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Why Do So Many Women Want to Have Sex With Ghostface?

Why Do So Many Women Want to Have Sex With Ghostface?

Does everyone have a mask kink except me?

I saw something new on my TikTok feed this morning.

It was a very simple piece of sex advice. Get your boyfriend or husband to fuck you while wearing a Ghostface mask.

That’s it. That’s the spice your sex life has been missing.

Sure, it’s the same old dick you’ve been riding for years. But this is going to make it feel totally new. The moment you look up and see that pale spooky face looking down at you, you’re going to get so wet you’ll wonder why you ever fucked him barefaced to begin with.

At least, that’s what the TikTok girlies are claiming.

And they’re not the only ones, either. 

See, I happen to find spooky girls ridiculously attractive. Like goth girls with layers of pale foundation and lots of fishnet. Or girls who are obsessed with the kinds of movies I can only watch while hiding behind my blanket.

And one thing those girls all seem to have in common is a strong desire to fuck scary guys in masks. 

After a long hard day of being intimidatingly hot, those girls just want to get railed by Michael Myers. Or maybe Jason Voorhees. Even Ghostface, apparently.

And it’s not some kind of general horror fetish - it’s specifically about the masks. Because as far as I can tell, no one is out there trying to get railed by Freddy Kruger.

It does seem to be a pretty common thing, so I’ve done my best to understand it. But I haven’t been able to get a really tight grip on it. A guy in a mask doesn’t move the needle for me. Instead of making me want to get naked and frisky, it makes me want to put on an extra layer of clothes for added safety.

I’ve got a few theories I’m working with, though. Well, they’re more like guesses. But they’re at least plausible explanations for why so many women are into guys in masks, so I decided to share them with you.

Big, Strong Hunks

Ladies tend to be into guys who are big and strong. And the villains they fantasize about are exceptionally big and strong.

Well, not Ghostface. But maybe there’s something about the whole killer in a mask thing that’s big and strong adjacent.

Because you can kind of fake bigness and strongness a bit.

My husband is almost exactly the same height as I am. But there are ways he holds and cradles me that will make him feel taller than I am.

Same thing happens when he throws the right kind of bondage gear on me. If I’m all strapped down with a Magic Wand tucked into my panties, I’m going to feel like a little cupcake compared to him.

So maybe the mask is one more way to fake it. A guy wearing one could probably make me feel extra small, and I can definitely see the appeal in that.

A Little Bit of Fear to Spice Things Up

Boo!

Did that make you horny?

Okay, probably not. But if you have a tendency to fawn, it was at least in the right ballpark.

Fawning can be a lot of things. It can be a self-defense mechanism - some people fight, some people flee, others fawn. If you had the right kind of wrong childhood, it could also be a trauma response.

And if you happen to be sexually submissive, it can also be really fucking thrilling.

For a lot of subby girls, getting dominated so hard that you end up fawning is kind of the goal. It’s why I have to watch the fuck out when I get a crush on someone, because I know I’ll be prone to fawning over them and I can’t trust myself when I do.

So maybe that’s what’s going on here.

You watch some scary movies and you get that mixture of fear and fawning. That leaves you with all sorts of conflicted feelings - which you then work out by giving your husband a hockey mask and asking him to bang you like he’s lost all respect for you.

Do that a couple of times and you’re bound to develop a full blown kink.

It’s a Type of Primal Play

Or maybe it’s a more specific kind of sexual submission.

There’s this kink called primal play. Basically, it’s all about getting in a more animalistic mindset during sex.

Usually, that involves some kind of predator and prey roleplay. The subby prey might get chased around and pinned down. The dommy predator might growl like a werewolf. There could be scratching and biting. Someone might get thrown around a bit.

I tend to think of primal play as literally fucking like animals. You don’t really get that if you bust out the Michael Myers mask during foreplay. But you definitely still get the whole predator and prey dynamic.

And that could be a really big part of what makes this so hot for some people. 

Nothing Sexier Than a Dash of Mystery

It could also just be the air of mystery.

Like, maybe it’s not the spookiness of the mask that does it. Maybe it would work just as well with one of those Eyes Wide Shut orgy masks

As long as you can’t see your partner’s face, you can go in full fantasy mode. You can pretend it’s literally anyone hiding behind it.

That guy who fucked you so good once that you can’t really get over it. The really helpful guy from the paint store who is way too hot to be working in a paint store. Or just some vague fantasy guy you’ve dreamed up. As long as the mask’s on, you can pretend you’re getting your ass smacked by whoever.

It might also activate your anonymous sex fantasies. Which I totally get - I’m not going to sit here and pretend I don’t 100% see the appeal of a reverse gloryhole

No Masks for Me, Please

Fucking while wearing Halloween costumes is just plain hot.

In fact, I bought a sexy Mermaid outfit just last week that would be completely inappropriate for trick or treating. It’s strictly for bedroom shenanigans. 

And I’m really into the lead up to Halloween because of all the sexy and slutty costumes I get to see everyone wearing - and taking off.

But it’s the masks I don’t get. Like, it really doesn’t do anything for me.

When it comes to sexy Halloween costumes for guys, I guess I’m a traditionalist.

I like a hot lumberjack decked out in plenty of plaid.

Or a sexy firefighter who doesn’t have a shirt on for some reason - not that I’m complaining. 

After watching a few seasons of Breaking Amish, I also learned that I have a thing for the way Amish men dress. So, there’s another costume that could make me quake in my britches.

Although now that I’m typing all that out, I think I might just have a thing for guys in suspenders.

As long as they’re not wearing masks.

Because you can’t see a guy’s fetching beard with a mask over his face.

You can’t see those sexy, confident smirks behind a plastic shell.

You can’t exchange the kinds of flirty looks that make you want to rip off your Mermaid outfit and ride them with your tits pressed into that handsome face.

I honestly think it’s really cool that so many women are embracing their mask kinks. And even better that their husbands are helping them fulfill that fantasy. I’m all for that.

Maybe it’ll click for me one day. Maybe I’ll see a guy in a hockey mask and I’ll get the sudden urge to get missionaried. But for now, I’ll stick to barefaced studs. 

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