5 Best Sex Toys for Grinding

Get yourself off the way you really want

What’s your finishing move?

Like, the masturbation technique you pull out when you’re done teasing yourself and want some serious pleasure.

The one that makes you come harder than anything else you can do to yourself.

The one that gets you over the edge when nothing else can get you there.

Always has been. Probably always will be.

When I want to get myself off really well, I’ll lie on my stomach with a vibrating toy pressed against my pussy. Then I’ll grind my hips and rub into it until I hit a good, solid climax.

It works every single time. It gives me a kind of pleasure that feels incredibly familiar but never ever gets old.

No matter how much fun I have playing with myself, I don’t usually feel fully satisfied until I’ve managed to really grind one out.

Because grinding is so important to me, I’ve done it with just about every single toy I own. And whenever I review a new vibrator, I always make sure I put it to the grind test.

Not all of them get a passing grade, though.

Some toys are downright amazing when you’re lying on your back and pleasuring your clit with them. But grinding against them is kind of awkward. They just don’t have the right shape or vibrations for that kind of thing.

But then there are some that make grinding even better than it usually is.

The ones that feel so good you want to try for another orgasm, even when you’re spent and your thighs are sore.

There are the five toys that always make me feel that way. They’re some of the best toys I’ve ever had the pleasure of having under me.

The Amo Bullet Vibrator

I hate to be negative about a toy, but I was a bit disappointed the first time I tried the Amo.

It was my first new bullet vibrator in years, and I wasn’t really sure what to look for. I went with the Amo because it had a cool shape and I already had a lot of fun with another Hot Octopuss toy - the Pulse Duo.

The Pulse Duo was a really interesting cock toy that doubled as a couples vibrator. It could pleasure my husband’s frenulum while getting me off too. So, a good time all around.

But the Amo was a bit too firm for my liking and the vibrations were too strong for my sensitive clit - especially back when I first tried it.

I totally changed my mind when I put it to the grind test, though. It passed with flying colors.

All the things that didn’t make it the right bullet for me actually worked really well when I was lying on top of it.

The firmness helped me get the kind of pressure I really like. The vibrations that were too strong when they were pinpointed to my clit felt really good when I pressed my body into it. And the pointed shape made rubbing against it extra stimulating.

I still haven’t found my perfect bullet vibrator, but the Amo is up there when I’m looking for something to grind.

The Humphrey Toy Mount

The Humphrey isn’t technically a grinding toy. But that’s okay, because it’s a mount that will help you use your other toys the way you really want to.

It’s shaped like a pillow, which is already exciting to any girl who likes to grind to a climax.

But the best part is the two pockets built into it.

One is big and deep, so you can fit a dildo, a wand vibrator, or a rabbit into it and the mount will hold it upright or at a tilted angle.

The other is a slim, tight pocket flat against the surface of the pillow. That one doesn’t have as much room but it can hold a bullet or any small vibrator.

Once you slip a toy or two into the pockets, the Humphrey holds them exactly where you need them to be. All you have to do is straddle it and hump or grind until you’ve had your fill.

Using the Humphrey changes my grinding position - I’m riding a pillow instead of lying flat on my stomach. But it’s still super comfortable and incredibly pleasurable.

I use it often because it turns almost any vibrator into a grinding toy. It’s a really satisfying way to grind, too. And it’s a great way to work grinding into your partnered action.

The Magic Wand Mini

I wasn’t sure a wand would work all that well for grinding. They’ve got those big handles, and that seemed like it would be really convenient when you’re getting off on your back or letting someone else pleasure you - but might get in the way when you’re masturbating on your stomach.

Well, I was wrong about that. Very, very wrong.

Turns out wands aren’t just great at giving powerful stimulation and helping you get a bit kinky. They’re also amazing for grinding.

It’s because of the big, smooth, rounded head. It spreads the vibrations across a large surface, so you get to really feel all of it.

The vibrations are different, too. They’re stronger than your typical vibrator. They’re rumbly instead of buzzy. And they feel like they’re pleasuring every part of my pussy at once.

I can have a great time grinding against any of my wands. But the Magic Wand Mini is my favorite. It’s got a great design, it’s super easy to use, and it makes me come a little harder than the others - especially when I’m on top of it.

Le Wand Double Vibe

I wanted to try the Le Wand Double Vibe because it has ears - and I love vibrators with ears.

Not just because little bunny ears are cute, but because it’s a great shape for pleasuring your pussy.

Basically, it surrounds your clit. You’ve got vibrating ears on either side of your it and the stimulation feels like it’s coming from all angles.

But I’m used to thin little silicone rabbit ears. The kind where you can see the vibrations buzzing through them. When they’re slim enough, they practically tickle your clit.

The Double Vibe doesn’t have thin little ears, though. It has two thick ones - each about the girth of a finger.

So, no tickling here.

But I didn’t miss that at all, because the sensations I got from the Double Vibe were really, really good.

And as a grinding toy, it’s practically perfect.

It’s small enough to fit right in your palm, so getting it in the right spot is easy and intuitive. The two vibrating motors working at the same time gives extra pleasure. And you can still feel those thick ears working around your clit even when they’re pressing into you.

The Lust Dual Rider

Okay, so you can grind against almost any vibrator and get your rocks off.

But the Lust Dual Rider is actually made just for grinding.

And you can actually feel that as soon as you start using it. Because you don’t need to tuck your hand between your thighs to hold it in place. You don’t need to find the right angle for it. All you have to do is get on top of it and start grinding.

You can lie on top of it. You can sit on it. You can put it on top of a pillow and have your way with it.

No matter how you do it, it feels amazing.

It even has two humps, so you can get your ass involved if you want.

That’s another thing you don’t normally get when you’re grinding against a regular vibrator. And it’s not like it’s essential or anything. But feeling the textured surface buzzing against your asshole gives you some extra pleasure you wouldn’t have otherwise.

And it’s just really awesome to get to play with a toy that gets you off in the way you really prefer to get off. That alone makes this toy really fun to play with.

Grind One Out

If you’re a grinder, you’re probably pretty resourceful.

I bet you could get off with just about anything.

Your hand. A pillow. A stuffie. A blanket tucked between your legs just right.

But nothing beats grinding against something that vibrates.

The other stuff will do in a pinch. But when you find a toy with the right shape and stimulation, that’s what you’re going to keep using over and over.

If you have a toy like that already, that’s awesome. Every grinder should have one.

And if you haven’t found yours yet, definitely try one from this list. They feel way better than humping your pillow to a climax.

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If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Weird Wanking (Grinding, Flossing, and the Rosy Palm Method) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!