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I Just Discovered My Favorite Sex Toy

I Just Discovered My Favorite Sex Toy

Review of the Pillow Talk Sultry wand vibrator



I wanted to like wand toys - I really did. But no matter how fascinating I found them, it took me a long time to actually enjoy them.

I was intrigued by the sheer size of them. They were nothing like the compact bullets and discreet rabbits I used to buy for myself.

Mostly, I wanted to see what all the hype was about. So many women swore by the Magic Wand. It was their favorite way to get off. Some of them even said it was the only way they could get off.

Maybe I was missing out on something really fucking good.

Well, I tried it and I didn’t have the same experience, not even close.

When I finally got a Magic Wand and tried it out for myself, it did a real number on me.

It was so fucking powerful that I could barely handle it. I know that’s the reason so many people love it, but my clit is way too sensitive for that kind of intense stimulation.

The strong vibrations desensitized me, made my clit feel numb, and it took so long for me to actually get an orgasm from it that I ended up feeling sore for days.

It’s hard to describe the sensation, but it was like getting rug burn on my clit.

So, the Magic Wand was definitely not for me.

Still, I wasn’t ready to give up on wands just yet.

At the time, I was also suffering from arthritis caused by an imbalance in my hormones. It made all sorts of daily tasks more difficult. Sadly, that included masturbation. A lot of my favorite sex toys became difficult to hold in place and use properly.

It might have come close to ruining my pussy for good, but the Magic Wand’s long handle made it so easy to use. And its large vibrating head needed less precision to get results - no matter where I placed it, it stimulated most of my vulva.

Wands had the right shape for me. I just needed to find one that I could handle.

I finally found the right wand for me. Not just one that I found enjoyable, but one that I could use regularly. And that surprised me, because I mostly chose it for a pretty ridiculous reason.

I’m a Sucker for Cute

When I decided to try the Sultry by Pillow Talk, it wasn’t because I thought it would give me the right kind of vibrations. It was partly because it was cute. It’s got a soft, rounded look and comes in a nice shade of teal.

And I was really curious about the way it moves. Unlike most wand toys I’ve seen, the neck that connects the head of the toy to its body is surprisingly supple, which gives it quite a bit of bend.

The coolest feature, though, is that it has a tail that wiggles.

The bottom of the Sultry’s handle has a motor in it that provides vibrations at the base, and a function that makes it rotate in a circular pattern.

I had no idea how that would feel, but it looked fun as fuck and I really wanted to find out.

But the main reason I ended up getting it is the name. It’s a Pillow Talk toy, and that just happens to be the name of my podcast.

I know that’s a frivolous way to choose a sex toy, but I just love the feeling of all the stars aligning like the universe is telling me to jill off in a specific way. And who am I to oppose the universe?

Besides, no matter what, it’s going to make me come. So why not roll the dice and see if it’s more than just a nice name and a pretty color.

Now, I’m not a very superstitious person, but I’m glad I followed my gut because the universe did not steer me wrong with this one.

Taking the Rotations for a Spin

The worst part about getting a new toy is the wait time before you actually get to use it.

You have to plug it into your laptop’s USB port and wait a few hours for it to charge. I also like to set everything up so I can take some photos of the toy before I use it, because it feels a lot classier to get shots of a toy before it’s been inside me.

I was feeling really impatient with this one because I wanted to see what that spinning tail could do.

Once it had charged and I had some privacy, that’s what I tried first. I lied in bed with the toy, turned on the rotations, and let the tail dance around my clit.

It was a nice, teasing feeling. Very gentle but a really good way to get things started. I played with the settings and the higher I turned it up, the better it felt.

Then I slowly slid the toy inside my pussy. I rubbed my clit and used the other hand to fuck myself with the toy.

The tail rotating inside me felt good. It didn’t hit my G-spot very well, but I still felt myself getting closer and closer to an orgasm, so I fucked myself more quickly.

It might not have pin-pointed the G-spot, but it did the job. I came with it and had a very pleasurable preliminary orgasm - the kind that feels great but still leaves you wanting more.

I was already impressed with the toy, but I wanted to know how well it worked as a wand.

I turned it on at the lowest setting and braced myself for some intense rumbling. I was worried it would be another wand I could barely handle, but it wasn’t. I was shocked at how amazing the feeling was. The lowest setting wasn’t overpowering, even for a sensitive gal like myself.

It felt fucking incredible on my clit. I was finally getting to experience a wand that I felt I could use on my terms. I didn’t have to hold it so it only gave me indirect stimulation. I didn’t have to take it on and off so I could avoid getting numbed from it. It felt perfect - the way I always hoped a wand would feel.

I held it against my clit until I felt the pleasure building and my muscles tensing. My orgasm came quickly but it didn’t feel weak at all.

I could’ve stopped there and had enough, but I wanted to put it to the real test. I wanted to see how it held up to my favorite masturbation style - lying on my stomach and riding a toy.

Wands are tricky for that position. The long handle is really convenient - until you try lying on top of it.

I had to position the Sultry so the tail was pointing down toward my feet. That way, I could hump the head of the toy without the handle getting in the way.

I turned the toy on, grinded against it, and felt the rumbly vibrations pressed close against my pussy.

The big head of the toy spread the sensations out all over. The pressure from lying on top of it made my clit feel amazing. It was hitting the exact right note of being highly stimulating without being overwhelming.

All of those feelings combined felt just right. I was grinding it quickly and feeling my orgasm building up even faster.

All that pleasure took over. It didn’t take long before it felt like I had lost a little bit of control over myself. I kept grinding it hard until I had a breath-taking orgasm. It was the most intense one yet. I was out of breath, out of energy, and grateful that I didn’t have to try another position because I was spent and satisfied.

My New Favorite

The more I used the Sultry, the more I figured out how to get the most out of it.

Fucking myself with the rotating tail was really pleasurable. But when I played with it again, I discovered that making a circular motion with my hand while I slid it in and out of myself felt so much better, hit my G spot and made me come even harder.

I’ve also really liked using it while lying on my side. It’s a really comfortable and satisfying way to use it in bed. I’ll get in that position, watch porn on my laptop or listen to audio porn on my earbuds, hold the toy between my legs, and grind my pussy against it until I have a really big finish.

The Sultry is waterproof too, so I’ve taken it in the bath with me for some high-quality alone time. I love when a company makes their toys waterproof because it shows that they really get it. They know that most women can barely get any time to themselves except when they’re taking a bath. A toy you can play with under a layer of bubbles is practically essential for some of us.

There were a lot of things that surprised me about the Sultry, but the biggest one is how often I’ve been using it.

When I get a new toy, I usually play with it a lot for a week or so and then it goes into my rotation with all the other ones.

This one isn’t in the rotation. It’s part of the main cast.

I keep reaching for it. Since I got this toy, I’ve been using it almost exclusively. The shape of the head, the wiggly rotations of the tail, the flexible neck, and the perfect rumbly settings makes it the right toy for just about any way I want to get myself off.

The base also has a warming function, which is nice though it’s not an essential feature for me.

I’m even pleased with the controls. It locks and you have to press the button three times in a row to get it started, which is cool because it means I can carry it from the bedroom to the bathroom without accidentally turning it on (I’m clumsy, okay?)

But what I’m most intrigued by is the fact that you increase the speed of the vibrations by holding down the buttons. When you tap the button, it turns off. When you tap it again, it starts back at the lowest speed.

That might not sound like a big deal, but the fact that it can quickly and easily turn off and go back to the lowest mode makes it a perfect toy for edging.

Ever since I’ve realized that, I’ve made a mental note to ask Mr. Austin to tie me up and edge me with the toy over my panties.

And if that’s as incredible as I imagine it will be, I’m going to be using this toy even more than I already am.

I can’t recommend this toy enough. I’ve enjoyed the Sultry so fucking much since I got it, and I’m willing to bet it would be a good addition to your personal collection - even if the universe isn’t telling you to get it.

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