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7 Sex Toys for the Girl Who Already Has Everything

7 Sex Toys for the Girl Who Already Has Everything

There are so many more ways to get off

Sex toys are kind of like tattoos.

You might plan on just getting one, but then it’s really hard to stop.

I actually managed to rein myself in with the tattoos. I only got three - for now anyway.

But I can’t imagine sticking to one sex toy.

There are just way too many fun things to play with. Lots of sexual pleasure to explore and different ways to come. 

Some toys are more essential than others, though.

Every girl should probably own a really satisfying vibrator.

A cute clit sucker that pulls intense orgasms right out of your body is nice to have too.

When you’re in the mood for internal stimulation, it’s good to have a well-designed rabbit vibrator tucked in your underwear drawer.

After that, you might want to treat yourself to a manageable dildo for all those times you’re fantasizing about taking a dick.

A silicone buttplug that isn’t too intimidating is a perfect way to start with solo anal play.

And if you ever squirt or you just like to get sloppy with lube, you need a sex blanket so you can masturbate without worrying about making a mess.

If you’re like me, that’s not enough. You’ve got all the essentials, but you still want to find new ways to play with yourself.

You’re running out of room in your nightstand, but you’re willing to clear out some space at the bottom of your closet if it means you’ll have even more ways to get yourself off. 

If that’s you, these are my personal recommendations for the sex toys you should try next.

A Torso Doll

Dildos are really fun and versatile, especially if they have a suction cup base.

But the one thing I couldn’t really do was ride them. Not comfortably.

If you want them to stay in place, you need a hard, flat surface. And that’s not where I want my knees to be when I’m riding a toy.

That’s what got me looking into torso dolls, and how I wound up giving the Rough Rider a permanent place in my closet.

It’s basically abs and a cock with a flat back, and that means I can actually ride it in bed - or anywhere else I want to.

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It’s a visually appealing toy that can make some of your sex fantasies feel even more vivid.

And because it’s sturdy and doesn’t get knocked out of place when you’re using it, it’s also really fun to suck it off while masturbating. 

A full size sex doll might be more fun to play with, but a torso like this one is way more convenient to store, move, and clean.

The Love Hamma

The Love Hamma does a lot of different things. But most of them are probably things your other toys do already. 

It vibrates in a few different spots. The silicone claw is like a nice pair of vibrating rabbit ears.

It’s got an insertable handle that can be fun to fuck yourself with.

That handle also has a thumping feature. It’s pretty cool, but I honestly didn’t feel much different than just using an insertable vibrator.

But I still love having one because it’s really fucking cute.

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That might not be a big deal when you’re getting your first two or three toys. But when you’re buying your tenth, how cute it looks starts to make a real difference.

And it’s just more fun to play with a toy that looks good.

But it’s not like I’d play with a toy just because it’s cute, though. It still has to pleasure me the right way - and the Love Hamma does.

Because it has a unique shape, you can also hold and use it in ways you can’t with some of your other toys. 

If you want to add something playful to your vibrator collection, it’s a really good option. 

A Squirting Dildo

I’m really turned on by creampies. Just the thought of getting filled with come is enough to make my orgasms stronger.

But it’s even hotter when I can feel it.

That’s not exactly an easy sensation to come by, especially when I’m playing by myself. 

So, I started experimenting with squirting dildos. And yeah, it’s as fun as it sounds. 

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Feeling the artificial spunk fill my pussy while I’m getting myself off is extremely satisfying. And if you’ve got any other come fantasies, squirting dildos are a good way to explore them. 

You can blast come on you or inside you. You can give yourself facials if that’s your jam. You can even make your own sweet, edible baby batter and take a load to your mouth.

Whatever floats your messy boat.

There are lots of different models and sizes. And even a few different ways for them to blow their loads.

I’ve got one that has a bulb you can fill and squeeze. Another has a button you can press and hold to make it blast. Plenty of them use a tube and syringe to push out a cumshot. 

But all of them will give you the sloppy finish your other dildos can’t.

 

A Humping Vibrator

Have you seen that TikTok telling men why they suck at making women come?

It’s because most women are pillow fuckers. They grind to a climax before they learn to pleasure themselves in other ways.

And lots of dudes just aren’t stimulating the same areas that a good pillow humping would. 

Vibrators do a better job of that. Most of them are all about external, clitoral stimulation.

But pillow humping isn’t just about stimulating your vulva. It’s about the act of rubbing up against something. The fact that you’re grinding to a climax is part of the reason it’s so quick and strong.

And you can grind on a lot of different vibrators - I do it all the time. But most of them aren’t designed for that - it’s an off-label use. 

There are humping vibrators, though. And once you climb on top of one, you can immediately feel the difference.

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It’s a lot like pillow humping - except this time the pillow actually vibrates. 

If you’re a pillow fucker, you should definitely own a toy that gives your pussy the same kinds of sensations - and then some

A Sex Machine

Fucking yourself with a toy is incredibly fun. 

But having a toy that fucks you is even better.

A sex machine takes more setup than just using a dildo. It’s not quite as convenient as using a good thruster

But a machine fuck is fully customizable. It can be as slow or as powerful as you want it to be. You can have shallow thrusts or have it pound you deep.

It can also give you a perfect dicking. Because it’s doing all the thrusting for you, you can get fucked at a steady, perfect rhythm. It won’t ever slow down or speed up unless you make it.

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And being overpowered by a powerful machine has a whole other vibe than just getting off with a dildo. It makes me feel extra submissive - even when I’m using it by myself. 

Plus, it’s fully hands-free so you can play with other toys, give your nipples a tug, or just lay on your back or get on your knees and enjoy some amazing penetration. 

A good sex machine is going to be kind of expensive, and having a big fuck toy like that can be a lot for some people. But it’s by far the best way to have a hard, satisfying fuck all by yourself.

A Cute Tail

I love feeling cute more than almost anything.

And I’m also extremely fond of having something in my ass.

Now that I’ve got a buttplug with a rainbow ponytail, I’ve got a way to satisfy both those urges at once.

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The fact that it can give me anal vibrations is just an amazing bonus.

A tail buttplug is kind of extra, but it makes buttstuff feel super playful. And if you happen to like watching yourself masturbate, having a tail sticking out of your ass is a really cute look. 

If you’re at all into pet play, getting off with a tail plug is a really good way to explore that kink - especially if you’ve got matching ears you can wear at the same time. 

I’m personally partial to the unicorn tails. But if you think of yourself more as a sexy bunny, you can get a cute little cottontail. If you feel foxy, you can get a long fluffy one

It’s probably not the first toy you’d want to get for yourself. But anything that makes you feel cute and pleasures your ass is a good addition to your sex toy collection.

A Sex Toy Mount

Sex toy mounts are fucking brilliant because they let you use your favorite toys in some brand new ways.

My first one was the Liberator Pulse and it’s sort of like a rocking horse that can make you come. I can take a dildo or vibrator I love, stick it on the Pulse, and rock it back and forth until I’ve had all the orgasms I want. 

It’s like riding playground equipment - but with really good penetration.

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And I’ve really got to get myself more of these, because having something hold your toy in place can make all the difference. Even if it doesn’t rock you back and forth, it can change the height, the angle, and give you a really comfortable way to use your wands, dildos, and rabbits.

If you already own a few sex toys, a mount is a really good way to get brand new uses out of them. 

The Fun Never Ends

I’m seriously amazed by the sheer number of awesome, interesting, and highly stimulating sex toys there are.

And I love being able to take advantage of that - to get myself off in more ways than I can count. 

I really encourage you to do the same thing because it’s so satisfying.

Make yourself come with different toys. Use two or three at once. Give yourself so many orgasms you blow your own mind and leave yourself out of breath. 

Hold a vibrating plug in your butt while you vibe your pussy - do it with a dildo in your mouth if you want to feel like a really naughty girl. 

Fuck yourself with toys that hit your G-spot. Get a toy that can fuck you. Find something you can hump and grind until your thighs start to get sore. 

You might run out of room in your drawer, but you’ll never run out of ways to give yourself pleasure. And that’s just beautiful.

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If you liked this article, you should check out the Unspoken Rules of Sex (Shower Sex, Hair Sex, and Busty Hairdressers) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!

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