8 Ways to Make a Blowjob Better for Him
Blow him like a good girl
You don’t give a blowjob just to give a blowjob.
Like, you wouldn’t suck a dick just so you can suck a dick.
It’s a lot of work. Your jaw and your neck might get sore. It would get old real fast.
It’s just not worth it.
But that’s okay, because it’s not actually why you do it.
You do it because sucking him off makes you feel like a naughty girl.
You do it because getting a big reaction from him is so fucking hot.
You do it because you want to make him feel amazing - and nothing feels better than a blowjob.
Those are the things that make giving head so damn good.
And the better you do it, the more fun it is.
So, here are a few things you can do to make blowjobs more arousing and stimulating for him - and more exciting for you.
Make It Wet
A wet blowjob really is a better blowjob.
It makes it smoother for you. When his cock is nice and slippery, sliding it past your lips is so much easier - especially if he’s thick.
And it definitely makes it better for him. It’s extra stimulating, highly pleasurable, and it’s the exact sensation he’s craving when he wants to put it in your mouth.
So, make it wet. And not just a bit wet, either. Really wet.
Make it downright sloppy if you can.
Spit is the obvious way to do it. If you can work up so much saliva that you’re practically drooling all over his cock, you’ve got this covered.
If your mouth doesn’t lubricate all that well, you can use flavored lube instead. Get one that tastes like dessert and it’ll be like getting a treat for being such a good little cocksucker.
Or you can try the Slow Sex Mouthwatering Spray. I keep some handy because it absolutely works - one quick spray and you’re salivating like you’re literally hungry for that dick.
Make Yourself Wet
Enthusiastic blowjobs are better blowjobs, too.
The more into it you are, the more playful you’ll be about sucking him off. It’ll encourage you to show off and use all your best moves. It will give you a really sexy attitude, too.
And horny head is the most enthusiastic head you can give.
So if you want to give him an incredible blowjob, make sure you’re super turned on.
You can do whatever you normally do to get yourself all horned up.
Fantasize about getting on your knees and sucking him off. Watch blowjob porn until you practically need a dick in your mouth. Edge yourself at the thought of going down on him.
All of those things can work. But the easiest way to get there is to pleasure yourself while you’re going down on him.
You can rub your pussy while you do it, but I find that kind of distracting. It’s kind of tough to use your fingers when you’re trying to focus on what you’re doing with your mouth.
Using a wearable vibrator is a really good way to make sure you’re as aroused as can be. Especially if you use a remote control toy like the Lush or the Flexer and get him to pleasure you while you’ve got your mouth on him.
Another great option is a toy you can grind or hump. If you’ve got a good sex toy mount, a dildo with a good suction cup base, or a torso doll with a dick, you straddle it and enjoy the ride while you suck him eagerly.
Work Your Tongue
Bobbing for dick ain’t that bad.
If you’ve got him in your mouth and you move your head up and down, he’s going to have a good time.
But bobbing on his cock from start to finish is pretty repetitive. So a really easy way to level up a blowjob is to add some variety to it.
And that means doing some tongue work.
Lick his shaft like a popsicle.
Tease his head with little flicks of your tongue.
Make your tongue flat and run it all over his cock.
If you’re down for it, lap his balls up too.
Adding those extra moves will make you seem way more eager and into it. It will give him lots of different sensations he can enjoy. And it makes blowing him way more fun and interesting for you.
Plus, it means every blowjob you give is going to be at least a bit spontaneous - you’ll never suck him off the exact same way twice.
Blow Him on a Bell Curve
A lot of guys have a spontaneous blowjob fantasy.
It’s the one where you walk up to him, put your hair up in a ponytail, drop to your knees, pull his pants down, and start sucking it like it’s your favorite hobby.
And I get why that’s appealing.
It’s the kind of thing that would make him feel desired. It’s an incredibly confident move. The element of surprise is fun, too.
But an out of the blue blowjob should be a special treat. Because most of the time, it’s hotter to give him a blowjob that doesn’t go so hard right from the start.
If you want to give him a really good experience, start off slow. Tease his cock with your tongue and your lips. Give it soft, slow strokes.
Throw in some dirty talk while you’re at it.
That way, you’re getting him all worked up. You’re building anticipation for your best blowjob moves, instead of giving them to him right away.
Then you can start giving him something more intense. Go faster. Add more suction. Do all the things that make him moan.
If you’re sucking him off to a finish, go for it. Use your mouth to make him come and then have a sweet little aftercare cuddle session.
But if you’re not blowing him to a climax, give yourself time to ease off. Instead of stopping abruptly when you start getting tired or your jaw starts to get sore, slow things down so he knows you’re almost finished.
Basically, you’re giving him a blowjob on a bell curve - slow and soft at first, intense in the middle, then back to being gentle at the end.
If you do that, he’ll be able to tell when the blowjob is coming to an end. And that means he can fully enjoy being in your mouth for one more minute or two.
Look Up at Him
People tend to have pretty strong opinions about eye contact during blowjobs. But I think most people can agree that a tasteful amount of it is good.
If you lock eyes the entire time you’re giving him head, that probably gets a bit unsettling.
Not looking up at all is perfectly fine. You’re busy, he gets it.
But a little bit of eye contact is really hot.
It feels super intimate. It makes you look eager and present. And knowing that you want to see what kind of reaction you’re getting from him is a real turn on.
You can keep your eyes closed the whole time if you want. But if you look up at him a few times, he’ll definitely appreciate it.
Talk Dirty
Dirty talk is just plain hot. And it’s a great way to show that the blowjob’s not just for him - you’re into it too.
And you don’t even have to say anything complicated or creative. You can keep it super simple if you want.
You can compliment him and his cock.
You can tell him you love sucking him off - that it turns you on to give him head.
You can ask him if he likes what you’re doing to his cock, or what he wants you to do to it.
You can just ask if you look cute when you’re sucking him off.
Obviously, your mouth is going to be pretty busy. But a few little filthy phrases is going to be exactly what he wants to hear.
Let Him Fuck Your Mouth
I know some people find facefucking really offputting. And I get it - porn is full of aggressive, gaggy facefucking that doesn’t look all that pleasant.
If that happens to be your jam, then that’s awesome. Go all in. Get him to hold your hair back and fuck your throat until your mascara’s running.
But if you’re like me and that’s not your idea of a good time, you can still make facefucking part of your blowjob. All you have to do is make sure it’s not the aggressive kind.
Ask him to take over and fuck your mouth, but tell him how you want him to do it. Tell him to go slowly. That you just want him to use the head of his cock. To be gentle and not go too deep.
Whatever it takes for it to feel good for you, not just for him.
It’s a good way to add variety and make a blowjob more interesting. It lets him take over and be more active instead of just sitting back and looking down at you. It will make him feel dominant, even if you’re the one asking for it. And it makes you look like a dirty girl, which is just plain hot.
Play With His Come
If you’re a swallower, you don’t have to read this part. You’ve got the end of your blowjob down and you get a sticker for being such a good girl.
But if you’re a spitter or you prefer not to have him finish in your mouth at all, you can give him an extra hot finish by playing with his come.
Your mileage is going to vary on this one. It depends on how you feel about come in general - and probably how horny you are in the moment.
But messing around with the mess he makes is really playful and naughty, and it ends the blowjob on a high note.
Spit the come down to your tits. Squeeze your tits together after he blows his load on them so it spreads all over. Rub the head of his cock into his spunk.
That way, you’re giving him a really good show that keeps him turned on while he’s coming down from his climax.
It’s also the kind of dirty girl move that immediately earns a spot in his spank bank.
Be a Little Extra
Sometimes, it’s better to just give a lazy blowjob.
It could be what you’re in the mood for. You might want to treat him to a little mouth action without getting all worn out from it. Or you’re only a wee bit turned on, and a lazy blowjob is perfect for when you’re just kinda horny.
It’s all good.
But once in a while, you’ll feel like going a little harder. You’ll want that rewarding feeling you get from giving an A+ blowjob. You’ll want plenty of dirty praise and you’re willing to work for it.
That’s when you pull out moves like these. Because when you give him head this good, you’re not just blowing him - you’re also blowing his socks off.
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