimes it won’t. So, play around with your speed and see what her pussy prefers.
Just make sure you don’t compromise your rhythm.
Fingering speed doesn’t matter as much as keeping a good, steady pace. That’s how you’re going to build her up to a climax and give her a more powerful orgasm.
But that’s trickier to pull off when you’re fingering her fast. And it’s even thougher when you’ve also got your tongue working on her.
Coordinating your tongue and fingers isn’t easy, but it helps if you finger her at a more leisurely pace.
It’s Still Mostly About Your Tongue
Using your fingers and tongue on her at the same time creates a beautiful blended sensation. You can only achieve that with both kinds of stimulation.
But it’s your tongue that’s most important.
If you want to give her the most pleasure you can, that’s what you should focus on.
When it’s too hard to coordinate everything, keep licking her pussy. Even if you stop moving your fingers, make sure your tongue keeps doing its thing.
If it’s getting too uncomfortable or distracting to do both at once, take your fingers out of her before you pull your face away.
It’s not a big deal if the fingering gets a little wonky. Your rhythm might be a bit off. Your speed might vary a little too much. You might take little fingering pauses.
It’s going to be fine as long as your pussy eating is still on point.
Pleasure Her Where It Really Counts
You don’t have to do anything too fancy with your fingering. You can just slide two fingers in and out of her - as long as you’re licking her clit, that’s going to add a lot to the experience.
But it’s even better if you can stroke her pussy’s most sensitive parts.
There’s the G-spot. All you have to do is curve your fingers to hit it and give her more internal pleasure.
If you want to ramp up the intensity and possibly make her squirt, you tap against it instead of rubbing it. That can be a lot, though, so make sure it’s not overstimulating her.
Reaching her cervix is tougher and not every lady actually enjoys cervical stimulation. But if she does, you can give her that very powerful stimulation by straightening your fingers and reaching them as far inside her as you can.
Double Down and Make Her Come Harder
Fingering and licking is a really simple and easy move. But it feels so fucking good that you’ll look like a pussy pro by using it.
To get really fucking good at it, it helps to get better with your rhythm and your coordination.
Mastering some really good pussy eating moves is going to help too.
If you know her body really well, you can get a better sense of how to finger and lick even better - especially at the same time.
Mostly, you’ll get better at it the more you do it.
So get your face between her thighs, get your fingers past her pussy lips, and give her some incredible orgasms.
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