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Why I Love Fauxcest Porn

Why I Love Fauxcest Porn

It’s about temptation, not taboo

Of all the types of porn I love, fauxcest is the one I kept to myself the longest.

I was really drawn to family taboo, family roleplay, and porn with the word “step” in the title. But it was my dark, dirty little secret and I didn’t want anyone finding out.

I never even searched for it because I was mortified at the thought of my husband using my laptop and discovering that I typed those keystrokes into Pornhub.

It didn’t matter, though. I didn’t have to go looking for it because it was practically everywhere. As soon as I clicked on any tube site I was flooded with step-relatives getting dirty with each other.

It’s a genre that divides people hard. Clearly, lots of people either love fauxcest or don’t mind it because it’s incredibly popular. But at the same time, it’s one of the main examples people point to when they want to prove that porn is problematic, sketchy, or dangerous.

That made it hard for me to out myself.

I was especially embarrassed because I had no idea why I was even into it. I didn’t reason my way into an appreciation of fauxcest — I was drawn to it like a magnet. My horny heart wants what it wants and who am I to argue with it?

I didn’t feel like there was anything wrong with it. But if anyone called me out for liking it, I had no clue how I would defend myself. I couldn’t even put my finger on why it was so appealing to me.

I was sure if anyone found out about it, they would just think I was really into incest. Which, I wasn’t.

But why the fuck was I watching all those videos, then?

It took a lot of soul searching to find the answer to that question.

The obvious answer is that it didn’t matter that the characters were at least quasi-related. It was just a cute guy and a cute girl fucking. So what if their parents were married?

That couldn’t be it, though, because a lot of generic porn didn’t do it for me. When I’m struggling to get horny or have a hard time getting off, two hot people fucking isn’t enough to get me there. But when I looked for family roleplay, it would change everything — it’s one of my most reliable ways of getting horny or achieving an orgasm.

So, if it’s not because I’m turned on by incest and it’s not the fact that it’s two (or three) hot people fucking each other with skill, what was left?

After a lot of contemplation, comparison, and extremely arousing first-hand research, I finally cracked the code. I figured out what makes fauxcest porn so fucking hot.

It’s not because the characters are meant to be related. It’s because they know they’re not supposed to be fucking each other — but they just can’t help themselves.

Giving in to Temptation

Seeing people overcome with desire is a huge turn-on for me.

Obviously, I enjoy watching all the physical stuff that happens in porn. It’s pretty much the point of watching porn, after all.

But I also get off to the emotional aspect of it. Really good porn can make me feel something vicariously.

That’s why I don’t just seek out porn with certain sex acts in them. It’s also got to have the right vibe.

One of my favorite porn genres is anal. I’d say it’s in my top three. But I can only enjoy anal porn when it looks like the performer is actually enjoying taking a cock in her ass. It totally takes me out of it if there are signs of discomfort or if it looks like she’s just pretending it feels good so she can get through the shoot.

It’s also the reason I gravitate to porn that’s really playful. I want the amateurs and pornstars I’m watching to have fun, and I want to actually feel it coming through in their performance.

And it’s also why I get insanely hot for porn that has a strong element of desire.

Sex is about way more than just physical stimulation. Great sex also makes me feel wanted. It makes me feel sexy. It makes me feel charmed and won over. I want that to be represented in the porn I watch.

There are a lot of ways to show that kind of desire on screen, but it’s hard to make it seem really intense.

Even when the performers have great chemistry and know how to convey passion with their eyes, it’s not going to compare to a scenario that makes it clear without any shred of doubt that these people can’t resist each other.

And the best way to show that is to have them be so overcome with burning passion and sexual need that they’ll fuck someone they’re not supposed to.

“Okay, But You Can’t Tell Mom”

It doesn’t have to be stepsisters or stepmoms. I love any scenario where people give in to temptation and break a boundary so they can fuck someone who should be off limits.

That’s why I’m extremely into a babysitter fucking the dad who hired her.

It could be a boss fucking the secretary who keeps making eyes at him.

Two exes who know they’re all wrong for each other but can’t resist one last fling works for me, too.

And I won’t say no to a cheating scenario. Two people who are compelled to fuck even though it could ruin their relationships, their marriages, cost them their friends, or whatever else — if that’s not intense desire, then I don’t know what is.

Basically, if there’s a setup where someone says “We shouldn’t be doing this” but they go ahead and do it anyway, there’s a really good chance I’ll jill off to it.

But it needs to actually convey that for it to be interesting.

These days, you’ll come across a lot of videos with titles that sound really promising, like “Fucking My Stepsister While She’s Home From College” or “Stepdad Can’t Resist Me After Seeing Me Naked” or “Desperate for My Stepmom’s Attention — And I Know Just How to Get It.” But when you click on them, you’ll see something really generic. A silent blowjob on the couch. An eight-minute fuck on the bed. Some POV sex on a shaky phone camera.

Just labeling it fauxcest doesn’t do anything for me. Having them just launch into sex unprompted doesn’t give me the kind of tone I’m looking for. I’m sure the people on screen want to fuck each other, but it doesn’t depict a desire that’s so hot it can make you do things you’ll definitely question in the morning.

Because it’s not the fact that she’s his mom or that he’s fingering his sister that’s the turn-on. It’s the way she bites her lip when her stepdad puts his hands on her shoulders. It’s seeing his stepsister teasing him so much that he can’t shake the thought of fucking her. It’s the college virgin getting embarrassed when her uncle offers to teach her about sex but not wanting to turn away from him.

It’s seeing someone try really hard to talk themselves out of something because it’s so wrong — but giving in because it also feels so right.

It’s forbidden love, where the passion between two people is so undeniable that nothing will keep them apart.

That’s the reason fauxcest porn is so damn irresistible. Because there are lots of people you shouldn’t fuck, but your uncle, your stepdad, and your stepsister are really, really high on that list.

Playing Out of Bounds

I’m not the only one watching fauxcest porn because of the intense desire it conveys. I know that because that’s exactly how most of this porn plays out.

Almost every fauxcest scenario leans heavily on the temptation element.

There’s either a bit of seduction or some deeply buried mutual attraction. Then you get to watch them slowly give in to what they truly want. They try to fight it, but they can’t. They’re drawn to each other, they crave each other, and there’s no obstacle big enough to stop them — not even being related.

That’s the part that matters.

It’s not the exploitation that makes me jill off to secretary or babysitter porn.

Infidelity doesn’t make me horny, even though cheating porn does.

And it’s not a love of incest that keeps me coming back for more fauxcest porn.

I’m not into any of those things. I wouldn’t condone them or be turned on by them happening in real life.

And that’s fine because, deep down, that’s not what they’re really about. It’s all about the dynamics these scenarios create.

So go ahead and watch all the step-sibling porn you want. Masturbate to step-moms getting inappropriate. And do it without feeling a shred of guilt, because there’s nothing wrong with getting turned on by intense attraction and passion — as long as it’s not with your actual brother.

This post contains affiliate links to some of my favorite fauxcest and family roleplay porn sites. If you’re turned on by temptation and a bit of transgression, I especially recommend watching scenes from Pure Taboo, Mommy’s Boy, Mommy’s Girl, and Family Sex Massage. And be sure to use the code LOVEEMMA to get a free week when you sign up!

And if you want more discussion of fauxcest and family roleplay, be sure to listen to the Preppy Teen Bribes Stepbrother With Anal (Forbidden Lust, Temptation, and Deflowerings) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!

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