On Valentine’s Day, Try a Couples Sex Toy (Buzz Liquid Vibrator and OptiMALE Rechargeable Vibrating C-Ring Review)

Feb 9

Feb 9 On Valentine’s Day, Try a Couples Sex Toy (Buzz Liquid Vibrator and OptiMALE Rechargeable Vibrating C-Ring Review)

Enhancing your pleasure together is romantic

I’ve always done the sweet stuff on Valentine’s Day.

Mr. Austin and I usually have a little date night together at home. We cook something special or elaborate. We’ll have dessert. Some years, we’ve done drinks, too.

We’ll spend time together. We’ll snuggle. He’ll give me a sensual massage.

And then we’ll have sex.

But there was nothing special about it. We’d have great sex, but we didn’t do anything to spice it up.

This year, we agreed to do things differently. We’d do something sweet, but we’d plan something sexy, too.

So, I got some sex toys that I thought would be perfect. I wanted something that felt intimate, something that could enhance the sex we were having while still keeping us physically close. I have plenty of toys that we can and do use together, but I wanted one we could use while I felt his skin pressed against mine, his hot breath on my neck, and his cock inside me.

My plan was to use an arousal gel to hopefully make me as horny as I was at 19 and a couples sex toy so that I could get intense orgasms without feeling like the toy was putting any distance between us.

I couldn’t wait for Valentine’s Day, though. I decided to try them out early. And I’m glad I did because they were even better than I thought they would be.

Getting Myself Worked Up

Every night, my husband and I spend a little time apart. We split up for bedtime (I put the girls to bed, he handles the boys). Then, he finishes any chores that are left over and I might spend a bit of time doing some last minute work.

After all that’s done, we spend the rest of the evening with each other. That little stretch of time apart makes it feel even better when we finally get to lay in bed together.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder, I guess. But a little arousal gel doesn’t hurt. So, that evening, while Mr. Austin was doing his thing and I was waiting for him, I rubbed some of it on so I’d be ready for him.

My relationship with arousal products has been a little hit or miss. I’ve tried some that just burned. Sometimes I got a tingly cooling sensation to the point of discomfort. But when they didn’t send me running to the shower to wash it off, arousal products did a decent job of amplifying the horniness I already felt.

This time, I tried Doc Johnson’s BUZZ Liquid Vibrator arousal gel. I put a modest amount on my clit and then hung out in my bedroom.

Within a few minutes, the Liquid Vibrator started doing its thing. My clit warmed up, but in a very pleasant way. The gel lived up to its name because the feeling it gave me settled into a slightly buzzy, stimulating sensation.

My clit was swollen and gently throbbing. It made me really wet, and it felt even better when I squeezed my thighs together.

All those physical sensations focused my mind. No matter how many things I was doing, part of my mind was always on the stuff I was going to do once Mr. Austin came to bed.

I think it might be the submissive in me, but I love the feeling of being so aroused it’s like something is taking control of my body. I couldn’t wait for my husband to take advantage of it.

I might not place tea lights throughout the room, spread rose petals on the bed, or put on soft string music. But I like to think that making myself vulnerably horny is my way of being romantic.

The Best Kind of Struggle-Fuck

I didn’t waste any time when he came into the room. I asked for a massage and locked the door while he grabbed the silicone lube.

I stripped down to my panties and lied on the bed. He rubbed my shoulders, my back, and my sides.

I felt pleasantly relaxed. But I was also a little eager. The arousal gel was still working its magic, so when he started massaging my thighs, I spread my legs for him. He knew exactly what that meant, and his fingers rubbed my clit and made me come a couple of times.

Normally, we keep this going for a while — a massage tends to be a slow start to sex — but I was too excited.

I told Mr. Austin to get the chocolate-flavored lube and I sucked him off for as long as my jaw could take it. Then, he went down on me until I told him we should use the new toy I got.

The toy was the OptiMALE Rechargeable Vibrating C-Ring, also by Doc Johnson. It’s a silicone cockring with a vibrator. I swore off vibrating cockrings years ago because they just didn’t do anything for me. But this year, I tried one that did so I let them back into my life. And this one was promising because the vibrator is fairly large and it sits at about a 45 degree angle, so it should spend more time in contact with my clit.

Mr. Austin used some water-based lube and slid it on. He’s on the thicker side, so he had to stretch it out a bit to get it on, but it rested comfortably at the base of his shaft once he did.

I climbed on top of him first and rode him reverse cowgirl. The vibrator hit my clit intermittently and I liked the extra sensation it gave me. It didn’t work perfectly, but it encouraged me to ride him longer than I normally do (I don’t have pornstar stamina).

After that, I needed to rest my legs, but I wasn’t done fucking. I laid on my back and Mr. Austin adjusted the toy so the vibrator would be at the right angle for him to be on top.

As soon as he thrust into me, I could feel the toy’s full power. I absolutely love missionary style sex, but this made it so much more intense. It was exactly what I wanted out of my early Valentine’s Day sex — his body pressed against mine, his hands on me, his breath on my neck, his dirty words in my ear, and the vibrator pressed between us.

This was way better than reverse cowgirl, and not just because I got to be a little lazy. The toy vibrated my clit the entire time, and with every thrust, I felt it press a little firmer against me.

All of the sensations mixed together and felt amazing. I could feel my pleasure building up quickly, but there was nothing fast about the release that came at the end.

I came really hard and I felt like I couldn’t stop. My orgasm lasted so much longer than I expected it to. I have no idea if it was the longest orgasm I ever had, but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was. The longer it went, the stronger it got.

It was so intense that my husband struggled to keep fucking me. My legs were squeezing tightly around him, but I was so lost in my pleasure that he didn’t want to stop.

And I’m so incredibly thankful that he powered through and struggle-fucked me because it gave me one of the strongest orgasms I’ve ever had.

What’s More Romantic than a Stronger Orgasm?

My advice for Valentine’s Day is to keep all the romantic stuff but don’t just have regular sex. Make it special.

Do the chocolates. Do the flowers. But when you do each other, make sure you do each other really well.

If you don’t have a good couples sex toy yet, Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to try one. You get all the intimacy and connection you do from romantic sex — but you get more intense pleasure along with it.

And I can’t think of a better way to say “I love you” than with an orgasm that’s so strong it feels like it might never end.

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