Turn Her On Instantly With TikTok’s Doorframe Trick
Hack your lady’s horniness
I had just dropped a major bombshell on my husband.
I hadn’t meant to do it. I thought we were just having a casual conversation. Now I had gone and said something that made him nervous.
I forget the exact words I used. But basically, I told him it would turn me on if he would be more dominant with me.
He tried to play it cool, but I could tell he was processing that information - and didn’t really know what to do with it.
We talked it over eventually, and I found out why he had such a weird reaction.
It’s not that he didn’t want to be dominant - he just didn’t think he could be. Because he wasn’t the kind of guy who could pull that off.
I’m not sure what kind of guy he meant. I’m guessing someone with a deep voice, rugged facial features, and a six pack so tight you can see it through his shirt.
And as hot as that hypothetical guy sounds, that’s not who I’m shacked up with. And I didn’t see why the sweet golden retriever boy who made me feel loved couldn’t also make me feel a bit more submissive.
Especially since he had already given me what I was looking for. It was usually out of the blue, but it was hot as hell when it happened.
Like when he would make a chaotic situation calm by taking charge. Or when he held me in a way that felt protective, even though he had nothing to protect me from. Pinning my wrists down while he fucked me definitely did it too.
I wanted more of that in my life.
And now I knew why I wasn’t getting it. He was seriously overthinking the whole thing.
That’s something a lot of people do. They assume being dominant involves some kind of complex mind games. That, or being over six feet tall and buff enough to be shirtless on a billboard.
But being dominant is actually very simple. Sure, it can involve a closet full of bondage gear and paragraphs of dirty talk. But you can also pull it off just by leaning into a doorframe.
Romance Novels Know What’s Up
The doorframe move is something that’s been going around TikTok.
It’s a trend where women ask their partners to lean into the doorframe, the way studs in romance novels do.
Some of them need a bit of coaching, but it’s real easy so they pick it up fast.
All he has to do is face her under a doorway. He places his hand on the top of the doorframe, or high on the side of it. Then he leans into her.
That’s it. That’s the move.
There are a few variants you can play around with.
Some guys will stare into their lady’s eyes with a slight smirk.
Most will go in for a kiss. When they do, they might use their free hand to touch the side of her face. The bold ones gently place it on her throat.
It doesn’t matter. Every version gets the same results - a wife or girlfriend so turned on and flustered she needs a moment.
I can’t blame those ladies for having such a big reaction. It’s incredibly hot and it would make any girl with a submissive bone in her body melt on the spot.
There are a few reasons it works so well.
For one thing, it’s a bit imposing. In the wrong situation, that would immediately trigger a fight or flight response - which is definitely not sexy. But when it’s coming from someone she fully trusts, it’s likely to give her butterflies instead.
It’s also going to make her feel smaller. It doesn’t matter how tall a guy actually is, if he’s leaning into her like that she’s going to feel like he’s towering above her. She’ll have to lean back and look up just to meet his eyes, even if she doesn’t normally need to.
But by far the sexiest part of it is how fucking confident it comes across.
Some of that is the body language. The hand firmly on the doorframe. The way it practically flaunts his forearm. The way it makes him take up space instead of shrinking from it. There’s absolutely nothing timid about it.
It’s also a physical response. As soon as someone leans in like that, you know they’re completely in charge. You just feel it deep inside you.
And for most women, that feeling is incredibly exciting.
Melt Her Mind and Make Her Wet
Being dominant isn’t about being a certain kind of guy.
It’s about creating the right kind of dynamic. And creating that dynamic doesn’t necessarily take a whole lot.
Being secure and confident is a really big part of it. Taking charge without being bossy helps too. And if you want to go all the way, some dirty talk, light bondage, and firm spanks will get you there.
But even if all you do is lean into the doorframe and kiss her, you’ll still get her all hot and flustered for you.
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