How to Eat Her Ass Like a Pro

Give her ass the love it deserves

The first time it happened, I was in complete shock.

He was worshipping my ass, which was nothing new. It was his favorite part of my body, so he always gave it plenty of love.

He groped it firmly and gave it gentle spanks. He kissed and licked the soft fleshy mounds of my cheeks. And I didn’t think much of it when he spread them apart, though it did make me feel extremely exposed.

But the last thing I expected was to feel his tongue licking my asshole.

I wasn’t sure how I should feel. I was kind of turned on by how naughty it was. My cheeks (the other ones) felt warm and flushed with embarrassment because — well, because this was my asshole he was licking.

Mostly, I was just plain surprised.

No one had ever tried to eat my ass before. I didn’t even know it was a thing. Countless hours of watching hardcore porn taught me that guys might want to slide their cocks into my asshole but none of it prepared me for a guy who’d want to shove his tongue against it.

It was nowhere near as pleasurable as having my pussy licked and not even close to being as stimulating as getting my ass fucked. But once I got over my confusion, I couldn’t deny that it did feel good.

I still felt weird about it, but really enjoyed the way his soft, wet tongue felt. It was sort of like an anal massage. And I enjoyed the thrill of trying something completely new.

The most appealing part of it, though, is how much he was into it.

The way he lapped his tongue eagerly, gripping his hands into my skin and licking like he was greedy for more fired up my arousal. It was obvious he’d wanted to do this for a long time and I could feel all his pent up horny energy.

As long as my ass was spread for him, I knew I was his fantasy come true. And that’s exactly what I wanted to be.

That was about fifteen years ago and I’ve since married that ass fanatic. Even though it’s not new anymore, he’s just as voracious now, still passionately eating my ass any chance he gets. And when he has trouble achieving an orgasm, letting him put his tongue on me is the most reliable way I can help him come.

It’s a very simple act — you just start licking and stop when it’s time to move on to something else. But over the years, I’ve learned what it takes to make it really fucking enjoyable.

Rub Her With Spit or Lube

If she’s not used to having her ass eaten, you should start by rubbing her asshole with your fingers.

That’s going to be a slightly more familiar feeling than your tongue would be. It’s something she can get comfortable with before you put your mouth on her.

It’s also a good way to gauge how she feels about assplay. If she finds it weird or uncomfortable to have you touch her there, she might decide to change her mind about having you eat her ass. But if she finds it enjoyable, she can give you the green light to go to town on it.

Make sure you lubricate your fingers before you do this. Her asshole is probably a bit more sensitive than you expect it to be and you want your fingers to glide across it smoothly and with as little friction as possible.

Spit works alright for this, as long as you use enough. But it will feel even better for her if you dab a bit of lube on your fingertips before you touch her.

Since it’s her ass, it’s safe to use any kind of lube you want. You can even use flavored lube if you want her to taste like cherries or bubblegum when you’re licking it off.

Show Your Enthusiasm

Maybe eating her ass is your idea of heaven and all you want to do is quietly and dreamily lick her while you take in the moment.

That’s awesome. But you should at least do something to communicate your enjoyment to her.

She’ll want to feel like you’re doing this because you can’t resist her ass, because you want to lick every single inch of her body, and because you want her to feel all the stimulation her body is capable of.

If you’re doing it quietly, though, she’s more likely to feel like you’re doing it just because you want to experiment, or because you think it will make you seem adventurous, not because her body drives you wild.

So, let out a few moans while you’re doing it. Let her hear just how much you’re into it.

And let her feel it, too. Don’t give her timid little licks — eat her ass like you mean it. Slather your tongue against her asshole, get as drooly as you want to get, bury your face between her buttcheeks and go nuts.

Grope the Hell Out of Her

Your tongue might be working her asshole, but your hands should be taking care of every other part of her ass.

There’s only so much your tongue can do. If you want to really show your passion for her and make her feel desired, you have to get handsy.

Grab a firm handful of her ass while you’re eating it. Grope it, massage it, and let her feel your grip on it. Squeeze her hips. Reach your hands up higher to grab her sides and pull her even closer to you.

The way you use your hands might be even hotter for her than what you do with your tongue. So, make sure you do more with them than spread her ass apart.

Say Some Filthy, Reassuring Things

There’s a good chance she feels self-conscious when you’ve got your face buried in her ass — even if she’s the one who asked you to do it.

It’s been a thing in my marriage for years, and I still feel some embarrassment when I’m getting my ass eaten out.

It’s a hard feeling to shake, even if she’s really into it.

So, make sure you talk dirty to her while you’re doing it. It’s not just going to turn her on — it’s also going to reassure her.

Tell her how much you love eating her ass. Tell her how hot her little asshole is. Tell her that doing it turns you the fuck on.

Whatever you’re thinking or feeling in the moment, put it into words and let her know. It’s going to help her relax and just enjoy all the warm, wet sensations you’re giving her.

Get More Lube Before You Fuck

Eating her ass is a really good way to prep her for any kind of penetrative assplay. Using your tongue to warm her up, turn her on, and relax her before anal is a great move.

But it’s not enough.

Yes, you’ve slobbered all over her asshole. It’s wet with your spit and looks ready to fuck. But you still should get the lube.

Spit technically works as lube, but it’s not great lube. And when you’re doing something as challenging as fucking her ass, you’ll want something that will last a lot longer than saliva and will be smoother and slicker, too.

It only takes a few extra seconds and it will make anal better for both of you, so it’s completely worth it.

Devour Her

Eating her ass might not be enough to bring her to orgasm or give her nearly as much pleasure as you would from licking her clit, but it can still be really fucking hot.

It has a very taboo feel to it, which adds to the excitement.

And it can be really good foreplay for some more intense anal action.

There isn’t a lot of technique involved. Let your tongue lick her in whatever way you want. Just make sure you show lots of enthusiasm, make her feel desired, and give her ass the loving treatment it deserves.

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And if you want to hear me talk to my husband about eating ass, check out the Ass Eaters Anonymous (Dirty Boys, Bad Girls, and Tossed Salads) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!