3 Things Every Woman Who Loves Oral Sex Needs

Because nothing beats getting eaten out

The first time I had sex, it blew my mind.

From the very first thrust, I knew this was something really special.

It was too incredible to even put into words. I had never experienced anything like it and nothing prepared me for how amazing it would be.

I was convinced nothing would ever come close to it. There’s no way anything could feel better than getting fucked.

But then I got my pussy eaten.

It was with the same guy, too. We had broken up a while back, but found ourselves at the same event. It took a little catching up, a bit of light flirting, and a few glasses of wine but he was starting to come onto me. And I was opening up to the idea.

There’s something very enticing about fucking an ex. Plus, he was really inexperienced when we were together - maybe he learned a thing or two since then.

He must have, because this time he offered to go down on me. He never even tried to do that before, but I was eager to see what he could do with his mouth.

It didn’t last long at all. His moves were a little sloppy. But it didn’t matter at all, because this was the second time he totally opened my world.

His soft, wet lips grazing my vulva. His warm tongue lapping against my clit. It was gentle and incredibly pleasurable all at once. My pussy had finally met its match - the perfect stimulation for all those super sensitive spots.

He didn’t go long enough to make me come. And I didn’t have the confidence to ask him for more - even though it’s all I wanted.

Getting pounded was still great. I was down for all sorts of hanky panky. But now that I had experienced it, I needed more pussy eating in my life.

And lucky me, I got it. In fact, I got so much of it that it started to get really nuanced. There are so many different ways to get eaten out and they all felt unique.

There are techniques. Different ways a tongue can hit your clit. What someone does with their hands while eating you out. The little ways they tease you and work you up to a climax.

Positions, too. Getting it from behind gives you lots of new sensations. Face sitting is still mouth on pussy but it’s got a whole other vibe.

And then there are the accessories. I discovered these much later, but I’m so thankful I did. Because anyone who loves getting their pussy eaten should have a few things to help them enjoy it even more.

A Good Wedge

I got my first set of wedges because I wanted to make sex more comfortable.

The hottest, hardest fucks were leaving me sore in all the wrong places. And it didn’t help that I was doing it all on a memory foam mattress that’s perfect for sleeping but terrible for almost everything else.

So, I figured it was time to act like a grown-ass woman and start tucking a wedge under my butt.

And it was everything I wanted and more - way more.

Sex on a wedge was way more comfortable. It made getting in the perfect position effortless. Even better, I was getting some really, really deep dick because of it.

But it wasn’t just better missionary and powerful cervical orgasms. Using the wedge made oral sex way better too.

I hadn’t expected it, but I felt it as soon as Mr. Austin parted my pussy lips with his fingers and worked his tongue around my clit.

Same guy who’s been eating me out for more than fifteen years. Using a lot of my favorite moves. But this was different - and better.

The wedge lifted my hips and put me at a perfect angle. It was the right position to help him really get in there and hit everything just right.

It’s the same way pornstars will hold their hips up and their legs back when they’re getting some tongue action. Except I didn’t have to do an hour of yoga every single day to pull it off - I just needed the wedge.

It held me up in a better position for him too. He could eat me out without getting a sore neck. He could go long without ever tiring out. The pussy eating would still have to end at some point, but this meant it wouldn’t stop before I wanted it to.

And it wasn’t a fluke. Over and over, tucking the wedge under my butt makes it more intense, more pleasurable, and helps me hit some really satisfying orgasms.

Even without all the deep dicking, it would still be a total game changer.

A Restraint System

Light bondage makes everything better.

Well, I don’t know if that’s true for everyone. But it’s true for me - and it’s definitely true about pussy eating.

A blindfold helps a lot. It helps me let go and feel submissive, like I’m giving Mr. Austin full responsibility over my pleasure.

And not being able to see enhances the sensations. That way, I’m focused entirely on one thing - every single movement of his tongue.

But it’s the restraints that make it really hot.

Having my wrists bound while he’s going down on me is everything.

I can squirm and tug against the cuffs, which is surprisingly satisfying.

It makes me feel like I’m being dominated, which is a huge turn-on. The trust and control is an instant boost in sexual chemistry that I just live for.

And if I’m being perfectly honest, I love the way it lets me be as lazy as I want to be.

When I’m restrained and getting my pussy licked, that’s my whole world. I don’t have to worry about what to do with my hands, because I can’t do anything with them. I don’t have to feel selfish that I’m not pushing him off me so I can suck his cock, because I’m a little tied up at the moment.

All I can do is lie there, take it, and moan in appreciation.

Cuffs work pretty well for this. You can even use hogtie restraints if you want to get a little creative. But it’s almost always the Under the Bed Restraint System for me. It’s perfect for restricting my movements without making me feel uncomfortable. And that’s exactly what I want when my husband is going down on me.

The Right Toy for a Solo Oral Experience

You can give yourself orgasms like nobody’s business.

If you’ve got a great wand vibrator, you’re set. Your fingers will do in a pinch. If you have the right kind of showerhead, you can make yourself come really hard between scrubbing down and rinsing off.

When you’re in the mood to get fucked, you’ve got options too. A dildo with a nice shape and a bit of flop is all it takes. And if you want to take it real good, you can invest in a great sex machine.

But if you want to treat your pussy to some oral sex and there’s no one around to lick it, that gets a bit trickier.

The companies that make clit sucking toys used to brag that using them felt just like oral. It doesn’t. It’s hella orgasmic, incredibly pleasurable, and you will keep coming back to your toy over and over again. It just won’t satisfy your urge for a good lick.

I’ve tried a few tongue toys over the years, and some were quite decent. But there’s just one that I use very regularly.

It’s called the Her Ultimate Fantasy, and it does a few different things.

It has an insertable vibrating handle you can use for some internal stimulation.

It has a mechanical tongue, too. So, you can actually get that steady lapping motion when you crave it.

More importantly, it’s a gentle pussy pump. It tugs on your vulva, helps get a little more blood flowing to it, and makes it really sensitive.

And the best part is that those two features can work together. The pump raises your pussy while the tongue gives it mechanical licks.

It’s not perfect. It can’t really compete with a soft, warm, flexible tongue - at least if it’s attached to someone who knows how to use it.

But with a bit of lube to make it wet, it can come kind of close - and you can come really hard.

Oral Sex Is Great - You Can Make It Even Better

Years ago, I decided to stop settling for bad sex.

I gave myself the confidence to turn down anything I didn’t think would be hot, pleasurable, and satisfying. I worked on asking for what I wanted instead of just hoping I’d get it.

That gave me a much better attitude toward sex, and I wish I had done it even sooner.

Over the last couple of years, I made another commitment to myself. I stopped settling for good sex.

Sex that’s okay. Sex that’s decent. Sex that’s worth having but isn’t amazing.

Because I want amazing, and I know I can get it.

I want to get my mind blown on the regular. I want to come so hard I almost forget where I am. I want to get it so good that wide eyed and horny 19-year-old Emma would be totally jealous of me.

I should’ve done that sooner, too.

Because yeah, the pussy eating was great. I had zero complaints. But that’s only because I didn’t know how good it could be.

Now that I’m having super orgasmic pussy eating on my wedge and getting kinky in my restraints, I just don’t want to settle for less.

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If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Pussy Eating Mistakes (It’s Slurpy Summer, Baby!) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!