Don't Like Riding Cowgirl? Try This.
I hated it too, until I learned how to modify it
Getting on top during sex sounded awesome.
I’d hear girls talk about riding cowgirl like it was the best way to fuck.
Being on top meant they had all the control. They could give themselves the exact stimulation they wanted - the kind they didn’t always get when the guy was in charge of his cock.
They could control the depth. They’d start with shallow little humps and then go deep when they were ready to take the whole thing in.
And they went hella deep. So deep they worried they were going to crush the guy’s balls. Or at least, they would’ve worried if they weren’t so busy giving themselves that deep, intense deep stimulation.
I wanted that too. I wanted to feel every inch inside of me. I wanted to control the pace and rhythm so I could give myself stronger orgasms.
But cowgirl sex never lived up to the hype. Every time I got on top, it was a one-way ticket to struggle city.
I mean, it was still fun - I was taking a dick after all. But it wasn’t nearly as pleasurable as it was supposed to be.
I think it’s my short legs. Opening them wide enough to straddle Mr. Austin and accommodate his body didn’t leave me with much range of motion. I couldn’t move as freely as I wanted to.
That meant I couldn’t give myself the same long thrusts I enjoy when I’m the one on the bottom.
And I couldn’t take his cock nearly as deep as I did in missionary. No matter how hard I tried to ride him, his balls were still completely safe.
It was a lot of work, too. Which is fine. I’m not above putting in a bit of effort to get off. But that’s the thing - I was using up all that energy and not getting a hell of a lot of pleasure in return.
It just wasn’t worth it.
I really wanted to like it. I wanted to ride that shaft until I was shouting in orgasmic ecstasy.
But nope. Every single time I got on top, I’d try my darndest until Mr. Austin took over, thrust his hips up to fuck me, and we’d switch to a more reliable position.
I wasn’t about to quit, though. I was determined to get good at cowgirl. I kept experimenting, trying cowgirl variations, closely watching porn scenes to see how the pros do it, and then I hit on it. I finally figured out how I could get on top and have an amazing ride.
The big secret, it turns out, is getting out of bed.
Fuck on an Armchair or a Couch
Cowgirl got even harder when Mr. Austin and I finally upgraded our bed.
We finally had a bed frame that didn’t squeak and creak the entire time we fucked. We replaced our mattress with a thick, comfortable one made of memory foam.
Then we discovered that memory foam might be great for sleeping but it’s not so great for sex.
Sex on memory foam gets too hot too quickly. And the way you sink slightly into it feels really good when you’re trying to sleep but makes it really tricky to get a great angle for penetration.
For most positions, that’s not a huge problem and it’s nothing you can’t fix with a good sex wedge.
But even a wedge won’t solve your cowgirl troubles.
The extra give we got from the memory foam made my legs feel even shorter. My range of motion was even smaller. And I got tired even more quickly than before.
I had to try something different. If my mattress was keeping me from riding the way I wanted to, maybe I needed to do it somewhere else.
The next time Mr. Austin and I were fooling around on the couch, I decided to give it a try. I climbed on top of him, straddled my thighs on either side of his waist, and lowered myself onto his cock.
That was it. As soon as I felt him sliding all the way in, I knew I was about to get the amazing ride I had been promised all those years.
I held the back of the couch, moved my thighs comfortably, and rode him as hard as I could.
I could move in the ways I had always wanted. I felt like I had enough space to build some real momentum. I could take his entire cock, from the head to the base of his shaft.
He wasn’t as limited, either. On the bed, Mr. Austin basically has to lie flat. On the couch, he can sit up, lean back, or even keep his ass off the edge of the cushion so we can try different angles until we find one that works perfectly.
And I could ride him so much more quickly than I ever could in bed. I bounced on his cock while he grabbed my ass, spanked me encouragingly, and groaned dirty words to excite me.
I came harder than I ever had while I was on top - a deep, intense, incredibly satisfying orgasm.
I finally fucking solved it. The problem wasn’t my short legs - well, not just my short legs anyway. It wasn’t that I was just built weird and couldn’t enjoy cowgirl.
The problem was my bed. My mattress was messing up my mojo.
Bounce Off the Edge of the Bed
I love having cowgirl sex in my bedroom now, but it’s only because I put a big, round chair in one corner of the room.
It’s where I record my podcast. It’s where I edit videos. It’s also my go-to spot for fucking on top.
But if you don’t have a big, comfy chair in your bedroom and you don’t have the privacy the fuck anywhere outside your bedroom, I still have one more trick that might help you.
Do it off the edge of the bed.
Instead of having your guy lie on his back while you ride him, have him lean off the edge of the bed. He’ll have his feet on the ground and his back on the mattress.
From there, all you have to do is stand in front of him, facing away, and ride him as hard as you want.
It’s a reverse cowgirl position instead of a cowgirl one. It still takes a lot of effort and energy on your part. But it will feel really fucking good and he’ll love watching you bounce on his cock.
You’ll get tired. It won’t feel quite the same as a cowgirl fuck. But it’s a nice way to switch things up.
And it definitely beats struggling to enjoy cowgirl in bed.
Get on Top (And Actually Enjoy It)
If you’re having trouble enjoying cowgirl sex, try doing it somewhere else.
Take it off the bed and ride him on the couch. Or fuck him right off the edge of your mattress.
You can even try banging him on the floor if your knees are tough enough to handle it - or if you’ve got the stamina to do that pornstar version of cowgirl with your feet on the floor instead of your knees.
If your experience is anything like mine, you’ll see the light. You’ll finally understand all the hype.
Instead of always encouraging him to get on top, you’ll be able to mount him and enjoy the kind of intense, incredibly deep, and highly organic sex all the other girls are talking about.
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