A Wearable Fingering Vibrator? Yes Please!
My review of the Lovense Flexer dual panty vibrator
Getting fingered is one of the finest things life has to offer.
As long as it’s done well, anyway.
And it only takes a few things to make it really fucking good.
Some teasing and playing around helps for sure.
Finding the right speed and pressure too.
You’ll definitely want lots of surface action and plenty of focus on the clit.
For internal stimulation, two fingers is really where it’s at. That gives those fingers better reach and extra control, which means they can give you more pleasure.
Then there’s the come hither motion.
That’s an essential one. Anyone who knows anything about fingering at least knows they’re supposed to move their fingers that way - like they’re beckoning an orgasm.
And it seems that sex toy designers are very aware of it too. Because once in a while, you’ll see a new vibrator that can imitate that exact same motion.
It’s a cool feature for any toy, but it’s even more exciting on the Flexer. Because it’s not just a vibrator that will rub you the right way - it’s a wearable panty vibrator that will hit the same spot a good pair of fingers would. And that opens up a whole lot of very naughty possibilities.
This Toy Has All the Right Moves
The Flexer doesn’t really look like much when you first take it out of the box.
It’s a smooth, checkmark shaped vibrator made with the same pink silicone that’s on all my favorite Lovense toys.
But there’s a lot going on under the surface.
There are two vibrators inside the toy. One of them is in the short, chubby insertable portion that’s meant to stimulate your G-spot. Then there’s another in the external part - that one’s designed to pleasure your clit.
But the most interesting one is the third sneaky little motor they managed to fit in there. That one makes the toy flex, which gives you that come hither action you already know and love.
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It’s not just the third motor that’s sneaky, though. Because it’s also a wearable toy. You can slip it in, slip on some underwear, and the toy will stay in place and go to work on you completely hands-free.
And because it uses Bluetooth, you have unlimited range and can control it super easily from the Lovense app - or let someone else control it for you.
All really awesome stuff and with any luck, it would capture some of the magic of getting fingered properly.
I decided to try it at the end of a really busy day. Kind of on a whim, really. I hadn’t really planned to get myself off, but I had been playing with my sex doll and it got me really turned on. So, I unplugged the Flexer from its charging cord and stuck it down my pants.
I slowly worked it into my pussy and felt how easily it stayed in place. It was even simpler than every other panty vibe I’ve tried - no clip, no magnet, nothing but me and my undies.
I loaded the app and started playing with the vibrations, and they were located exactly where I wanted them to be. The internal vibrations just a couple of inches inside me. The external ones pressing against my clit.
Perfect.
Well, I thought it was perfect. But that’s just because I hadn’t turned on the flexing motion yet so I had no idea how much better it was going to get.
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The come hither motion was smooth. The toy rubbed against my G-spot, which made the vibrations so much more intense.
But what I didn’t expect was that the external portion of the toy would move too. With every flex, the vibrator gently pressed itself into my clit.
I can’t tell you how much that thrilled me. Because it’s not just like having fingers moving inside you - it’s like having them move inside you while a thumb is rubbing against your clit. Which is exactly the kind of stud move that will make you fall in love with someone’s hands.
Clearly, this isn’t amateur hour. The Flexer is a fingering pro. And the sensation was fucking incredible.
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I set the vibrations at the right speed and the toy was rubbing my G-spot and clit at the exact same rhythm. All I had to do was sit back and let it have its way with me.
Between the flexing, the pulsing, and the double vibrations, it didn’t take long for my pleasure to build. I turned the vibrations a bit higher and my hips started grinding almost uncontrollably.
Seconds after I put my phone down and stopped messing with the app, I felt an intense rush of pleasure. All I could do was close my eyes, press my hands down into my seat to hold myself steady, and ride through one hell of a powerful orgasm.
I knew I’d have some fun with the toy, but I was kind of shocked by how much I was enjoying it already. Such an incredible amount of pleasure and I didn’t even have to take my clothes off to experience it.
The Perfect Combination
Toys like this are kind of a problem for me. Because I’ve got a drawer filled with fun things I have to try out and review. But I really, really want to use the Flexer again.
It’s just so damn good.
It’s easy to use. It’s completely hands-free. The vibrations are right where you want them to be. And that flexing action makes it feel even more incredible.
That’s pretty much a perfect combination.
And even though it’s a great solo toy, it would be incredibly fun to use with a partner. It’s an amazing option for long-distance fun, for any kind of control play, and even a bit of teasing in semi-public places.
Maybe not fully public, though. It’s a pretty discreet toy but it’s only quiet-ish. You could probably use it in a somewhat secluded spot or maybe somewhere that’s a bit loud and busy. But you can still hear it through your pants, so I wouldn’t recommend wearing it during a dinner party - unless it’s an Eyes Wide Shut kind of thing.
Using the Flexer isn’t exactly like getting fingered. It doesn’t have the same precision and there’s no thrusting unless you use your hand to do it.
But that’s fine by me because it knows all the important moves and knows exactly how to use them. And that’s really all that matters.
I’m thoroughly impressed with this one. Totally smitten. Ten out of ten, will let it finger me again.
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If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Step Inside the Sex Gym (Coregasms, Gymgasms, and Pull-Up Explosions) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!
