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This Toy Bangs My Butt Perfectly

This Toy Bangs My Butt Perfectly

My review of the A-Play Rise thrusting buttplug

Until I started playing with anal toys, I had to make a few guesses about what my ass would prefer. And some of my assumptions were way off.

Like, I thought I’d enjoy playing with glass and steel buttplugs.

So, my first buttplug ended up being made of glass. It was gorgeous, shiny, and with a beautiful black heart as the base. And it just so happened to be a sweet, spicy gift from my husband, so I really wanted to like it.

But I couldn’t. The rigid material made it so tough to use. It just wasn’t anything like the comfortable anal experience I could get from a really good assfucking.

If I was going to love anal toys, I’d have to stick to softer silicone buttplugs instead. Which was a disappointing realization, because it meant I couldn’t use silicone lube with them. 

That was my second false assumption. 

I hadn’t trained my ass all that much, so any kind of anal play was still challenging. I needed all the help I could get, and I figured that meant I’d need silicone lube and lots of it. 

I’d already had some great anal experiences with silicone lube. It was slick, long-lasting, and made penetration so much easier.

But silicone on silicone is a sexual faux pas. And I got confirmation of that when I used silicone lube on a silicone vibrator and permanently ruined its texture.

In the end, that wasn’t actually a problem. Turns out I was wrong about lube, too. Because when I discovered the wonderful world of water-based anal lube, I never really went back to silicone. I had no reason to - it was as thick and slippery as I needed it to be, easier to wash, and compatible with condoms and any kind of sex toy.

Since then, it’s been silicone butt toys and water-based lube all the way.

But there’s still a third thing I was wrong about. 

Vibrations.

I was a big fan of them on my clit and in my pussy, but didn’t think I’d love them in my ass.

Maybe they’d be uncomfortable. Maybe they wouldn’t feel like much. At best, they might tickle in a pleasant way.

Those were my best guesses until I actually got a vibrating buttplug and experienced it for myself.

Those anal vibrations weren’t subtle. They didn’t feel weird. And they definitely weren’t uncomfortable.

They were intensely pleasurable. They didn’t just tickle - they made me come really fucking hard.

So, it took a bit of trial and error but I finally got a good sense of what I need for a great time with a butt toy.

I need the softness of silicone, the slickness of a proper anal lube, and the intense pleasure of something vibrating deep in my ass.

That combination is almost perfect. It’s just missing one thing.

It’s missing the thrusting. The motion in the ocean. And ideally, I could get that kind of action completely hands-free.

I’m always down to level up my anal fun, so I couldn’t wait to go all-out on pleasuring my ass. All I needed was a buttplug that could do it all. 

A Brand New Anal Adventure

After looking for around for a toy that has all the features I wanted, I settled on the A-Play Rise buttplug

It’s got the right material - smooth, black silicone.

It has ten vibration settings, so I’m pretty much guaranteed to find a few that give my ass the right kind of stimulation.

And the most exciting part - six different thrusting speeds so the toy can either fuck me gently or give it to me real good.

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There are two buttons at the bottom of the base. But those would be a little tricky to mess with while this toy is busy banging my backdoor. Thankfully, it also comes with a remote. It’s a simple one, with just two buttons - one to control the thrusts and vibrations, the other to turn them on or off.

The only thing I wasn’t totally sure about was how difficult it might be to insert.

It’s not the size that was intimidating. It’s close to five inches in girth - or 1.5 inches wide. That’s a decent but very manageable size.

It does have 5.5 inches of insertable length. But as someone who thoroughly enjoys a dick or a dildo in my ass, that length was part of the appeal. 

It’s the design made it look like a bit of a challenge.

There’s only a slight taper at the tip of the toy. It’s rounded and smooth, but the shape doesn’t do much to help you ease into the girth.

The toy bulges out in two spots instead of one, which means you have to work through the full thickness of the toy twice to get it all the way in.

In between those bulges, there are a few ridges. That’s where the thrusting action happens, so it makes sense that the silicone folds like an accordion when the shaft isn’t extended. But it’s one more little obstacle between your sensitive asshole and the joys of full penetration.

It would probably take a bit of extra effort to get this toy inside me. But if the thrusting is as good as I imagined it to be, it would absolutely be worth the trouble. 

So, I kicked things off with all the things I needed to get ready for this kind of toy. A little bit of patience. Plenty of my favorite anal lube. Gentle clit stimulation to warm myself up. And some great anal inspo - porn scenes with cute girls enthusiastically taking dicks that are definitely thicker than this buttplug.

Once I felt ready, I laid on my side, arched my back, and softly pushed the tip of the buttplug against my asshole. Thanks to a generous amount of lube and a couple of relaxation techniques, I managed to slowly slide it halfway without much trouble.

That’s when I picked up the remote and turned on the vibrations.

The buzzing buttplug gave me the same amazing stimulation I’ve experienced before. The vibrations kicked the pleasure up a few notches and instantly increased my arousal.

That made me feel ready for more, so I turned on the thrusting. My breath hitched the moment I felt that beautiful sensation - the girth, the vibrations, and now a pumping shaft that made me feel like I was getting fucked slowly and sweetly.

I definitely wasn’t in a timid mood anymore. I was turned on and craving the full experience. The pleasure made my body open up and fully relax. Before I knew it, I had pushed the toy all the way in and was experiencing nearly six inches of silicone thrusting deep in my ass. 

And I honestly wasn’t ready for how good it was.

Yeah, I’d had the anal vibrations before. My ass has been fucked and pounded, too.

But this was something entirely new.

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The buttplug was thrusting inside my ass, but it felt like it was tapping against my G-spot. The vibrations were so deep and intense that I could feel them in my pussy too. 

The Rise was pleasuring everything inside me. Between the thrusting and vibrations, it was doing a lot - and practically every sensitive part of my anatomy was along for the ride. 

The stimulation was intense, but not quite enough to push me over the edge. The toy was edging me - keeping me just on the verge of an orgasm but never quite getting me there. 

It was such a perfect sensation, and I didn’t want to do anything to lose it - not yet. I was sure that even a little shift in my hips would make me spill over into an orgasm, so I did my best to stay still and moan through the pleasure. 

I felt my pussy twitching in rhythm with the thrusting, like it was begging the toy to make it come. I couldn’t wait anymore, either. I started rubbing my clit and felt a bright rush of pleasure as soon as my fingers touched it.

I came so hard I lost the ability to speak. My lips made all sorts of involuntary shapes, but I couldn’t let out a single sound. The vibrations never stopped and the toy kept fucking my asshole at a perfect rhythm, extending my orgasm and pushing me further than I could’ve if I was doing it to myself.

I groped around for the remote and turned off the thrusting before this incredible climax turned into a round of anal orgasm torture. I pulled the toy out and just laid there, smiling, letting my heartbeat return to normal, and feeling happy knowing that I finally had a way to have an incredibly satisfying assfuck all on my own.

Your Ass Deserves a Great Thruster Like This One

I don’t even have to think twice about this. I highly recommend the Rise - full stop.

The vibrations are fantastic and the thrusting is incredibly satisfying.

The pleasure is deep, intense, and even managed to reach my pussy.

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Because it gives you a hands-free, automated pounding, you can let it work your ass over while you play with your clit, get your partner off, or just lose yourself in the pleasure.

It’s waterproof too, so you can really intensify your bathsturbation habit.

And the one thing I worried about didn’t even end up being much of a problem. Sure, a more pointed tip would’ve made it easier to get things started. But the rounded shape is so much more enjoyable when it’s thrusting inside you, and that’s what really counts.

You’ll need some good anal lube for this one. And if you’re not used to playing with buttplugs, it might take a bit of practice to get it all the way in. But it’s totally worth it for the all the anal edging and mindblowing orgasms this toy can give you.

This post contains affiliate links to the A-Play Rise. If you click on one and treat yourself to anything from the site, I earn a small commission and you’ll be enjoying some seriously satisfying anal stimulation! And be sure to use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 15% on your entire order from Betty’s Toy Box!

If you liked this article, you should totally check out the Pussy Magic (Vaginal Suction, Tantric Cupping, and the Refractory Mystery) episode of my dirty and intimate sex podcast, Pillow Talk With Emma Austin!

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